{"id":16973,"date":"2018-03-27T10:42:39","date_gmt":"2018-03-27T10:42:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16973"},"modified":"2022-01-10T01:10:22","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T01:10:22","slug":"soy-perfectamente-imperfecta-y-eso-esta-mas-que-bien-para-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/soy-perfectamente-imperfecta-y-eso-esta-mas-que-bien-para-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Soy perfectamente imperfecta y eso me parece muy bien"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>\u00bfTe ha dicho alguien alguna vez que eres perfecto?<\/strong> <\/em>\u00bfTe hizo sentir bien o te hizo sentir mal porque ten\u00edas que justificar tu perfecci\u00f3n esforz\u00e1ndote m\u00e1s, siendo mejor y sin rendirte nunca? Ver\u00e1s, vivimos en un mundo en el que todo el mundo es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-intentar-ser-perfecto\/\">tratando de ser perfecto<\/a>como si su vida dependiera de ello. Cuando abro mi Facebook, solo aparecen caras perfectas.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Todo lo que puedo ver son <a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/sex-women\/a19543284\/11-qualities-of-the-perfect-woman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mujeres perfectas<\/a>Con casas, maridos e hijos perfectos, que van a destinos ex\u00f3ticos perfectos y que viven vidas perfectas.<\/strong><\/em> They have perfect jobs with perfect colleagues and they seem like they don\u2019t have any problems.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfPero sabes qu\u00e9? \u00a1Que le den!<\/strong> Fuck their perfect lives when they have to use Photoshop in every selfie they take because they are not as beautiful as they appear to be. Fuck their perfect husbands who hit on every hot woman who comes along. Fuck their vacations to exotic destinations because they took out a bank loan so they could show off in front of their \u2018perfect\u2019 friends.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>A algunos s\u00f3lo les importa que seas rico y que la sociedad te acepte.<\/strong><\/em> Because you don\u2019t want to do something to depart from societal rules, right? It is extremely important to be a part of something and if you don\u2019t belong anywhere, you don\u2019t exist, at least not in a world like this.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>As\u00ed que, una vez m\u00e1s, \u00a1que se joda el mundo!<\/strong><\/em> I never was perfect and I don\u2019t want to be perfect. I am perfectly imperfect and I am more than okay with that. I don\u2019t want to be one of those girls who doesn\u2019t think with her own head and who nods to all the shit that others say just because they have an important role in society. I don\u2019t want to be molded into something I don\u2019t want to be just because someone else likes it. I want to be on my own. I want to find the right path to happiness and I want to think in a normal and healthy way.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>And if someone has a problem with that or if someone doesn\u2019t accept me the way I am, then I don\u2019t need that person in my life.<\/strong><\/em> Siempre ser\u00e9 un poco desordenada, un poco loca y una chica que lleva su coraz\u00f3n en la manga durante toda su vida. Porque eso es lo que m\u00e1s importa al final. Quiero hacer una vida que sea s\u00f3lo m\u00eda, sin que otros me digan qu\u00e9 hacer o c\u00f3mo comportarme.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Porque yo no soy como esos<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-cosas-que-los-hombres-quieren-de-su-novia-perfecta\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> chicas perfectas<\/a> que ves en la calle.<\/strong><\/em> I will never say something just so others will like me. I will always say what I mean, no matter how good or bad it may sound. But at least it will come from the bottom of my heart. And no matter what happens, I will never strive for perfection because it really doesn\u2019t exist. I will always be a girl with my own scars that are a part of my story.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ser\u00e9 diferente a las dem\u00e1s personas que conozcas porque soy \u00fanica y eso es lo que me hace tan especial.<\/strong><\/em> Siempre me mantendr\u00e9 fiel a m\u00ed misma porque es la \u00fanica manera de no perderme. Y pase lo que pase, siempre me querr\u00e9 y me aceptar\u00e9 tal como soy. S\u00f3lo as\u00ed podr\u00e9 encontrar la paz que tanto ans\u00edo. Porque la vida es demasiado corta y lo \u00faltimo que necesito es fingir que soy otra persona. Estoy orgullosa de todo lo que he conseguido y, aunque no sea mucho, agradezco cada lecci\u00f3n y cada bendici\u00f3n que recibo.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>As\u00ed que esta soy yo, perfectamente imperfecta y estoy m\u00e1s que bien con eso.<\/strong><\/em> If you want to accept me like this, don\u2019t try to change me. I will change when I feel it is the right time for that and not when someone else wants me to. I like to be beautifully broken and a little bit on my own.<strong><em> That is what makes me so unique and I don\u2019t want to change that for anything in this world.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did anyone ever tell you that you are perfect? Did it make you feel good or did it made you feel bad because you had to justify your perfection by trying harder, being better and never giving up? 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