Se volvi\u00f3 distante. Desinteresado. Casi nunca tiene tiempo para ti e incluso cuando lo tiene, es s\u00f3lo una sombra del hombre que una vez conociste.<\/p>\n
Cuando hablas con \u00e9l, sigue haciendo promesas que nunca cumple. Necesita tiempo para enderezar su vida.<\/p>\n
He is going through a rough patch right now and that\u2019s why he treats you poorly. He will be el hombre que te mereces<\/a> si le das un poco de tiempo.<\/p>\n But when you look at it, you have been waiting for forever and nothing has changed. You shouldn\u2019t be the one paying the high price for his problems.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t suffer because he is miserable. You bend over backward to please him but it\u2019s never enough. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Est\u00e1 tan acostumbrado a su papel de v\u00edctima que a estas alturas de vuestra relaci\u00f3n siempre se le malinterpreta y siempre eres t\u00fa la culpable.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Pero sigues aguantando. Sigues d\u00e1ndole trozos de ti para que se sienta mejor.<\/p>\n You are putting his happiness before your own. What you don\u2019t realize is that you can\u2019t fix somebody who doesn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n Y si te quedas y tratas de arreglarlo, nada te cortar\u00e1 tan profundo como esos pedazos suyos destrozados. Nada te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s da\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n His brokenness and his dissatisfaction with his life don\u2019t have anything to do with you, even if he makes you feel like that sometimes. You have this feeling that it\u2019s your responsibility to help him but you can\u2019t help a hopeless case.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t do his job for him. Change comes only to those who welcome it into their lives. And he is clearly used to things being the way they are.<\/p>\n Lo \u00fanico que deber\u00edas hacer es quererle hasta que se arregle.<\/strong> That\u2019s what people in normal and healthy relationships do.<\/p>\n They support each other and they stay through thick and thin. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t look at his problems like they are your own.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t fight battles that are not yours. You shouldn\u2019t let him use you in that way.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t you realize that somebody else in his shoes would thank God he has you? To have somebody who cares so much.<\/p>\n Somebody supportive. Somebody who stays no matter what. But he is not that somebody. He is taking your efforts for granted and he doesn\u2019t appreciate you nearly as much as he should.<\/p>\n Que intentes arreglarle a \u00e9l, que intentes arreglaros a los dos, probablemente est\u00e9 empeorando las cosas. S\u00f3lo te est\u00e1s moviendo en c\u00edrculos de algo insano, de algo unilateral y totalmente codependiente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Te descuidaste. Antepusiste sus necesidades a las tuyas y olvidaste que mereces que te quieran con la misma intensidad.<\/p>\n Te mereces a alguien que te apoye tanto como t\u00fa a \u00e9l. Alguien que est\u00e9 a tu lado cuando lo est\u00e9s pasando mal.<\/p>\n Alguien con quien compartir tus risas y tus victorias. Alguien que te deje entrar por completo.<\/p>\n Someone who will know how to give as much as he takes. You don\u2019t have that now.<\/p>\n Si te quedas y luchas un poco m\u00e1s, s\u00f3lo te destruir\u00e1 emocionalmente. Te quitar\u00e1 tanto que no tendr\u00e1s nada que darte a ti misma.<\/strong><\/p>\n You are probably already at your limit. His state of mind doesn\u2019t give him the right to treat you badly.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t put up with everything just because you love so deeply.<\/p>\n Love shouldn\u2019t consist only of sacrifice. Love should be something you are both involved in, something mutual.<\/p>\n Deber\u00edas ser capaz de ver sus esfuerzos, su inversi\u00f3n, su determinaci\u00f3n por mejorar las cosas para ambos. If you are the only one trying, the only one fixing things, it is not love, it\u2019s torture.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t stay somewhere where you are not appreciated. Don\u2019t be afraid to turn over a new leaf in a completely new book.<\/p>\n![\"oto\u00f1o](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/autumn-in-the-park-stands-a-sad-woman.jpg\")
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