{"id":16848,"date":"2020-04-23T10:51:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T10:51:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16848"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:14:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:14:46","slug":"10-senales-de-que-ya-no-debes-preocuparte-por-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-ya-no-debes-preocuparte-por-el\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales de que ya no debes preocuparte por \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"

No todas las relaciones est\u00e1n destinadas a ser felices para siempre y no todas las pel\u00edculas tienen un final feliz.<\/p>\n

And sometimes, no matter how hard we try or how much effort we put into a relationship, it\u2019s worth nothing if we\u2019re the only one doing it.<\/p>\n

Acaba rompi\u00e9ndonos el coraz\u00f3n una y otra vez hasta que se rompe en millones de pedazos.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re stuck on the edge of our breaking point, wondering whether it\u2019s better to let go of it all or to keep on fighting just a little bit longer.<\/p>\n

En este \u00faltimo caso, basta un peque\u00f1o empuj\u00f3n para que nos derritamos por completo, para que perdamos ese suelo s\u00f3lido bajo nuestros pies y nos caigamos.<\/p>\n

To save yourself and your heart from that happening and to prevent him from taking away another piece of you, it\u2019s time you decide to let the guy go and to ponte t\u00fa primero<\/a> para variar.<\/p>\n

Busca estas se\u00f1ales que gritan que ya no debes preocuparte por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Te miente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Le pillaste en varias ocasiones minti\u00e9ndote sobre las cosas m\u00e1s rid\u00edculas.<\/p>\n

Why he\u2019s late to dinner, what he\u2019s doing at work, with whom he went to the bar (even if it\u2019s just colleagues from work).<\/p>\n

It makes you wonder if he\u2019s lying about the important stuff as well\u2014about the future plans he has with you, about the love he feels or about his loyalty.<\/p>\n

Compulsive liars are the worst and they\u2019re so good at their lying game that they actually make us feel like we\u2019re losing our mind.<\/p>\n

Kick his lying ass out of your life, he\u2019s not even worthy of being in it in the first place!<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t remember the last time you were happy<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si de verdad necesitas sentarte y esforzarte en pensar en la \u00faltima vez que fuiste realmente feliz, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 est\u00e1s con \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not making you happy, if he\u2019s not making any effort to put a smile on your face, he doesn\u2019t deserve to put tears there either.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re constantly feeling exhausted and drained after spending time with him, he\u2019s nothing but an emotional leech.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t feel appreciated<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hagas lo que hagas y te esfuerces lo que te esfuerces, parece que nunca lo ve.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo ve las cosas que ha hecho y canta sus propias alabanzas todo el tiempo, mientras menosprecia tus esfuerzos.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s just a signo de un hombre ego\u00edsta<\/a> que nunca reconocer\u00e1 las cosas que haces por \u00e9l y por vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a man who doesn\u2019t know how to say, \u201cThank you,\u201d without rubbing your nose in something he did better.<\/p>\n

Te enga\u00f1\u00f3<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Superar una infidelidad es dif\u00edcil y las cosas nunca vuelven a ser como antes.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always wondering if he\u2019s going to do it again or you\u2019re looking for signs of him cheating.<\/p>\n

And trust is so hard to earn but so easy to break that it\u2019s completely normal if you\u2019re having a hard time getting over it.<\/p>\n

This one completely depends on you and the situation you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re married and you really want to make it work and he\u2019s honestly sorry about it, maybe he does deserve a second chance.<\/p>\n

But if you suspect that he will never change and that this wasn\u2019t just a one-time thing, the only person you should give a second chance is you.<\/p>\n

Walk away and give yourself a chance to be happy again. It can be painful and scary in the beginning but it\u2019ll be worth it.<\/p>\n

Te hace sentir inferior<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Nunca, y quiero decir nunca, deber\u00edas aguantar a alguien que te hace sentir inferior<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not a god, these are not the fifties and you are a remarkable human being who deserves to be treated equal and respected.<\/p>\n

And this doesn\u2019t apply only to your relationship, it applies to your whole life! Remember your worth and remind yourself of it every day.<\/p>\n

Keep your head held high and don\u2019t ever let anyone take your worth away from you. No matter how much you love them, you need to love yourself more.<\/p>\n

Tu confianza sigue quebr\u00e1ndose<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When we love someone, we trust them with our heart and emotions, trusting that they won\u2019t hurt us, trusting that they won\u2019t betray us.<\/p>\n

And if that trust keeps on being broken, if he\u2019s hurting you over and over again, making you think that you\u2019re not good enough or if he has someone else, it\u2019s time you see him for who he really is.<\/p>\n

I know that letting go sometimes looks scarier and harder than staying in hell, but it\u2019s the best thing you can do for yourself.<\/p>\n

And always remember that you deserve to be happy too. You deserve what\u2019s best for you and he\u2019s not it.<\/p>\n

7. Se siente ansioso cuando piensa en su relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si la ansiedad sigue d\u00e1ndote patadas en las tripas cada vez que piensas en \u00e9l o cuando vuelves a casa con \u00e9l, es que algo va muy mal.<\/p>\n

Las mariposas son geniales, la excitaci\u00f3n es incre\u00edble y estar excitado es una pasada. Pero la ansiedad es un error.<\/p>\n

La ansiedad es un infierno. Especialmente si su temperamento y comportamiento son las razones detr\u00e1s de ella. Cari\u00f1o, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te haces eso?<\/p>\n

He wouldn\u2019t do it for you and you know it. And a man who isn\u2019t ready to walk through fire for you doesn\u2019t deserve to walk in the sunshine with you.<\/p>\n

Sigues haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Puede parecer una locura que alguien se quede en una relaci\u00f3n en la que sigue saliendo herido, pero hacemos locuras y estupideces por amor.<\/p>\n

Por los recuerdos de c\u00f3mo era antes y lo felices que \u00e9ramos, nos quedamos y seguimos luchando.<\/p>\n

But if you keep on getting hurt and he doesn\u2019t seem like he even notices, ditch his ass. He\u2019s not worthy of your tears and pain.<\/p>\n

Espera que sacrifiques tu futuro y tus creencias por \u00e9l.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 clase de hombre espera eso? Una cosa que nunca debes sacrificar en una relaci\u00f3n es a ti misma y lo que eres.<\/p>\n

Si so\u00f1abas con ser profesora o tener tu propia empresa y \u00e9l tiene la idea de que seas ama de casa y quiere que dejes ese sue\u00f1o, lo \u00fanico que deber\u00edas dejar es a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

El compromiso es la clave del \u00e9xito de una relaci\u00f3n, pero s\u00f3lo mientras lo consig\u00e1is juntos.<\/p>\n

Una persona no est\u00e1 destinada a dejar su vida en suspenso para que la otra pueda prosperar.<\/p>\n

Se supone que deben prosperar juntos.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one who still gives a damn<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Se necesitan dos para el amor y una la relaci\u00f3n siempre debe ser bidireccional<\/a>. If it\u2019s not, if it\u2019s a one-sided relationship, then it\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n

Nothing and no one is worthy of your love if they\u2019re not ready to love you back.<\/p>\n

Y menos si te han enga\u00f1ado y han utilizado el hecho de que les quieres para conseguir lo que quieren.<\/p>\n

Honey, if you\u2019re the only still fighting, stop it. Fight for yourself this time.<\/p>\n

\"10<\/p>\n

\"10<\/p>\n

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