{"id":16819,"date":"2018-03-22T14:45:14","date_gmt":"2018-03-22T14:45:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16819"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:21:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:21:13","slug":"5-cosas-que-toda-chica-que-atraviesa-una-ruptura-deberia-oir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-toda-chica-que-atraviesa-una-ruptura-deberia-oir\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que toda chica que sufre una ruptura deber\u00eda o\u00edr"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No existe persona en este mundo que no haya sufrido una ruptura dolorosa en el pasado.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando pasas por ello, piensas que es el fin del mundo, pero luego te das cuenta de que todo forma parte de la vida. Pero es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil cuando hay alguien que te lleva de la mano a trav\u00e9s de esta dolorosa experiencia.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso, aqu\u00ed van 5 cosas que ojal\u00e1 me hubieran dicho cuando estaba pasando por una ruptura, que lo habr\u00edan hecho todo mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Sobrevivir\u00e1s<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Cuando atraviesas una ruptura desagradable, piensas que el peso del mundo entero ha ca\u00eddo sobre tus hombros.<\/p>\n<p>For you, life has no meaning anymore and you don\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel. In those moments of despair, you are positive that you\u2019ll never get over this guy and that you\u2019ll suffer forever. But I am here to tell you that everything will be OK.<\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019ve heard this line far too many times but it really isn\u2019t just an empty phrase\u2014it\u2019s the truth. Yes, you are going through a lot of emotional pain now but there will come a time when you\u2019ll laugh at this.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this pain seems unbearable and too much for you to handle at the moment but life will put you through more difficult situations and this break-up will look like a piece of cake. No matter what you think now, you\u2019ll get better and you\u2019ll survive.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. No vale la pena<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I assume that this is the last thing you want to hear right now but this guy is really not worth it. It will take a long time before you really understand this but he didn\u2019t deserve everything you are going through now because of him.<\/p>\n<p>This won\u2019t reduce your suffering, because you still love him despite knowing this, but it is something you should repeat to yourself constantly.<\/p>\n<p>No es digno de tus l\u00e1grimas, no es digno de todas las noches sin dormir y no es digno de tu sufrimiento.<\/p>\n<p>Sobre todo, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bolde.com\/10-signs-hes-not-worthy-of-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\">no es digno de ti<\/a>. It is simple\u2014if he was worthy, he wouldn\u2019t have put you through everything you are going through.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. Probablemente tambi\u00e9n est\u00e9 sufriendo<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Una de las primeras preguntas que todos nos hacemos cuando sufrimos un desenga\u00f1o amoroso es si somos los \u00fanicos que nos sentimos as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEste tipo tambi\u00e9n piensa en m\u00ed? \u00bfMe echa de menos, aunque sea un poquito? A los hombres les gusta fingir que son duros y que rara vez sufren por amor. Pero estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que todo eso es mentira.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably suffering the same way you are but he just doesn\u2019t show it. You are not the only one waiting for his phone call or stalking him on social media\u2014he does it too.<\/p>\n<p>But this shouldn\u2019t be a sign for you to get back together with this guy, it should only help you stop feeling miserable about yourself.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. He wasn\u2019t the love of your life<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>En <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lee-esto-si-estas-pasando-por-una-ruptura-dolorosa\/\">est\u00e1s en medio de una ruptura dolorosa<\/a>Probablemente pienses que ese hombre es el amor de tu vida. Desde este punto de vista, est\u00e1s convencida de que nunca has amado a nadie como le has amado a \u00e9l y que nunca volver\u00e1s a amar.<\/p>\n<p>You think this man was your soulmate and that you\u2019ll never find someone like him. And that is normal. But it doesn\u2019t make it true. Trust me\u2014this guy was probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-screaming-signs-not-soulmate\/\">no es tu alma gemela<\/a> or the love of your life and you\u2019ll definitely love again, despite what you may think now.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let yourself fall into despair, thinking you\u2019ll end up forever alone. Yes, you\u2019ll probably spend some time consumed by this sadness you are feeling now but as soon as you meet someone new, it will go away.<\/p>\n<p>Llegar\u00e1 un hombre que te har\u00e1 olvidar que ese tipo existi\u00f3. Todo esto probablemente te suene improbable e imposible, pero cr\u00e9eme, ocurrir\u00e1 cuando menos te lo esperes.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Esto te servir\u00e1 de lecci\u00f3n<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I know you probably think that this was the worst thing that could\u2019ve happened to you.<\/p>\n<p>You feel hopeless, like all of your dreams and hopes have been shattered into pieces. But trust me\u2014there will come a time when you\u2019ll realize this was the best thing that could\u2019ve happened. There will come a time when you\u2019ll see that he was your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/fuiste-mi-leccion-mas-dura\/\">lecci\u00f3n m\u00e1s dura<\/a> pero que fue una experiencia valiosa.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t see it now but there will come a time when you\u2019ll thank God that this man walked away from your life.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There doesn\u2019t exist a person in this world who didn\u2019t have a painful break-up in the past. When you are going through it, you think of it as the end of the world, but later you realize it is all part of life. 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