{"id":168146,"date":"2024-07-11T14:47:55","date_gmt":"2024-07-11T14:47:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168146"},"modified":"2024-07-11T15:11:13","modified_gmt":"2024-07-11T15:11:13","slug":"la-soledad-de-la-maternidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-soledad-de-la-maternidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Una mujer llora diciendo que la maternidad nunca fue para una sola persona"},"content":{"rendered":"

You can\u2019t really understand the full meaning of the old proverb \u201cIt takes a village to raise a child\u201d <\/em><\/strong>until you become a mom. Then you get the picture of how parenting is a very tough job and you’re surprised by how many things you have to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Navegar por motherhood in today\u2019s world includes a whole set of struggles.<\/strong> You need to take care of the kids, cook, and maintain the household. Then there\u2019s a mental load \u2013 an overwhelming list of tasks that moms keep track of daily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re a working mom then it gets even harder. You\u2019re under constant stress, compaginar las responsabilidades profesionales con las necesidades familiares, <\/strong>and there\u2019s little time for self-care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los medios sociales le sirven para glimpses of someone else\u2019s life and creates pressure to be perfect.<\/strong> Te sientes incapaz y culpable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero una de las luchas m\u00e1s ignoradas de la maternidad es que Las madres se enfrentan a menudo a sentimientos de aislamiento y soledad. <\/strong>En parte porque su nuevo horario no les deja tiempo para socializar, y en parte porque sus amigos sin hijos de repente se vuelven distantes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una mujer entre l\u00e1grimas habl\u00f3 de ello en un v\u00eddeo<\/a> en TikTok:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMothers and children are like a forgotten species in our modern-day society\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n
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Cr\u00e9dito: @wearemanenough<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Woman explains that when you become a mother people start treating you like you\u2019re not the same person anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cLike you become a mom and then suddenly you\u2019re like pushed out, \u2018go find your mommy and me group\u2019, \u2018go figure it out on your own\u2019, and \u2018we\u2019ll see you when you can be productive again.\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

A continuaci\u00f3n, presenta una perspectiva reveladora, hablando de la idea esencial de la maternidad tradicional.<\/strong> Algo que hab\u00edamos olvidado:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThe job of being a mother, it feels a lot for one person, because it was never meant to be for one person. It was meant for a village.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Quiere destacar la importancia de <\/strong>cuidado que es crucial para las madres modernas porque suelen carecen de todo apoyo mientras soportan una carga muy pesada.<\/strong> Also, there is tremendous change happening in women\u2019s lives and they need help to adjust to it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cThey need rest, they need proper nutrition. They need help, they need love, they need loving touch. They, you know, to just help them through this transition from woman to mother.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Otros TikTokers (mujeres, por supuesto) estuvieron de acuerdo y compartieron sus experiencias en lo solo que se siente ser madre.<\/strong> Alguien escribi\u00f3 c\u00f3mo incluso los amigos dejan de invitarte a eventos o reuniones porque:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe didn\u2019t think you\u2019d want to come because of the baby\u201d<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Los comentarios mostraban c\u00f3mo las mujeres se sienten realmente excluidas y aisladas cuando se convierten en madres. <\/strong>La mayor\u00eda se mostr\u00f3 de acuerdo con su afirmaci\u00f3n y a\u00f1adi\u00f3 c\u00f3mo la sociedad fija grandes expectativas para las mujeres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI feel like motherhood meant for us but we weren\u2019t meant to do all the other things society expects from us.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Luego, cuando te conviertes en madre, la gente se comporta como si la maternidad te hubiera hecho perder la inteligencia:<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: @wearemanenough<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Entonces la met\u00e1fora de la aldea adquiere su verdadero significado:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cRight?! I always wondered what people were talking about, but now I\u2019m a mother I totally get what they mean by a \u2018village\u2019.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Hay falta de apoyo y empat\u00eda<\/strong> ya que la gente cree que ser padre es una elecci\u00f3n personal y que nadie deber\u00eda preocuparse por ello:<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: @wearemanenough<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Sometimes you have to make your own \u201csociety\u201d as the one you are coming from is doing everything to make it hard for you. Friends and coworkers often perceive women who use maternity leave as unsuccessful and lazy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cit’s true, I’ve returned to work and I feel like I’m being shamed for having been off work, and potentially wanting more children.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Cuando las mujeres eligen ser amas de casa, la gente empieza a hacerlas sentir que no valen nada:<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: @wearemanenough<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Societal pressure is causing women to feel bad because they\u2019re not contributing financially while they are stay-at-home moms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, it\u2019s quite common: you\u2019ve been there for everyone, and now when you\u2019re in need they disappear in thin air:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI was everyones village. Now that i have my own i have no one.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

However, we shouldn\u2019t forget what it\u2019s like for those women who don’t plan on having kids.<\/strong> Society requires women to be moms if they want to be accepted and perceived as a part of the group. Those who don\u2019t have children are looked down upon even by women:<\/p>\n\n\n

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Cr\u00e9dito: @wearemanenough<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Incluso ellos reciben el tratamiento de aislamiento:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cthe opposite has happened to me. i don\u2019t want children and all my friends have had them, i no longer get included.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Ser mujer hoy en d\u00eda conlleva muchos retos. Con hijos o sin ellos, the feeling of exclusion is something you\u2019ll probably face one way or another.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero puede encontrar su pueblo<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Busca grupos locales de padres, comunidades en l\u00ednea o en las redes sociales donde puedas conectar con otras madres. Crear una es esencial para compartir experiencias, consejos y apoyo emocional.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will help you understand that you\u2019re doing an amazing job, help you with your doubts, and remind you to celebrate your accomplishments!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You can\u2019t really understand the full meaning of the old proverb \u201cIt takes a village to raise a child\u201d until you become a mom. Then you get the picture of how parenting is a very tough job and you’re surprised by how many things you have to do. Navigating motherhood in today\u2019s world includes a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":168147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29814],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29814,"label":"Stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Woman-Cries-Saying-Motherhood-Was-Never-Meant-To-Be-For-One-Person-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29814,"name":"Stories","slug":"stories","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29814,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":29651,"count":242,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29814,"category_count":242,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Stories","category_nicename":"stories","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168146"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168157,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168146\/revisions\/168157"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168147"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}