{"id":17015,"date":"2018-03-28T07:33:29","date_gmt":"2018-03-28T07:33:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17015"},"modified":"2022-01-17T16:14:06","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T16:14:06","slug":"6-situaciones-en-las-que-es-mas-que-correcto-anteponerse-a-uno-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-situaciones-en-las-que-es-mas-que-correcto-anteponerse-a-uno-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 situaciones en las que no pasa nada por anteponerse a uno mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, siempre has dado prioridad a los dem\u00e1s. Pensabas que eso era lo \u00fanico correcto y que cualquier otra cosa ser\u00eda ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n

Pero estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que hay una gran diferencia entre ser ego\u00edsta y establecer prioridades<\/a> de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n

Hay situaciones en las que t\u00fa primero<\/a> is the only option you have and when it\u2019s more than OK to do it. Here are 6 of them.<\/p>\n

1. When you feel like you\u2019ve had enough<\/span><\/h2>\n

There are times when we all feel like we are overwhelmed and that we can\u2019t take it anymore. And although you may feel that this is a sign of weakness, this is a perfectly normal thing to feel.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what it is but you just feel like you\u2019ve had enough of everything. And this is one of the situations where tienes que ponerte a ti primero.<\/a><\/p>\n

What you need to do is to give yourself a break and leave everything you are doing and move away from everyone who is burdening you. Sometimes, other people\u2019s problems simply become too much for you.<\/p>\n

It is always OK to step aside and to put yourself first whenever you\u2019re feeling like this.<\/p>\n

2. Cuando eres t\u00fa quien necesita ayuda<\/span><\/h2>\n

Si eres un emp\u00e1tico sensible, siempre est\u00e1s ah\u00ed para los dem\u00e1s. Les cuidas, les escuchas y nunca est\u00e1s demasiado ocupado para ayudarles con todos sus problemas y cuestiones.<\/p>\n

Pero hay ocasiones en las que eres t\u00fa quien necesita ayuda. Normalmente, en estas situaciones, no hay nadie a tu alrededor que pueda ayudarte.<\/p>\n

Es entonces cuando debes anteponerte a ti mismo, porque eres el \u00fanico que puede ayudarte.<\/p>\n

You may think it\u2019s selfish to put your own problems before everyone else\u2019s but actually this is the only natural thing to do.<\/p>\n

3. Cuando est\u00e1s cerca de personas t\u00f3xicas<\/span><\/h2>\n

A veces, las personas m\u00e1s cercanas a nosotros son las m\u00e1s t\u00f3xicas. Y esa es una de las cosas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles de aceptar en la vida.<\/p>\n

Estas son las personas que significan todo para ti y las que han estado en tu vida desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But,that doesn\u2019t mean they are good for you. So, whenever you feel that someone brings negativity to your life, deep down you know you need to cut this person out of your life. But you feel guilty for even considering it.<\/p>\n

Y estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que apartar a las personas t\u00f3xicas de tu vida es exactamente lo que tienes que hacer, no importa lo dif\u00edcil que parezca.<\/p>\n

Esta es una de las cosas que tienes que hacer por ti, porque estas son las personas que s\u00f3lo te dejar\u00e1n cicatrices emocionales y eso es lo \u00faltimo que quieres o necesitas.<\/p>\n

4. Cuando te esfuerzas demasiado<\/span><\/h2>\n

Hay momentos en los que sientes que eres el \u00fanico que pone todo su empe\u00f1o en una relaci\u00f3n con alguien.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t only include romantic relationships but also friendships and family relations. You see that you are the only one fighting for the other person and the only one who gives a damn.<\/p>\n

Whenever you feel like this, it\u2019s time to put yourself first. It\u2019s time to stop trying so hard around someone who doesn\u2019t match your efforts and who doesn\u2019t love you the way you love them. And there is nothing selfish in that.<\/p>\n

5. When you are trying to save someone who doesn\u2019t want to be saved<\/span><\/h2>\n

Eres alguien que ve lo bueno en cada persona que encuentra. Crees que algunas personas solo necesitan que las quieran para mejorar.<\/p>\n

You want to fix everyone who\u2019s been broken in the past and you want to heal everyone who\u2019s been hurt. You think of yourself as this superwoman who can save everyone.<\/p>\n

But sometimes, there are people who don\u2019t want to be saved, despite all of your efforts. And that is a situation in which you have to give up on those people, as much as it hurts.<\/p>\n

Because you won\u2019t change them or save them, you\u2019ll only be destroyed by their negativity and that is the last thing you need.<\/p>\n

6. When you are with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/span><\/h2>\n

We\u2019ve all been in a situation in which we try hard around someone who doesn\u2019t deserve us, when we stay with someone who brings us pain, who takes us for granted and who will never see our true value.<\/p>\n

Pero por alguna raz\u00f3n, seguimos eligiendo a esa persona por encima de nosotros mismos. Y yo estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que dejes de hacerlo. Hay momentos en los que necesitas el\u00edgete a ti mismo<\/a> over everyone else, if you want what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

I know you probably think of this as selfish, but trust me\u2014when you do it, you\u2019ll realize that it was the best decision you\u2019ve ever made. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For as long as you can remember, you were always putting others first. You thought that was the only right thing to do and that anything else would be selfish. But I am here to tell you that there is a great difference between being selfish and prioritizing yourself from time to time. There are…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":17017,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17015","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/graham.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17015","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17015"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17015\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17017"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17015"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17015"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17015"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}