{"id":168209,"date":"2024-07-12T08:26:37","date_gmt":"2024-07-12T08:26:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=168209"},"modified":"2024-07-12T08:26:38","modified_gmt":"2024-07-12T08:26:38","slug":"concepto-de-almas-gemelas-vs-idea-de-crecimiento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/concepto-de-almas-gemelas-vs-idea-de-crecimiento\/","title":{"rendered":"Malas noticias para los que conf\u00edan en el concepto de almas gemelas, ten\u00e9is que trabajar chicas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sol\u00eda creer que hab\u00eda un hombre perfecto ah\u00ed fuera s\u00f3lo para m\u00ed y cuando lo encuentre todo caer\u00e1 m\u00e1gicamente en su lugar.<\/strong> Then I met him, or so I thought, but it didn\u2019t work. He was all I ever wanted, but life had other plans and we broke up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ve all grown up on fairy tales about finding \u201cthe one\u201d or our \u201csoulmate\u201d and falling in love at first sight. Since childhood, we\u2019re led to believe that our perfect man is destined by fate. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estar decididos de antemano el uno por el otro, la relaci\u00f3n con ese hombre debe ser tranquila.<\/strong> We just need to find him and that\u2019s all. The rest is to vivir felices para siempre.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But let\u2019s be real: not everyone buys into the soulmate hype.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando se trata de amor y relaciones hay dos tipos de personas: los que creen en las almas gemelas y los que creen que las relaciones requieren esfuerzo,<\/strong> terapia de pareja, y una pizca de suerte para tener \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfEs usted Equipo Soulmate <\/em>o Equipo<\/em> Esfuerzo<\/em>?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Para los creyentes en los cuentos de hadas, la idea de las almas gemelas es profundamente rom\u00e1ntica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al principio, estas personas suelen experimentar un alto nivel de satisfacci\u00f3n en sus relaciones. The magic and excitement of finding “the one” can lead to a blissful start.<\/strong> Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurre despu\u00e9s de la fase de enamoramiento?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por otro lado, los defensores del esfuerzo creen que una asociaci\u00f3n con \u00e9xito isn’t just about finding a perfect match but about working together<\/strong> para superar los retos y hacerse m\u00e1s fuerte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They probably won\u2019t experience the same initial euphoria as the soulmate believers, but what will happen with their satisfaction over time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 enfoque dar\u00e1 lugar a relaciones m\u00e1s fruct\u00edferas?\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Believing in \u201cmeant to be\u201d or believing in effort? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los investigadores se adentraron en esta cuesti\u00f3n y compartieron sus conclusiones en el Revista Europea de Personalidad<\/em><\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

En el estudio se realiz\u00f3 un seguimiento de m\u00e1s de 900 parejas de Alemania, Suiza y Austria durante dos a\u00f1os y se les pregunt\u00f3 sobre sus creencias acerca del amor y la satisfacci\u00f3n en las relaciones. Los investigadores analizaron si las creencias en el destino o el crecimiento influyeron en la satisfacci\u00f3n de la relaci\u00f3n. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Participants with a “destiny” mindset felt that finding a compatible partner was the key, while those with a “growth” mindset believed in resolving conflicts<\/strong> para construir una relaci\u00f3n fruct\u00edfera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inicialmente, el estudio constat\u00f3 que couples who believed they were “meant to be” were happier during the first two years. <\/strong>La emoci\u00f3n de encontrar a su pareja predestinada les daba un impulso importante. Pero, con el paso del tiempo, su satisfacci\u00f3n tend\u00eda a disminuir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por otro lado, las parejas con creencias de crecimiento experimentaron un descenso menos dr\u00e1stico de la satisfacci\u00f3n, lo que sugiere que la “love grows with effort” mindset might have some serious staying power!<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s their belief in working through problems together that les ayuda a mantener un nivel de felicidad m\u00e1s constante.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

En las relaciones, la percepci\u00f3n lo es todo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Los resultados mostraron c\u00f3mo la satisfacci\u00f3n en las relaciones disminuye, de modo que para un gran n\u00famero de parejas empeora con el tiempo. Pero hay excepciones, por supuesto, algunas parejas consiguen aumentar la satisfacci\u00f3n de su relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

En Las parejas m\u00e1s felices ten\u00edan creencias de crecimiento m\u00e1s fuertes,<\/strong> creando un ciclo positivo que reforz\u00f3 su v\u00ednculo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the end, the study showed that a couple\u2019s perception plays a big role in their relationship\u2019s success. Al igual que un jard\u00edn, las relaciones necesitan cuidados y esfuerzo para prosperar.<\/strong> Si quieres que tu amor crezca, esfu\u00e9rzate y la satisfacci\u00f3n se desarrollar\u00e1 con el tiempo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Comprender estas din\u00e1micas pueden ayudarte a navegar por tu propia relaci\u00f3n <\/strong>more effectively. If you lean towards the soulmate belief, it might be beneficial to adopt some growth-oriented practices to sustain your relationship’s happiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Destiny puede darte un gran comienzo pero la mentalidad de crecimiento mantendr\u00e1 vivo el amor a largo plazo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para los que ya se centran en el esfuerzo, \u00a1seguid as\u00ed! Es probable que su enfoque d\u00e9 sus frutos a largo plazo.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I used to believe there was a perfect man out there just for me and when I find him everything will magically fall into place. Then I met him, or so I thought, but it didn\u2019t work. He was all I ever wanted, but life had other plans and we broke up. We\u2019ve all grown…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":168215,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-168209","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Bad-News-For-Those-Who-Rely-On-The-Concept-Of-Soulmates-You-Need-To-Work-Girls-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? I do, and right here is where I share my thoughts on the topic.","parent":38,"count":95,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29615,"category_count":95,"category_description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? I do, and right here is where I share my thoughts on the topic.","cat_name":"soulmate","category_nicename":"soulmate-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168209","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168209"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168209\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168216,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168209\/revisions\/168216"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168215"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168209"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168209"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168209"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}