{"id":17081,"date":"2020-07-29T07:03:32","date_gmt":"2020-07-29T07:03:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17081"},"modified":"2022-09-26T12:19:37","modified_gmt":"2022-09-26T12:19:37","slug":"es-por-eso-que-un-infj-es-un-narcisista-victima-mas-comun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-por-eso-que-un-infj-es-un-narcisista-victima-mas-comun\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que un INFJ es la v\u00edctima m\u00e1s com\u00fan de un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quieres ayudar a la gente. Quieres hacer del mundo un lugar mejor. No puedes evitarlo. Eres as\u00ed y eso es lo que te hace tan especial.<\/p>\n

La personalidad INFJ es una de las m\u00e1s raras del mundo porque no hay demasiadas personas que sacrificar\u00edan su propio bienestar y sus propios sentimientos para salvar a los dem\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You are your own worst critic, especially when someone pressures you all the time and that\u2019s why narcisistas presa<\/a> en ti.<\/p>\n

You are an easy target for them to leech off of. You won\u2019t give up on them even if they dry you out completely.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll criticize yourself and you\u2019ll have the feeling that it was all your fault. Well, that\u2019s exactly what they want.<\/p>\n

Te hacen perder la autoestima y el amor propio, exactamente las dos cosas que m\u00e1s necesitas.<\/p>\n

A narcissist is only capable of loving himself and no one else. There is no point in trying to evoke empathy or any feelings in them because they just can\u2019t show them. They don\u2019t care about anyone but themself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n con un narcisista<\/a> is something you can\u2019t see coming. No matter how hard you try to spot them and try to deal with them, they can play you like a fool.<\/p>\n

Son tan buenos actores y mentirosos, especialmente cuando quieren o necesitan algo realmente mal en este caso, usted, y usted nunca tiene una oportunidad contra ellos.<\/p>\n

You have to understand that it\u2019s not your fault if you\u2019ve been victimized by a narcissist. It\u2019s not true that you are less worthy or that you don\u2019t deserve anything better than him. It\u2019s his goal to make you feel like crap, to make you feel guilty of everything, to make you feel submissive to him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how he controls you, through his little mind games and control. First, he convinces you that you are good for nothing and then he takes advantage of you. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He uses your very last atom of energy and he doesn\u2019t leave you be. Not until you become an empty shell that once was a smiling and loving woman.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los INFJ atraen a los narcisistas?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un narcisista pretende darte todo el amor que necesitas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Todos son iguales desde el principio. Fingen ser cari\u00f1osos y afectuosos. Fingen que quieren darte el mundo, para que les creas y conf\u00edes en ellos. Entonces te tienen en su trampa.<\/p>\n

Narcissists fake having something you want, something your personality needs, that\u2019s why you are an easy prey for them.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s similar to emp\u00e1ticos<\/a>ya que tambi\u00e9n atraen a estas personalidades de rasgos oscuros.<\/p>\n

Hay que tener mucho cuidado cuando se conoce a gente nueva. S\u00e9 que conf\u00edas en todo el mundo y crees que todos act\u00faan y piensan como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

No todos quieren sacar lo mejor de la gente. Algunos alimentan su energ\u00eda succionando a los dem\u00e1s, como los narcisistas.<\/p>\n

Tienes que resistirte a mostrar empat\u00eda con cada persona que se te presente. Esto es contrario a todo lo que sabes y a todo lo que eres pero, por tu propio bien, tienes que resistirte a ello.<\/p>\n

Los INFJ buscan la relaci\u00f3n perfecta<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You are a perfectionist and it is normal that you reject everything that\u2019s less than perfect.<\/p>\n

So, you carefully choose the people who surround you but it\u2019s not easy to spot a narcissist in disguise, as they can sneak up on you and bomb you with their fake love, which will seem to you like perfection.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s where you make the biggest mistake. You know that you deserve to be loved and respected and a narcissist will lie and manipulate you into thinking he will give you exactly what you want.<\/p>\n

You have to realize that the things that happen fast, like love at first sight and so on, are nice, cute and exciting but it doesn\u2019t have to mean it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

Las cosas pueden parecer perfectas, pero hay que tener miedo a la perfecci\u00f3n porque nunca nada es perfecto. Puedes esforzarte por hacerlo lo mejor posible, pero nunca ser\u00e1 perfecto.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que para protegerte de los narcisistas, tienes que darte cuenta de que tu idea de la perfecci\u00f3n puede llevarte a sus brazos y pueden hacerte mucho da\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Los INFJ tienen un deseo insaciable de salvar a la gente<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cada vez que un narcisista hace algo manipulador e hiriente, en lugar de coger sus pertenencias y abandonarlo, una INFJ piensa que puede darle la vuelta.<\/p>\n

She thinks she can change him for the better. Well, that is not going to happen. A narcissist can\u2019t change because he doesn\u2019t want to change.<\/p>\n

Nada de lo que hace le parece mal. Cree que su comportamiento es completamente normal y que sus acciones est\u00e1n justificadas.<\/p>\n

Piensa que t\u00fa eres el roto porque te niegas a vivir seg\u00fan sus reglas porque te niegas a obedecerle.<\/p>\n

Por otra parte, sus rasgos oscuros han estado presentes durante tanto tiempo que se ha convertido en parte de ellos.<\/p>\n

Estas caracter\u00edsticas m\u00f3rbidas son lo que le hace ser quien es y nada puede cambiarlo.<\/p>\n

Nadie puede cambiar el n\u00facleo de un ser humano, algo que lo define, as\u00ed que t\u00fa tampoco.<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas se sienten atra\u00eddos por las personas emp\u00e1ticas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Narcissists target people who have empathy and who are strong. They can\u2019t take advantage of weak people because they have nothing to offer them.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo los fuertes, como t\u00fa, pueden soportar ser chupados por estos vampiros emocionales<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Tienes algo que dar, algo que ellos quieren, como compasi\u00f3n, amor o integridad.<\/p>\n

You want to fix people, you want to help them and that\u2019s what draws them closer to you.<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas saben que pueden hacerte lo que quieran porque, aunque te hagan da\u00f1o y crucen todos los l\u00edmites, te har\u00e1n sentir culpable para que les des otra oportunidad o sientas l\u00e1stima por ellos.<\/p>\n

They know you\u2019ll fall for that trick because you want to help them, you want to heal them.<\/p>\n

In this situation, your kind personality will be your downfall and no, that\u2019s not fair, but it happens and you have to learn to fight it.<\/p>\n

Los INFJ saben dudar de s\u00ed mismos a menudo<\/h2>\n

\"pretty<\/p>\n

En el fondo, sabes que te mereces todo el respeto y el amor posibles, pero tu mayor problema es que dudas demasiado de ti misma.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re too sensitive and pretty much anything can hurt you because te encari\u00f1as tan r\u00e1pida y f\u00e1cilmente<\/a> to people. It\u2019s your good nature and you can\u2019t avoid it.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s why you put people on a pedestal; you think everyone is better than you when that\u2019s far from the truth.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, los que merecen respeto y elogios son los que m\u00e1s dudan de s\u00ed mismos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Los narcisistas se aprovechar\u00e1n de tu buen car\u00e1cter. Se presentar\u00e1n como mejores que t\u00fa, aunque en realidad no lo sean.<\/p>\n

Le har\u00e1n sentir que ha dado con la relaci\u00f3n con el premio gordo<\/a> con ellos, pero la verdad es que podr\u00edas hacerlo mucho mejor.<\/p>\n

\"Esta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You want to help people. You want to make the world a better place. You can\u2019t help it. It\u2019s just the way you are and that\u2019s what makes you so special. The INFJ personality is one of the rarest ones in the world because there are not too many people who would sacrifice their own…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":101802,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17081","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-Why-an-INFJ-Is-A-Narcissists-Most-Common-Victim.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17081","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17081"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17081\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/101802"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17081"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17081"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17081"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}