{"id":16835,"date":"2020-08-23T09:27:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T09:27:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16835"},"modified":"2022-01-26T02:00:38","modified_gmt":"2022-01-26T02:00:38","slug":"5-cosas-horribles-que-hacen-los-narcisistas-para-controlar-a-sus-victimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-horribles-que-hacen-los-narcisistas-para-controlar-a-sus-victimas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas horribles que hacen los narcisistas para controlar a sus v\u00edctimas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las personas que sufren un Trastorno Narcisista de la Personalidad no saben c\u00f3mo comportarse en las relaciones \u00edntimas.<\/p>\n

Carecen de empat\u00eda y comprensi\u00f3n hacia otras personas y, en el proceso de descuidar y manipular a sus parejas, s\u00f3lo piensan en s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that they are incapable of feeling love, they are incapable of loving anyone but themselves.<\/p>\n

Su amor por s\u00ed mismos est\u00e1 por encima de todo y les hace manipular a sus v\u00edctimas para que hagan lo que ellos quieren y como ellos quieren.<\/p>\n

Being trapped in a narcissist\u2019s grasp can destroy you and it\u2019s almost impossible to break free from it. You are a victim of mind control and manipulaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You are being brainwashed and your confidence and self-love are crushed into dust\u2014they don\u2019t exist. That is, in fact, how they keep you under their control.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Te aplastan para poder gobernarte.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They destroy you completely, making you think that you don\u2019t deserve anything else. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Te hacen pensar que tienes suerte de tenerlos en tu vida porque te han hecho creer que nadie te querr\u00e1 nunca, que no eres digno de ser amado y que eres completamente horrible.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

So, you hang on to their abusive love because you don\u2019t know any better and you\u2019re scared to let go and start all over again.<\/p>\n

When someone keeps feeding you with negativity and claims that you are incapable of living without them, that you are incompetent and actually there is no use to you whatsoever, after some time, you start believing it and when the time comes and you want to leave, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re scared that you are not going to make it.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones narcisistas son como las drogas.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

El abuso dura tanto tiempo que tu cuerpo y tu mente se acostumbran a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you break free finally, you\u2019ll start craving it in a second. You\u2019ll crave the dose of a narcissist because he managed to emotionally hook you on his evil.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones narcisistas son humillantes.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He will drag you to the darkest place of your life. You won\u2019t be able to think straight nor will you know what you\u2019re doing. The only thing you will know is that you want it to stop.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll keep praying for the pain to go away and for him to stop, to shut up. You\u2019ll burn inside, but your face will be calm. Cold. Blank.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Las relaciones narcisistas te cambian<\/a>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They change who you\u2019ve been. Those people tear you down and crush you from the inside with their abuso narcisista<\/a> t\u00e1cticas. <\/p>\n

They rebuild you into the person they want by their side, not you. You are just a casual victim whom they don\u2019t give a shit about.<\/p>\n

Your feelings don\u2019t matter to them. You are not a human being. To them, you are a little insignificant nobody.<\/p>\n

Eso te cambia desde la m\u00e9dula. Aunque te alejes de \u00e9l, nunca volver\u00e1s a ser la misma.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You will try to bring joy back into your life and in the beginning, it\u2019s going to be excruciating.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll wish you\u2019d never been born. You\u2019ll curse the day you met him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re going to be angry with yourself for letting a narcissistic sociopath ruin your life, ruin you. But, it\u2019s not your fault. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You did nothing wrong, so you can\u2019t blame yourself. You never see them coming. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Son tan astutos y manipuladores que pueden disfrazarse de lo que quieran. Una vez que lo hacen, una vez que conf\u00edas en ellos, te atrapan.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Los narcisistas utilizan t\u00e1cticas furtivas<\/a> manipular para que hagan las cosas a su manera. Siempre consiguen lo que quieren y en cualquier circunstancia, y t\u00fa eres quien paga el precio.<\/p>\n

Proyecci\u00f3n de sentimientos negativos<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a defense mechanism to protect themselves.<\/p>\n

They will project their negative feelings onto you and they will put the blame on you which will make you feel like crap when instead, it\u2019s them who have to feel that way.<\/p>\n

Pero te manipular\u00e1n para que pienses que ha sido culpa tuya y que tienes que sentirte mal por algo que ellos han hecho.<\/p>\n

In the end, you\u2019ll find yourself apologizing for something you haven\u2019t done. This turns into a serious problem because a narcissist can\u2019t accept he was wrong.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t accept that he is not flawless and that from time to time, he can make a mistake. That\u2019s why he needs you to project his negative feelings, too.<\/p>\n

Necesita sentirse inocente y que t\u00fa te sientas culpable.<\/p>\n

He will do this by any means necessary. He\u2019ll be hurtful and cruel because, in the end, he really doesn\u2019t care about you or your feelings at all.<\/p>\n

Un cambio de juego<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He will find something wrong in everything you do. No matter how hard you try, he will ruin it and crap all over everything you\u2019ve done so far.<\/p>\n

If you did everything he has asked you to do, and he can\u2019t complain because he has got no reason for saying anything, he will change the rules.<\/p>\n

Pasar\u00e1 por encima de lo que ha dicho antes y te impondr\u00e1 una nueva serie de normas que son casi imposibles, s\u00f3lo para que fracases y te sientas mal por ello.<\/p>\n

Te pondr\u00e1 en una situaci\u00f3n en la que trabajes duro, para que \u00e9l pueda aprobarte. Por desgracia, usted est\u00e1 buscando su validaci\u00f3n y aprobaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Pero sus constantes cr\u00edticas le pasar\u00e1n factura.<\/p>\n

Los rega\u00f1os constantes te dejar\u00e1n una cicatriz. Te sentir\u00e1s angustiado y deprimido porque nada de lo que hagas te parecer\u00e1 suficiente.<\/p>\n

Your self-esteem falls faster than the speed of light and as it decreases, the chances you\u2019re going to be more submissive to him are bigger.<\/p>\n

The thing is by criticizing you all the time, he is diverting you from all the good things you\u2019ve done and making you focus on just the bad ones which makes you feel bad and obsessed with thinking about why can\u2019t you succeed in anything.<\/p>\n

Controlar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Intentar\u00e1 aislarte del resto del mundo porque, lo creas o no, tiene miedo. Tiene miedo de que le abandones, de perder a su v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have anybody to drain and that\u2019s what will destroy him. If he doesn\u2019t have anyone to suck the energy from, like an vampiro emocional<\/a>perecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Quieren ser los \u00fanicos que puedan tener alguna influencia en tu vida, para poder controlarte.<\/p>\n

They will cut you off from your friends and family, so you don\u2019t get the chance to hear the truth or a few words of support and advice.<\/p>\n

Apart from the getting you as far away as possible from the people you love, they will try to control where you\u2019re going, with whom you are going, how much money you\u2019re spending and for what.<\/p>\n

Tu vida se convertir\u00e1 b\u00e1sicamente en una prisi\u00f3n a la intemperie.<\/p>\n

Cambiar de tema<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve had enough and if you sober up even for a minute, you\u2019ll see things for what they are. Maybe you\u2019ve just had enough and you want to confront him.<\/p>\n

De alguna manera, consigues todo el coraje y la fuerza para hacerlo, pero \u00bfqu\u00e9 hace \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

He plays the victim and brings out a completely different subject and punishes you for something that you\u2019ve done 3 months ago.<\/p>\n

Esto es lo que hacen todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

He will blame you or point out a mistake you did a long time ago and it\u2019s not just coincidental.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s been keeping that for times just like this, for times when he hasn\u2019t got any other way out but to bring out your past mistakes to make you feel like you\u2019re the abuser and he is the victim.<\/p>\n

And of course, he never mentioned it before now. He didn\u2019t mention it three months ago because he knew he was going to need it some other time.<\/p>\n

Sarcasmo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Utilizar\u00e1 bromas crueles para herirte, pero por supuesto, se har\u00e1n pasar por bromas inofensivas.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si te enfadas, \u00e9l har\u00e1 que parezca que est\u00e1s exagerando y que no hay raz\u00f3n para enfadarse o hacerse da\u00f1o porque s\u00f3lo estaba bromeando.<\/p>\n

But the real motive behind it is never to tease you. It\u2019s exactly what you think it is\u2014it\u2019s to hurt you.<\/p>\n

He will use a patronizing tone with you to humiliate you even more. He will act like you\u2019re a child, you are incapable of doing things for yourself and you need him to show everything to you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to stay strong and resist everything narcissists are capable of doing to you. They are extremely dangerous and their disease can destroy you if you let it.<\/p>\n

Tienes que mantenerte fuerte<\/a>, believe in yourself and believe in what you\u2019re doing because it\u2019s right. Don\u2019t let him mess up your mind because if you surrender, you won\u2019t be able to bounce back so easily.<\/p>\n

And even if he broke you, it\u2019s not too late to come back to life. At least you\u2019ll learn a lesson and find out more about yourself. You\u2019ll bring back your self-worth and respect.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn to love yourself again because no one can take that away from you forever. They can only make you forget about it\u2014not lose it.<\/p>\n

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