{"id":16922,"date":"2020-09-26T13:32:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T13:32:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16922"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:30:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:30:19","slug":"a-todas-las-chicas-con-problemas-de-abandono","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-todas-las-chicas-con-problemas-de-abandono\/","title":{"rendered":"A todas las chicas con problemas de abandono"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hola, t\u00fa. S\u00e9 que decidiste leer esto en cuanto viste la palabra \"abandono\" en el t\u00edtulo.<\/p>\n

This is one of the most painful words for you to hear or read. You try to run away from it, but it\u2019s like its haunting you whenever you look.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que tienes enormes cicatrices emocionales. Desde que tienes memoria, la gente te ha dejado colgado.<\/p>\n

Eran personas a las que diste todo lo que ten\u00edas, pero no recibiste nada a cambio<\/a>. Gente que te prometi\u00f3 el mundo y luego te dio la espalda.<\/p>\n

Estaban ah\u00ed mientras te necesitaban. Eras lo bastante bueno para ellos cuando te ocupabas de sus asuntos y resolv\u00edas sus problemas.<\/p>\n

Pero, en cuanto eras t\u00fa quien necesitaba algo, no estaban por ninguna parte. Ninguno de ellos apreciaba todos los sacrificios que hac\u00edas ni todo el esfuerzo que dedicabas.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Todos te abandonaron cuando m\u00e1s los necesitabas y eso es algo que te marc\u00f3 de por vida. Amigos, incluso familia, pero sobre todo hombres te trataron as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

And I know you\u2019ve changed. In the past, you were someone who had a lot of trust in men, someone who believed that there was something good in everyone in this world.<\/p>\n

But, you were proven to be wrong. So, you\u2019ve built thick walls around you. You\u2019ve lost trust in people in general and especially in men.<\/p>\n

Y s\u00e9 que tienes miedo. Asumes que cada hombre que se cruce en tu camino s\u00f3lo buscar\u00e1 la forma de aprovecharse de ti. \u00c9lusarte para su ego<\/a> y tener a alguien cerca.<\/p>\n

You are positive that you\u2019ll never find someone who will try to heal you and who will understand everything you\u2019ve gone through.<\/p>\n

Crees que nadie podr\u00e1 quererte nunca. Est\u00e1s convencido de que debes de tener alg\u00fan problema, ya que todo el mundo en tu vida te ha tratado igual.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve assured you that you are good for nothing and that you don\u2019t deserve to be loved. So you\u2019ve given up hope. You\u2019ve given up the idea that true love will ever find you.<\/p>\n

Crees que ning\u00fan hombre estar\u00e1 nunca dispuesto a soportarte. Nunca llegar\u00e1 un hombre que se esfuerce por curar todas tus heridas y que te convenza de que no todo el mundo es igual.<\/p>\n

And you think it is better that way. You don\u2019t give anyone a chance to get to know the real you because you think they will use you as soon as they see your vulnerable side.<\/p>\n

So you carry this fa\u00e7ade, this tough girl mask that chases men away from you\u2014you think that is for the best.<\/p>\n

That it is the only way to protect yourself from going through the things you\u2019ve already gone through.<\/p>\n

But, I am here to tell you not to give up. I am here to tell you that everything is going to be OK, although you probably don\u2019t believe me.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Llegar\u00e1 un hombre que te amar\u00e1, a pesar de todas tus inseguridades. Un hombre quenunca renunciar a ti<\/a>. Un hombre que sabr\u00e1 reconocer tu verdadero yo.<\/p>\n

Un hombre que ver\u00e1 a la ni\u00f1a perdida y asustada que llevas dentro. Este hombre sabr\u00e1 que est\u00e1s esperando ser amada.<\/p>\n

This man will know all about your fears. But, he won\u2019t run away from them. Instead, he will fight them together with you.<\/p>\n

He will know that your abandonment issues are a battle you can\u2019t control and he\u2019ll never blame you for has happened to you. Instead, he will understand.<\/p>\n

Entender\u00e1 todo por lo que has pasado y entender\u00e1 que todo eso te ha convertido en la persona que eres hoy. Pero, lo m\u00e1s importante, te entender\u00e1 a ti.<\/p>\n

Y te aceptar\u00e1. Te amar\u00e1 incluso cuando te sientas frustrado o asustado. Te amar\u00e1 con todos tus miedos y problemas de confianza.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te amar\u00e1 con todos tus problemas y demonios interiores. Nunca pensar\u00e1 en ti como una carga.<\/p>\n

Instead, this man will see right through your armour shield. He will see that you were broken. But, he\u2019ll never try to use that against you.<\/p>\n

Instead, he will cherish your sensitivity and vulnerability. He will take care of you and you\u2019ll never overwhelm him.<\/p>\n

This man will be patient with you. He\u2019ll understand everything you went through and he won\u2019t expect you to open up to him right away.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll know that you can\u2019t trust him from the very beginning and he\u2019ll put an effort to win over your trust.<\/p>\n

And most importantly, this man will never abandon you. Even if you try to chase him away, he\u2019ll do anything in his power to stay.<\/p>\n

This guy will always have your back and will hold your hand through all life\u2019s difficulties. He will never leave you alone and he\u2019ll make sure you always know that.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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Hey, you. I know you decided to read this as soon as you saw the word \u2018abandonment\u2019 in the title. This is one of the most painful words for you to hear or read. You try to run away from it, but it\u2019s like its haunting you whenever you look. I know you have enormous…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":113915,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16922","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/To-Every-Girl-With-Abandonment-Issues-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16922","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16922"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16922\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16922"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16922"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16922"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}