{"id":16974,"date":"2020-04-06T10:39:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T10:39:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16974"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:16:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:16:03","slug":"prefiero-quedarme-soltera-a-conformarme-con-menos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/prefiero-quedarme-soltera-a-conformarme-con-menos\/","title":{"rendered":"Prefiero seguir soltero a conformarme con menos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estoy harta de o\u00edr que soy demasiado exigente, que mis est\u00e1ndares son demasiado altos y que acabar\u00e9 sola. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m sick of hearing questions about wedding bells and what the hell I am waiting for. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m sick of being looked down on just because I\u2019m single. So, this one goes out to all of those people who are drowning me in the nonsense of settling. <\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for someone I don\u2019t love.<\/b> Estuve en relaciones en las que yo era el que se preocupaba m\u00e1s y en las que yo era el que se preocupaba menos. <\/p>\n

You can\u2019t forzar el amor <\/a> . Just like I couldn\u2019t make my ex love me, I can\u2019t be forced to love someone else. I tried, believe me I did. \u201c Give it time,\u201d <\/i> dijeron. <\/p>\n

Pero por mucho que lo intent\u00e9, nunca funcion\u00f3. No importa cu\u00e1nto espere, el amor no aparece. As\u00ed que dej\u00e9 de esperar. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than sacrifice my dreams.<\/b> I\u2019ve seen so many unhappy people who gave up on their dreams for the sake of their relationship. <\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not ready to do that. I\u2019m not ready to give up on my dream of traveling the world while I can. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m not ready to give up on the idea of living my dream, because my partner needs me to. There are sacrifices that I\u2019ll never make for love. And my future is one of them. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for something half-assed.<\/b> Whether it\u2019s love, passion or life. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want it. I had it already, I was living off of crumbs of love. <\/p>\n

I was stuck in the same place with a man I couldn\u2019t imagine my future with and I was dreaming about making my dreams come true. <\/p>\n

I dreamed about a brighter future but he wasn\u2019t part of it. So I stopped dreaming and started doing. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than to have a <\/b>relaci\u00f3n sin respeto<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I\u2019m more than someone who will make you goddamn sandwiches and babies and bring you beer. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m a woman who wants to have children and who wants to raise them. And I want it all. I want to watch them grow, I want to kiss their bruises and sing them lullabies. <\/p>\n

Quiero verlos ir a la universidad y darles una vida adecuada. <\/p>\n

Y quiero que mi pareja respete ese deseo. Que me respete a m\u00ed, mis elecciones, mi pasado y mis conocimientos. <\/p>\n

Y maldita sea, quiero a alguien que lo haga conmigo. Todo. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than be in a one-sided relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quiero a alguien que se esfuerce tanto como yo y que nunca me haga mendigar amor. <\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Quiero a alguien que luche por m\u00ed y conmigo, no contra m\u00ed. Quiero tener ese amor que tienen mis padres. Amor con confianza y respeto mutuos. <\/p>\n

Amor sin juegos, sonrisas falsas y mentiras. Quiero lealtad, honestidad e integridad. Y me niego a bajar mis est\u00e1ndares. <\/p>\n

There are certain times where it\u2019s okay to do it but love is not one of them. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than question my worth.<\/b> Because, you see, when you are dating a manipulator, you don\u2019t know it until it\u2019s too late. <\/p>\n

Until you have already lost all of you, your confidence, worth and faith. You don\u2019t know it until they leave you for dead, all bruised and naked. <\/p>\n

Y No me reconstru\u00ed <\/a> para que alguien se lo lleve todo. <\/p>\n

No atraves\u00e9 el infierno de la depresi\u00f3n para volver a caer en \u00e9l. No me adue\u00f1\u00e9 del mundo para que alguien me menospreciara. <\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que elijo quedarme soltera hasta que alguien lo posea conmigo.   <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than settle for lies. <\/b> I\u2019ve been promised lifelong love before. <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been made to believe that love is supposed to hurt. They say if it doesn\u2019t hurt, it\u2019s not real. But love is not about the pain, for heaven\u2019s sake. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s about acceptance, the will to fight and the passion you share together. It\u2019s about lowering your walls to let someone in and that someone protecting you. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s about rewriting the stars together, not putting them out. And I have had enough of others people\u2019s darkness. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than give up on me.<\/b> I\u2019m weird, proud and one hell of a badass. I learned how to be my own hero, so I don\u2019t need a new one. <\/p>\n

I learned how to fight my own battles, so I\u2019m not looking for a knight in shining armor. I learned how to love myself but the thing is, I want someone to love me as well. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about me needing someone in my life, it\u2019s about me wanting someone there. I want someone to have my back when it all goes south. <\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Quiero a alguien que camine a mi lado, no que me lleve, hasta el final del camino. Y quiero ese tipo de amor de pel\u00edcula, pero no a cualquier precio. <\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather stay single than <\/b>conformarse con<\/b><\/a> menos.<\/b> Por nada menos de lo que merezco y quiero. <\/p>\n

And God knows that I\u2019m not asking for much. In a world full of fuckboys, games and lies, I\u2019m asking for honesty and loyalty. <\/p>\n

In a world full of darkness and pain, I\u2019m asking for joy and someone who will shine with me. <\/p>\n

In a world full of hate, violence and brokenness, I\u2019m asking for someone who will share love with me. <\/p>\n

Alguien que luche contra las adversidades conmigo, que no me abandone tras el primer bache en el camino. <\/p>\n

As\u00ed que elijo la solter\u00eda hasta que el amor me elija a m\u00ed. Me elijo a m\u00ed misma hasta que mi coraz\u00f3n elija a otra persona. <\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Prefiero<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sick of hearing how I\u2019m too picky, how my standards are too high and how I\u2019ll end up all alone. I\u2019m sick of hearing questions about wedding bells and what the hell I am waiting for. I\u2019m sick of being looked down on just because I\u2019m single. So, this one goes out to all…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":77055,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Id-Rather-Stay-Single-Than-Settle-For-Less.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16974"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16974\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77055"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}