{"id":16881,"date":"2020-03-23T14:48:11","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T14:48:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16881"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:48:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:48:47","slug":"7-cosas-que-debes-probar-antes-de-abandonar-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-debes-probar-antes-de-abandonar-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas que debes probar antes de abandonar una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Although relationships should be easy and sweet, they are usually very complicated and they don’t make sense most of the time.<\/p>\n

Te sientes herido por tu pareja pero sigues intentando hablarlo para que todo mejore.<\/p>\n

Is it really worth it? Well, if you believe in soulmates you wouldn’t want to lose the one person in your life whom you’ve been searching for just by giving up on them, right?<\/p>\n

Las relaciones son un trabajo duro y requieren mucho esfuerzo.<\/p>\n

But let’s be honest, hay se\u00f1ales de que una relaci\u00f3n ha terminado.<\/a> In order for you to know if a relationship is really over, it’s crucial to try out some things, just to be completely sure.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to regret letting go of someone who loves you without at least asking them what happened.<\/p>\n

Comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I’m always going back to communication as some kind of holy grail to solving all problems in life.<\/p>\n

If you ask your partner what’s wrong, why he isn’t talking to you, why he isn’t responding to your messages, and if he reacts in a mean manner or doesn’t want to talk about it at all\u2014leave.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t deserve you.<\/a><\/p>\n

But if he has a good enough reason, like maybe his work doesn’t allow him to breathe, try communicating with him how much it would mean to you if he would dedicate time for the two of you, for him to talk to you, call you, text you back.<\/p>\n

If he doesn’t change his behavior, let him know that you won’t repeat yourself. There’s no need to lose sleep over someone who doesn’t respect you and your needs.<\/p>\n

Sin contacto<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If communication doesn’t work, try to distance yourself completely and see what happens.<\/p>\n

If he sees that you’ve been a bit different and that you’re no longer there for him, he’ll start asking himself what he did wrong and he’ll try to make it better.<\/p>\n

If he doesn’t call you on the same day you decide to distance yourself, I don’t think that you need to wait any longer.<\/p>\n

Te mereces algo m\u00e1s que mirar una pantalla vac\u00eda.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 le hizo enamorarse de \u00e9l?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hazte estas preguntas: \u00bfQu\u00e9 te enamor\u00f3 de \u00e9l? \u00bfQu\u00e9 os uni\u00f3?<\/p>\n

Vuelve a las ra\u00edces y piensa cu\u00e1les eran las cosas que le atra\u00edan tanto.<\/p>\n

If he’s changed completely, then he’s not the person that you fell in love with, so why bother trying to turn him back to what you’re used to?<\/p>\n

I mean, of course, people change, they become a better version of themself every day but let’s be honest\u2014if he’s a completely new person, that’s not the one you want to be with.<\/p>\n

Pruebe algo nuevo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If your communication is good but the relationship simply starts getting boring and you can’t seem to find anything interesting to do together anymore, then try out something new.<\/p>\n

Prueben algo que ninguno de los dos haya hecho antes y analicen la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If you feel refreshed, like your relationship is able to continue without you questioning it, then you’ve done a great job!<\/p>\n

Si nunca os hab\u00e9is ido de vacaciones juntos, \u00a1adelante! Haz las maletas y divi\u00e9rtete.<\/p>\n

Reconocer el problema<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Bueno, todos sufrimos por cosas que han ocurrido en nuestro pasado.<\/p>\n

If you’ve seen many marriages and relationships fall apart it might be something you’re used to and there isn’t really a chance for you to unlearn something that was instilled in you from an early age.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, las personas que te rodean pueden influir en tu forma de reaccionar ante las cosas en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Just be sure that the emotions that you’re feeling are actually yours and not the feelings or behavior of someone you’ve encountered.<\/p>\n

Entonces, cuando tenga la respuesta a eso, aseg\u00farese de abordar el problema.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no te sientes querido?<\/a> or why do you feel that the relationship is over? Is that something that can be changed? If the answer is no, there isn’t much you can do.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1s despacio<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It’s very important to take it easy from time to time and watch what happens.<\/p>\n

See the relationship from a whole new perspective and understand what’s happening.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3mate tu tiempo para observar la situaci\u00f3n y cuidar de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

We get carried away by emotions and we don’t give ourself time to analyze them. So this might be the right time to do this.<\/p>\n

It’s not your responsibility to save the relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The most important realization ever! It’s not your responsibility to save the relationship. Watch what happens when you sit up and give yourself time to think.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 la mejor soluci\u00f3n sea dejarlo y seguir adelante, pero tambi\u00e9n puede que s\u00f3lo sea una fase por la que teng\u00e1is que pasar los dos.<\/p>\n

Just be sure to know that you can’t save something that’s already lost.<\/p>\n

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