{"id":16872,"date":"2020-06-11T14:21:32","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T14:21:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16872"},"modified":"2022-08-16T07:48:35","modified_gmt":"2022-08-16T07:48:35","slug":"6-maneras-de-recuperarle-sin-parecer-desesperada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-maneras-de-recuperarle-sin-parecer-desesperada\/","title":{"rendered":"10 maneras de recuperarle (sin parecer desesperada)"},"content":{"rendered":"

En c\u00f3mo recuperarlo<\/a> sin parecer desesperado o demasiado insistente?<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t worry, here are some tips and tricks that will help you accomplish this!<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re trying to get your ex back, you have to be very careful and smart while working on your plan.<\/p>\r\n

Because when your pride gets hurt and when you want someone back so badly, it\u2019s not unheard of to become a bit desperate, because you want it so much.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re not thinking clearly because you\u2019ve been hurt and you definitely haven\u2019t gotten over him yet, you still love him.<\/p>\r\n

Y cuando hay amor de por medio, ninguno de nosotros piensa con claridad. Somos capaces de hacer todo tipo de locuras de las que ni siquiera somos conscientes.<\/p>\r\n

But let\u2019s say that there is another way to get him back, without looking desperate or needy.<\/p>\r\n

If you go in the needy direction to make your plan come true, you\u2019re only going to make things worse. When he sees that crazy and needy side of you, he\u2019ll be glad that he broke up with you.<\/p>\r\n

And we don\u2019t want that. We want him to realize that he made the biggest mistake of his life, which he probably did but anyway\u2026<\/p>\r\n

10 MANERAS DE RECUPERARLE (SIN PARECER DESESPERADA)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\r\n

1. Don\u2019t disagree with him about the end of your relationship<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer


<\/p>\r\n

Listen to what he\u2019s got to say about why he broke up with you and don\u2019t argue with him. It\u2019s so much better to accept the truth.<\/p>\r\n

T\u00f3mate un tiempo para reflexionar, asimilar lo que te ha dicho y aceptarlo. Puedes volver a hablar con \u00e9l m\u00e1s tarde.<\/p>\r\n

Demu\u00e9strale que eres un adulto maduro y que aceptas si hiciste algo mal.<\/p>\r\n

If you really did, apologize to him, and if you didn\u2019t, talk to him normally without screaming and arguing but don\u2019t try to change his mind.<\/p>\r\n

If he sees how maturely you\u2019re handling the whole situation, he might just change his mind after all.<\/p>\r\n

2. Don\u2019t beg him to come back<\/h2>\r\n

\"linda<\/p>\r\n

This is just desperate and as I said, you don\u2019t want to be desperate.<\/p>\r\n

Eres una mujer digna de un hombre que la trate como se merece.<\/p>\r\n

So don\u2019t ever beg him to get back with you. It will make you look needy and you will only confirm his decision is the right one.<\/p>\r\n

A los hombres les gustan las mujeres que se sienten bien consigo mismas y lo demuestran. Es algo que les pone cachondos. La confianza les pone cachondos.<\/p>\r\n

As\u00ed que, si quieres atraerle de nuevo, demu\u00e9strale que est\u00e1s bien y feliz contigo misma, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\r\n

3. Admite que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n eres responsable de vuestra ruptura<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

Nunca le eches la culpa de todo. Piensa en vuestra relaci\u00f3n y aunque el resultado haya sido que \u00e9l rompiera contigo, asume tambi\u00e9n tu parte de culpa.<\/p>\r\n

Quiz\u00e1 algo que hiciste le hizo romper contigo. Recon\u00f3cete a ti misma que no eres perfecta y que siempre hay m\u00e1s espacio para crecer y encontrar la forma de ser m\u00e1s madura.<\/p>\r\n

If you also take the blame, he\u2019ll see that you are reasonable and maybe he\u2019ll give you another shot because you showed him that something has changed, unlike in the past.<\/p>\r\n

4. Regla de no contacto<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

While the wound is still fresh, you have to play by the \u2018no contact\u2019 rule if you want a positive outcome later.<\/p>\r\n

Also, when you just break up, you are angry and there is the possibility that you might say something to him that you will regret later on, something that you didn\u2019t mean but anger made you say it. You mustn\u2019t call or text him for at least four weeks.<\/p>\r\n

Avoid hanging out with your mutual friends because you\u2019ll probably run into him and don\u2019t pretend you don\u2019t know where he goes and then accidentally run into him on the street.<\/p>\r\n

Si consigues evitar estas cosas y darle algo de espacio, cuando le mandes un mensaje o le llames puede que se alegre de saber de ti y se d\u00e9 cuenta de que lo que hizo fue cometer un error.<\/p>\r\n

5. No hay lugar para los celos<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

I know this is easier said than done, because let\u2019s face it, it\u2019s not easy to see your ex dating another woman shortly after you broke up.<\/p>\r\n

Maybe when you see him with someone new you\u2019ll think that there is no way you\u2019ll ever tr\u00e1elo de vuelta<\/a>. But that doesn\u2019t have to necessarily be true.<\/p>\r\n

Normalmente, una relaci\u00f3n que ocurre justo despu\u00e9s de otra relaci\u00f3n es un rebote, que no es serio. Sirven solo para que puedas olvidar y soltarte.<\/p>\r\n

And while he\u2019s at it, he\u2019ll realize while being in another woman\u2019s arms how much he misses being around you. And if you act jealous, you will only drive him far away from you.<\/p>\r\n

6. Deja que se ponga en contacto contigo<\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019ve typed the text and you\u2019ve read it a hundred times to make sure it\u2019s perfect and you still don\u2019t know whether it\u2019s a good idea to send it to him or not.<\/p>\r\n

Well, don\u2019t send it because it\u2019s definitely a mistake. If you keep contacting him, you won\u2019t give him a chance to miss you.<\/p>\r\n

When you\u2019re feeling down or in a crisis about contacting him, call a friend and ask for help or chat randomly about things just to keep your mind off of him.<\/p>\r\n

Deja que se pregunte qu\u00e9 haces y con qui\u00e9n andas.<\/p>\r\n

Let him contact you first. And when he does, don\u2019t show that you were waiting for him to contact you.<\/p>\r\n

S\u00e9 educado y un poco indiferente, pero no demasiado, hasta que veas que su conversaci\u00f3n va en otra direcci\u00f3n, la que m\u00e1s te convenga. D\u00e9jale hacer todo el trabajo.<\/p>\r\n

7. Aumenta la confianza en ti mismo<\/h2>\r\n

\"enfoque<\/p>\r\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante es trabajar la confianza en uno mismo.<\/p>\r\n

Si act\u00faas como si tuvieras cero fr\u00edo o te estresas con facilidad, tu chico lo sentir\u00e1 y no querr\u00e1 formar parte de ello.<\/p>\r\n

So, the best thing you could do for yourself is to work hard on boosting your self confidence because it\u2019s the only way to tell him that you\u2019re feeling awesome and nothing and no one can stop you from doing what you want.<\/p>\r\n

Mejorar tu autoestima te ayudar\u00e1 a mejorar tu vida y con ella tus posibilidades de volver con tu hombre.<\/p>\r\n

Y puedes estar segura de que no podr\u00e1 resistirse a dar otra oportunidad a vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

8. Luzca lo mejor posible para sentirse mejor<\/h2>\r\n

\"Una<\/p>\r\n

Trabaja tanto tu interior como tu exterior. Ponte guapo para sentirte guapo y rebosar\u00e1s felicidad.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m sure you already know that guys are pretty much visual beings and you can never work too much on your appearance.<\/p>\r\n

Buy some sexy outfit, spoil yourself with enchanting perfume and you\u2019ll instantly feel ten times better.<\/p>\r\n

You want to show him what a total catch you are and he won\u2019t be able to take his eyes off of you.<\/p>\r\n

La clave est\u00e1 en ocuparse de cosas y aficiones que le inspiren y recarguen su energ\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n

By doing what you\u2019re passionate about, you will become a free-spirited, energetic woman who doesn\u2019t need a man to make her happy. And that\u2019s the message you want to send him.<\/p>\r\n

You want to let him know that you want him but you don\u2019t need him and there\u2019s a huge difference between the two.<\/p>\r\n

To get him back, you need to let him know that you\u2019re having the time of your life on your own and if he wants to join you, he\u2019s welcome. But if not, you\u2019ll continue living your high life without him.<\/p>\r\n

9. Don\u2019t play games<\/h2>\r\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\r\n

Adem\u00e1s, debes mantenerte alejado de cualquier tipo de juegos con \u00e9l porque no te aportar\u00e1n nada bueno.<\/p>\r\n

Instead, they will confuse him and he\u2019ll think that you\u2019re just playing with his emotions. Whatever you say or do, do so in a calm manner.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t let him think that you\u2019re desperate about queriendo que vuelva<\/a> because if you do, he\u2019ll take you for granted.<\/p>\r\n

You need him to realize that you\u2019re serious and honest about everything you say and do and that your ulterior motives are pure.<\/p>\r\n

Even if he doesn\u2019t like something, don\u2019t force him into it. You want to give him space as much as possible so that he doesn\u2019t feel pressured to decide or do anything that he\u2019s not ready for.<\/p>\r\n

You want him to decide that he wants you back and you\u2019ll achieve it by staying cool and avoiding playing games.<\/p>\r\n

10. Estar dispuesto a transigir<\/h2>\r\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\r\n

Si quieres tener \u00e9xito en tu estrategia de c\u00f3mo recuperarlo, tendr\u00e1s que estar dispuesta a comprometerte y hacer algunos cambios.<\/p>\r\n

Lo que ocurri\u00f3 en el pasado se quedar\u00e1 en el pasado y ahora tienes que centrarte en el presente y el futuro.<\/p>\r\n

Tienes que arreglar las cosas que no funcionaban y que fueron los motivos de vuestra ruptura en primer lugar.<\/p>\r\n

For example, if you weren\u2019t giving him enough alone time for himself, you want to fix things by giving him space and letting him know that you understand his need for it.<\/p>\r\n

But always have boundaries. Never approve of something that you\u2019re not quite comfortable with because getting him back is not about repeating your past.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s about fixing things from your past and building new, stable foundations for your future.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

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