{"id":16999,"date":"2020-06-27T13:18:56","date_gmt":"2020-06-27T13:18:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16999"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:45:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:45:50","slug":"5-senales-de-que-no-merece-una-segunda-oportunidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-no-merece-una-segunda-oportunidad\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que no merece una segunda oportunidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Que te rompan el coraz\u00f3n es uno de los peores dolores emocionales por los que puedes pasar.<\/p>\n

Te sientes desesperanzada y todo lo que quieres es volver con ese chico que te caus\u00f3 todo este dolor en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

And he behaves like he wants you back too. But you simply don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Tienes miedo de que you won\u2019t be able to move on<\/a> without this man by your side but at the same time, you are terrified he\u2019ll hurt you all over again.<\/p>\n

You are aware that things between the two of you didn\u2019t work out for a reason but all you want to do is let him back in your life.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ve found yourself in a dead-end street and you don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Of course, there are situations in which people deserve a second chance. But there are also times when you shouldn\u2019t allow them to re-enter your life, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Here are 5 signs your ex doesn\u2019t deserve for you to give him a second chance under any circumstances.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the first time he has done this<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una segunda oportunidad s\u00f3lo se da a alguien una vez y, aun as\u00ed, no es algo que se deba repartir f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n

Una cosa es que tu novio siempre haya sido un buen chico que una vez cometi\u00f3 un error tonto.<\/p>\n

En esta situaci\u00f3n, su error puede considerarse una excepci\u00f3n y es perfectamente normal que reconsideres darle una segunda oportunidad.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019ve given numerous \u2018second\u2019 chances to this guy but he keeps doing the same things that bother you over and over again, it is more than obvious that he doesn\u2019t deserve any more of your time and attention.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t keep his promises<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

One of the signs that you shouldn\u2019t even consider taking your ex back is the fact that he never keeps his promises.<\/p>\n

Aunque realmente quieres que cambie, en el fondo sabes que este chico no es de fiar.<\/p>\n

For as long as you can remember, he\u2019s been giving you false promises and telling you everything you want to hear.<\/p>\n

But he never kept any one of those promises. You don\u2019t know whether he intentionally lies to you just to keep you around or if he is simply not reliable.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, \u00bfqu\u00e9 te hace pensar que esta vez ser\u00e1 diferente?<\/p>\n

Why do you think he is someone who deserves a second chance from you, when it\u2019s probable that he\u2019ll make you all the promises in the world but won\u2019t keep any of them?<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t really sorry<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cuando alguien est\u00e1 realmente arrepentido y dispuesto a cambiar, tu instinto te dice que est\u00e1 siendo sincero.<\/p>\n

Del mismo modo, tu intuici\u00f3n te dir\u00e1 si este tipo s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 guiando<\/a> y si quiere que pienses que lo siente de verdad.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que quieres creer en sus buenas intenciones hacia ti, pero \u00bfest\u00e1 mostrando realmente remordimientos y asumiendo la responsabilidad de sus actos o s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 diciendo lo que quieres o\u00edr?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe est\u00e1 desviviendo por conseguir tu perd\u00f3n o eres t\u00fa la que pone excusas a su comportamiento, porque quieres justificarlo?<\/p>\n

When a man is really sorry and doesn\u2019t want to make the same mistakes all over again, he will do whatever it takes just so you forgive him.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014if he wants to be with you, he\u2019ll chase you to the end of the world just to make it happen.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, if a guy is not ready to be accountable for his own actions, he definitely doesn\u2019t deserve a second chance.<\/p>\n

It only means that he doesn\u2019t care enough about winning you over, that he is not aware of the things he\u2019s done to you or that he is perfectly aware of everything but just doesn\u2019t care enough to deal with it.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t take you seriously anymore<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si eres una de esas chicas que no paran de dar docenas de segundas oportunidades cada vez que su novio mete la pata, la cruda verdad es que hace tiempo que dej\u00f3 de tomarte en serio.<\/p>\n

If this is the case with you and your boyfriend, let me tell you that he doesn\u2019t have any intention of changing, no matter what he says.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l te conoce muy bien y sabe qu\u00e9 es lo que necesitas o\u00edr para que vuelva a tu vida.<\/p>\n

You keep threatening that this is the last time you are letting him back in your life and that you\u2019ll leave him for good if he doesn\u2019t change his behavior and treatment of you but he knows very well that you won\u2019t back your words with actions.<\/p>\n

Siento ser yo quien te lo diga, pero este tipo te toma por tonta.<\/p>\n

He thinks he can do whatever he wants and knows you\u2019ll always be there waiting for him.<\/p>\n

Your empty words don\u2019t really scare him and you aren\u2019t accomplishing a thing.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t forget what he did<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si piensas en darle una segunda oportunidad a tu novio, debes saber que olvidar y perdonar son dos cosas completamente distintas.<\/p>\n

Although forgiving someone for the harm he\u2019s done to you is hard and challenging, forgetting is even more difficult.<\/p>\n

One of the biggest mistakes you could make in a relationship is convincing yourself that you\u2019ve forgiven or forgotten about something that still haunts you.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que probablemente echas de menos a este tipo y que todav\u00eda lo amas<\/a> but taking him back won\u2019t change a lot, especially if you know that you will be holding grudges and that resentment and bitterness will become a part of you and your relationship.<\/p>\n

In this case, it\u2019s better not to give him another chance, because you obviously can\u2019t move on from the things he did to you and the two of you will never have a stable, healthy relationship in those kinds of circumstances.<\/p>\n

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