{"id":17067,"date":"2020-11-08T11:06:51","date_gmt":"2020-11-08T11:06:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17067"},"modified":"2022-01-09T18:18:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T18:18:05","slug":"eres-mi-mayor-decepcion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/eres-mi-mayor-decepcion\/","title":{"rendered":"Eres mi mayor decepci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What you did to me was more than terrible. You shattered my dreams and destroyed my entire world. You put me through an unimaginable amount of pain that I was sure I couldn\u2019t handle.<\/p>\n<p>But I did. I didn\u2019t only learn to handle it but I also survived. I survived you and everything you put me through. Somehow, my life kept going without you in it.<\/p>\n<p><b>No voy a mentir<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>fue de todo menos f\u00e1cil. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Al principio, no ve\u00eda fin a mi miseria. Pens\u00e9 que sufrir\u00eda el resto de mi vida porque te alejaste de m\u00ed. Estaba segura de que nunca podr\u00eda superarte.<\/p>\n<p>At first, I hoped you\u2019d come back. I hoped you\u2019d realize you had made a huge mistake by abandoning me and that you\u2019d try to fix things.<\/p>\n<p>But most of all, I hoped that you\u2019d understand how much you loved me and that we would continue where we left off. So, I waited for that to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Estaba dispuesta a perdonarte por dejarme y por todo el dolor que me causaste, siempre y cuando pudiera tenerte de vuelta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122293 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer asi\u00e1tica triste se sienta junto a la ventana y mira al exterior\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-Asian-woman-sits-by-the-window-and-looks-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But time passed by and that didn\u2019t happen. And what did happen was life. Everywhere around me, life went on and I was standing still, in one place, waiting for you.<\/p>\n<p>And then one morning, after a while, I woke up and you weren\u2019t the first thing that crossed my mind. And I didn\u2019t realize that until a few hours had passed.<\/p>\n<p>Otra persona lo considerar\u00eda irrelevante, pero para m\u00ed era enorme. Al cabo de un rato, volv\u00ed a sonre\u00edr sin ning\u00fan motivo en particular.<\/p>\n<p>And I knew I was on the path to my recovery. For the first time ever, I had hope that there would come a time when I\u2019d get over you.<\/p>\n<p>Y ese momento ha llegado. <b>Realmente te sobreviv\u00ed. Y realmente te perdon\u00e9 por todo lo que hab\u00eda pasado entre nosotros. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Te perdon\u00e9 por dejarme en un abrir y cerrar de ojos y te perdon\u00e9 por no preguntarte nunca c\u00f3mo me hac\u00edan sentir tus actos. Te perdono por todo, excepto por una cosa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122294 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"la rubia triste piensa en la mesa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/the-sad-blonde-thinks-at-the-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><b>I can\u2019t forgive you for disappointing me.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it \u2014 you were never perfect. And neither was I. But I thought we were perfect for each other. After all, that was what you tried to convince me all along, wasn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>Trabajaste muy duro para ganarte mi confianza y presentarte como un hombre fiable y maduro.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2014 I always saw your flaws and I accepted them as part of you. But despite all of these flaws, I always thought you were an amazing guy.<\/p>\n<p>Te consideraba un gran hombre y, sobre todo, una gran persona. Estaba seguro de la fuerza de tu car\u00e1cter. Pensaba en ti como un hombre de palabra, como alguien que nunca violar\u00eda mi confianza.<\/p>\n<p>I considered you to be a man I could trust with my life and I was sure you\u2019d never hurt me the way you did.<\/p>\n<p>Pero la forma <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-abandono-el-piso-rogando-quedarse\/\">me dejaste<\/a> y todo lo que hiciste despu\u00e9s de irte me demostr\u00f3 lo equivocada que estaba. Me mostr\u00f3 que s\u00f3lo eras grande a mis ojos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122295 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"una rubia triste tumbada en la cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-sad-blonde-lying-on-the-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You weren\u2019t this great man and great person<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>S\u00f3lo te imaginaba as\u00ed. S\u00f3lo eras mi mayor amor. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Me di cuenta de que s\u00f3lo esperaba y esperaba que fueras <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/articles\/communication\/9-ways-better-person.html\" rel=\"noopener\"> una persona mejor <\/a> than you actually were. And then it hit me \u2014 I never knew the real you.<\/p>\n<p>I will never know whether you pretended to be someone you obviously weren\u2019t or if I just chose to see you differently. I will never know if you changed after you walked away from me or if this was your true face all along.<\/p>\n<p>Porque empezaste a actuar como si yo nunca hubiera existido, como si nunca hubi\u00e9ramos existido.<\/p>\n<p>When you walked away without ever giving me an explanation, without saying a word, you proved that our relationship never meant a thing to you \u2014 that I didn\u2019t mean anything to you. You did everything you swore you would never do.<\/p>\n<p>Y ahora, <b> you are the man you swore you\u2019d never be. Now, you are my biggest disappointment.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-122296 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Eres mi mayor decepci\u00f3n\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> <\/b> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What you did to me was more than terrible. You shattered my dreams and destroyed my entire world. You put me through an unimaginable amount of pain that I was sure I couldn\u2019t handle. But I did. I didn\u2019t only learn to handle it but I also survived. I survived you and everything you put&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":122292,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/You-Are-My-Biggest-Disappointment.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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