{"id":16957,"date":"2020-04-27T08:41:01","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T08:41:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16957"},"modified":"2022-07-19T08:46:41","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T08:46:41","slug":"11-dolorosas-senales-de-que-no-eres-mas-que-su-plan-de-apoyo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/11-dolorosas-senales-de-que-no-eres-mas-que-su-plan-de-apoyo\/","title":{"rendered":"11 dolorosas se\u00f1ales de que no eres m\u00e1s que su plan alternativo"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. No tiene claros sus sentimientos<\/h2>\n

\"pareja
\nNunca sabes a qu\u00e9 atenerte con \u00e9l, nunca habla de exclusividad ni revela sus sentimientos hacia ti. Nunca te ha presentado como su novia a nadie.<\/p>\n

Oculta sus emociones. Act\u00faa despreocupadamente y su comportamiento demuestra que le gustas, pero nada m\u00e1s. Incluso a veces sientes que es incapaz de sentir emociones.<\/p>\n

If this happens at the beginning of a relationship, it\u2019s nothing out of the ordinary.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t know he loves you or where you stand after a short period of time.<\/p>\n

Pero si llev\u00e1is mucho tiempo juntos y \u00e9l sigue sin tener claros sus sentimientos, s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 utilizando como un plan de respaldo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

2. Evita hablar del futuro<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nunca hace planes a largo plazo. Hablar de algo que har\u00e1s el mes que viene, por no hablar del a\u00f1o que viene, es misi\u00f3n imposible cuando se trata de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

All the future plans he talks about never include the word \u2018we\u2019; he only talks about his life.<\/p>\n

Y si le preguntas directamente por alg\u00fan plan de futuro, cambiar\u00e1 de tema y seguir\u00e1 hablando de otra cosa.<\/p>\n

The painful truth is he doesn\u2019t see su futuro contigo<\/a>, that\u2019s why he is avoiding talking about it.<\/p>\n

3. He changes behavior when he is with you and when he is isn\u2019t<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You could almost say that he is somebody else entirely when you text him and when you are staring at each other\u2019s faces.<\/p>\n

When he is with you, his behavior is spot on but as soon as he leaves your sight it\u2019s a totally different story.<\/p>\n

Sus textos son escasos, y en ellos parece desinteresado y distante la mayor parte del tiempo.<\/p>\n

Sueles ser t\u00fa la que env\u00eda primero los mensajes y \u00e9l siempre tarda mucho en responder.<\/p>\n

Casi nunca llama. En pocas palabras, te quiere cerca pero a\u00fan no est\u00e1 totalmente comprometido y te mantiene como una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

4. Nunca has conocido a ninguna de las personas importantes de su vida<\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

Nunca has conocido a sus amigos m\u00e1s \u00edntimos ni has salido con sus otros amigos. No sabes si su familia sabe que existes.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t talk about them a lot, he keeps that part of his life to himself.<\/p>\n

Todos estos son signos de que no te est\u00e1 haciendo ning\u00fan hueco en su vida. Un hombre que sabe lo que quiere y hacia d\u00f3nde se dirige contigo te presentar\u00eda, despu\u00e9s de cierto tiempo de relaci\u00f3n, a las personas m\u00e1s importantes de su vida.<\/p>\n

Si no lo hace, te est\u00e1 dejando en un segundo plano.<\/p>\n

5. Tienes miedo de que se vaya en cualquier momento<\/h2>\n

\"Triste<\/p>\n

Caminas sobre c\u00e1scaras de huevo a su alrededor. Tienes miedo de que si das un paso en falso se vaya.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 haya algo en su comportamiento que te lleve a pensar as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Tal vez act\u00fae como si debieras estar contenta de estar con \u00e9l. Tienes la necesidad constante de demostrarle tu val\u00eda e impresionarle de cualquier manera.<\/p>\n

Maybe he even blackmails you that he is going to leave if you don\u2019t do everything his way.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que, cuando est\u00e1s en una sana y comprometida relaci\u00f3n<\/a>Ambos miembros de la pareja son iguales. No hay necesidad de impresionar o inclinarse ante nadie.<\/p>\n

Si te est\u00e1 manipulando con amenazas de perderle, no s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 tratando como una opci\u00f3n, sino que est\u00e1 utilizando tu amor en tu contra. Definitivamente, no es \u00e9l con quien deber\u00edas estar.<\/p>\n

6. La \u00fanica persona a la que acomoda es a s\u00ed mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He skips out on your plans if he has something better going on. He discards your plans but gets mad if you don\u2019t go along with his.<\/p>\n

Hace todo lo que le conviene y le hace feliz sin tener en cuenta tus necesidades.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t mind you bending over backward to please him but he would never do the same for you. He is selfish and his own priority.<\/p>\n

Si no hace nada para complacerte o hacerte feliz, te est\u00e1 tomando el pelo.<\/p>\n

7. He is always ‘busy’<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nunca tiene tiempo suficiente para ti, pero puedes ver claramente que encuentra tiempo para todo lo dem\u00e1s que le interesa.<\/p>\n

He is using \u2018busy\u2019 as an excusa para abandonar tus planes<\/a> la mayor parte del tiempo o para justificar que no se re\u00fana contigo durante un tiempo.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que a quien le importas te dedicar\u00e1 tiempo aunque no lo tenga.<\/p>\n

Nada le gustar\u00eda m\u00e1s que pasar tiempo contigo y dar\u00e1 todos los pasos en esa direcci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If he barely spends any time with you and uses \u2018busy\u2019 as an excuse, he is not busy, he is simply lacking interest and making you his second choice till someone else comes along.<\/p>\n

8. Nunca se sincera sobre nada<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Todas vuestras conversaciones son superficiales y \u00e9l nunca dice nada que sea realmente importante.<\/p>\n

Incluso podr\u00eda decirse que todas sus reuniones podr\u00edan parecerse a las de dos desconocidos charlando en la estaci\u00f3n de autobuses.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not uncommon for a man to keep his guard up early on in the relationship.<\/p>\n

But if after he really got to know you and spent a lot of time with you, he still has no need to open up about his emotions, troubles, or his life, he is holding himself back from wholeheartedly entering into the relationship and he is holding you at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n

9. Est\u00e1 demasiado concentrado en su tel\u00e9fono cuando est\u00e1is juntos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Most of us these days are slightly addicted to our phone and until it crosses the border of normal behavior, it\u2019s considered usual.<\/p>\n

But if your boyfriend spends most of his alone time with you staring at his phone and not paying attention to you, it\u2019s a bad sign.<\/p>\n

Not only is he rude and he lacks common courtesy but his behavior indicates that he is disrespectful toward you and doesn\u2019t consider you as someone who should have his full attention.<\/p>\n

Talk to him and see if things can change and if not, don\u2019t settle for being second choice while his phone, social media and whoever he is texting comes first. Things shouldn\u2019t go that way.<\/p>\n

10. Le falta esfuerzo<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Te deja hacer todos los planes y ni siquiera te sugiere algo que pod\u00e1is hacer juntos.<\/p>\n

Sueles ser el primero en preguntar cu\u00e1ndo vais a quedar.<\/p>\n

Normalmente llamas o env\u00edas un mensaje de texto primero. Reprogramas tu tiempo para adaptarlo a sus necesidades y \u00e9l nunca hace lo mismo. Y la lista contin\u00faa.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is you are the one giving your everything while he doesn\u2019t give anything back, and it shouldn\u2019t be like that.<\/p>\n

Un hombre que se preocupa y te considera prioridad<\/a> se presentar\u00e1, har\u00e1 planes y devolver\u00e1 todo lo que reciba y puede que incluso m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Si no hay reciprocidad, est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n unilateral y te est\u00e1n tratando como una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

11. Est\u00e1 m\u00e1s interesado en hacer el amor que en amarte a ti<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He is all sweet and nice when he wants to take off your clothes but as soon that\u2019s done, he is cold and distant.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to know anything about you or really hear anything you have to say, the only thing he cares about is the sexual aspects of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Y aunque el sexo es una parte importante de una relaci\u00f3n, no todo puede basarse en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Si una relaci\u00f3n carece de amor, implicaci\u00f3n emocional y apoyo, s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 utilizando para aliviar sus necesidades.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not the kind of guy who stays or the kind of guy you really need. He is just using you as su plan de respaldo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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