{"id":16807,"date":"2018-03-22T13:36:18","date_gmt":"2018-03-22T13:36:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16807"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:59:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:59:00","slug":"eres-una-leccion-que-desearia-no-haber-aprendido-nunca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/eres-una-leccion-que-desearia-no-haber-aprendido-nunca\/","title":{"rendered":"Eres una lecci\u00f3n que desear\u00eda no haber aprendido nunca"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfOyes eso? Ese es el sonido de mi coraz\u00f3n rompi\u00e9ndose porque me traicionaste de la peor manera posible. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me diste la esperanza de que me amar\u00edas, <\/span>sin ninguna intenci\u00f3n de hacerlo<\/span><\/a>. \u00bfC\u00f3mo pudiste hacerme eso? \u00bfC\u00f3mo pudiste hacerle algo as\u00ed a la mujer que te amaba m\u00e1s que a s\u00ed misma? <\/span><\/p>\n

I admit it\u2014it was my biggest mistake but I can\u2019t turn back time. I can just learn a lesson from the shitty behavior you showed me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hiciste todo lo que estuvo en tu mano para alejarme una vez que mostr\u00e9 inter\u00e9s por ti. Alejaste a la chica que realmente quer\u00eda ser tuya. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y<\/span>ou see, I didn\u2019t want the moon and the stars. I just wanted you to love me like I loved you. I just wanted you to try as hard as I was trying. I just wanted you to fight for me, but you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todo lo que siempre quise fue tu amor.<\/h2>\n

Incluso acept\u00e9 todos tus defectos y tu equipaje del pasado. Intent\u00e9 comprenderte cada vez que ten\u00edas problemas y estuve ah\u00ed para abrazarte y decirte que todo ir\u00eda bien. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if that helped you, but I gave my best to make you feel better. I gave it all for the man I loved but who couldn\u2019t love me back. And that was all I wanted all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tomar tu mano con orgullo y mostrarte al mundo en lugar de reunirme contigo a escondidas en sucias habitaciones de hotel. Pero acept\u00e9 todo eso porque pens\u00e9 que cambiar\u00edas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 que mi amor te cambiar\u00eda. Pens\u00e9 que ver\u00edas cu\u00e1nto amor y cari\u00f1o hab\u00eda en cada caricia, en cada beso, en cada abrazo. Pero como siempre, te perdiste de ver eso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca recib\u00ed el trato que merec\u00eda y siempre me conformaba con menos de lo que merec\u00eda porque te quer\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que me trataras con respeto.<\/h2>\n

So tell me, did I ask too much from you? Was it too much to ask the man I loved to treat me like I deserved to be treated? You know that I never asked anything that you couldn\u2019t give me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t ask for diamonds and stars. I just asked for your love and some respect\u2014respect that would make me stay. I just wanted to see you trying as hard as me. If you had tried a little bit harder, maybe we would have made it then.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a1Pero eso fue demasiado para ti!<\/h2>\n

You had some twisted idea of love in your head that didn\u2019t make any sense. You wanted me to give you the girlfriend benefits while you didn\u2019t give me boyfriend benefits at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was good only when I was sleeping with you, but when I wanted to meet the people that are important to you, you didn\u2019t have the guts to admit to them that we were dating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Even if I deserved all the relationship benefits, you never gave any to me. You weren\u2019t ready to do anything for me, even if I did even the impossible for you. You didn\u2019t care about me at all. But you should have.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to accept me.<\/h2>\n

You always wanted to change me and to mold me into someone who was a \u2018<\/span>novia perfecta<\/span><\/a>\u2019 according to your taste. With you, I experienced an almost love\u2014the type when you don\u2019t know if you are with someone or not<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were keeping me close because that was convenient for you, but on the other hand, you didn\u2019t want to commit fully because you were scared. And trust me, there was nothing to be scared about. But you missed seeing that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Echabas de menos ver a una mujer frente a ti con el coraz\u00f3n en la manga. La que se estremec\u00eda cada vez que te ve\u00eda. Una chica que era mucho m\u00e1s de lo que te merec\u00edas.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to put me first.<\/h2>\n

For you, I was always a second option\u2014a girl who will be there when everyone else abandons you. The one who doesn\u2019t ask much but kisses and hugs you every time life slaps you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fui la chica que se qued\u00f3 a tu lado incluso cuando las cosas iban tan mal que cualquier otra persona probablemente se habr\u00eda marchado si estuviera en mi lugar. Pero estuve a tu lado. Y todo lo que hice, lo hice por los dos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Too bad that you never saw that. But maybe you didn\u2019t want to see, right? Because it was much easier to close your eyes to the good things I did for you because you could convince me that you owed me nothing after all. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9 fue lo peor? En realidad pensaste que siempre estar\u00eda ah\u00ed, mendig\u00e1ndote migajas de tu amor. Pero estabas muy equivocado.<\/p>\n

Me cans\u00e9 de ser el \u00fanico que lo intentaba.<\/h2>\n

Admit it\u2014you were actually okay with losing me. You thought that there are other girls who are much better than me and will give you the love and affection I gave you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even want to fight for me when I wanted you to do that. You were indifferent the whole time. And that is exactly the opposite of love. When you are indifferent, you feel the same whether someone is there or not.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need that person like the air you breathe. But too bad that I needed you even more than the air I was breathing. I needed you more than I have ever needed anything in my life. And you not giving a damn about me was something that made my whole world fall apart. <\/span><\/p>\n

The day when you didn\u2019t choose me, you actually lost me. Me perdiste para siempre<\/a> and there wasn\u2019t a way that you could bring me back.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por mucho que quisiera quedarme, me alejabas.<\/h2>\n

Me alejaste cada vez que tuve que rogarte que me escucharas. Me alejaste al no preocuparte por m\u00ed cuando m\u00e1s te necesitaba. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me alejaste con tu indiferencia y falta de amor. Me alejaste sin intenci\u00f3n de luchar por m\u00ed y reconquistarme. <\/span><\/p>\n

So I am asking you: \u201cAre you happy now?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

En realidad perdiste a una chica que quer\u00eda ser tuya.<\/h2>\n

Y s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda tu amor y tu afecto. Quer\u00eda que me miraras y pensaras que tienes mucha suerte de tenerme. Quer\u00eda que admiraras las cosas que hago y que me dijeras que estabas orgulloso de m\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t want those bad words from your mouth. I didn\u2019t want gaslighting, lying and manipulation. But unfortunately, that was all I got from you. I never got the unconditional love I craved so much. <\/span><\/p>\n

I never got all those magical moments that people in love have the chance to experience. You didn\u2019t know to provide me with the only thing I needed from you\u2014love!<\/span><\/p>\n

After you realize that you won\u2019t have a girl like me anymore, you will try to find me in every other woman but you won\u2019t find me. No woman will treat you like I did, look at you with admiration and proudness and no one will ever put you first like I did.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ninguno de ellos se quedar\u00e1 contigo cuando les muestres tu verdadero rostro. Eso es algo de lo que s\u00f3lo yo era capaz.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero la conclusi\u00f3n es que en realidad tengo que darte las gracias por esta lecci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have realized how strong I was. I would never have started cherishing myself enough to start a new chapter of my life with someone who is worthy of my love and everything that I can give. <\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you ever see me again don\u2019t look at me like I was shattered. I am just a breathtaking mosaic of the battles I\u2019ve won!<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you hear that? That is the sound of my heart breaking because you betrayed me in the worst possible way. You gave me hope that you will love me, without any intention to do so. How could you do that to me? How could you do something like this to the woman that loved…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":30620,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16807","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/adult-blur-bonnet-246804-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16807","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16807"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16807\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30620"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}