{"id":17159,"date":"2020-03-30T10:26:57","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T10:26:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17159"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:59:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:59:13","slug":"7-senales-discretas-de-que-estas-ganando-la-ruptura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-discretas-de-que-estas-ganando-la-ruptura\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales discretas de que est\u00e1s ganando la ruptura"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las rupturas nunca son f\u00e1ciles. Suelen ser desastrosas, con un mont\u00f3n de pedazos de nuestros corazones destrozados por todas partes.<\/p>\n

They will hurt no matter what. So, it’s not easy to say who’s the winner and who’s the loser in all of that.<\/p>\n

But the way you deal with a breakup is what makes you a winner. It’s about how elegantly you let go of the things that weren’t meant for you that counts.<\/p>\n

Puede que no sea agradable decir esto, pero la verdad es que realmente salimos ganando de ciertas rupturas.<\/p>\n

We win our life back for starters. Because sometimes, we get away from people who weren’t right for us\u2014who manipulado<\/a>, cheated, abused our trust\u2014and we are certainly not feeling a loss because the relationship ended.<\/p>\n

A veces, evitamos que las cosas empeoren a\u00fan m\u00e1s y lo \u00fanico que podemos hacer es agradecer que todo haya terminado.<\/p>\n

En definitiva, hay se\u00f1ales que te ayudar\u00e1n a determinar si est\u00e1s ganando la ruptura:<\/p>\n

When you said ‘no contact’, you meant NO CONTACT<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Fuiste fiel a tu palabra. Lo echaste completamente de tu vida porque no hab\u00eda otra forma de superarlo.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t always easy. You had days when all you wanted to do was to rush back into his arms or at very least send a text, but you resisted. <\/p>\n

You resisted even when he called you. You ignored him even if it was difficult\u2014you know it would only make things worse for you.<\/p>\n

That’s what makes you a winner. You are winning because you acknowledged that some people are not supposed to be in your life. They had their chance and they blew it.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s ganando porque est\u00e1s luchando contra tus impulsos. Est\u00e1s recordando lo que te mereces y no vas a conformarte con menos.<\/p>\n

Sabes que si te resbalas y te rompes norma de no contacto<\/a>, you would be in the same mess with him all over again and that’s the last thing you want.<\/p>\n

Redirigiste tu atenci\u00f3n hacia ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Sentiste que perdiste partes de ti mientras estabas en la relaci\u00f3n y perdiste m\u00e1s de ti cuando las cosas terminaron.<\/p>\n

Pero tras el shock inicial, te diste cuenta de que llorar todo el d\u00eda y ahogar tus penas en chocolate no te llevaba a ninguna parte, y decidiste mudarte.<\/p>\n

You decided that you put him in front of you so many times and that it’s time to change your ways. You decided to do things for yourself.<\/p>\n

Decidiste ponerte en primer lugar y pensar en tu propio bienestar. Has encontrado nuevos intereses y aficiones. Socializas m\u00e1s. Haces cosas que te hacen feliz.<\/p>\n

Los amigos comunes siguen formando parte de tu vida<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Cuando una relaci\u00f3n se acaba, algunas amistades que la acompa\u00f1aban tambi\u00e9n se acaban. La gente odia estar en medio de las cosas y librar batallas que no son suyas. Lo cual es comprensible.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si usted es uno de los afortunados que todav\u00eda sale con algunos de los amigos comunes que usted y su pareja compart\u00edan, definitivamente est\u00e1 ganando la ruptura.<\/p>\n

Si los amigos comunes siguen en tu vida y te apoyan en los momentos dif\u00edciles, eres una persona muy afortunada. Has encontrado amigos de verdad<\/a> y a tu lado pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

Sientes lo que sientes<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

You don’t have the energy or necessity to pretend to be something you are not. If you are happy, it will show. If you are sad, it will show.<\/p>\n

You know that pain is inevitable and that you need to embrace it in order to heal. You also know that you shouldn’t deprive yourself of moments of happiness, so you make the best of it.<\/p>\n

De alguna manera mantienes el equilibrio y aunque ahora est\u00e1s m\u00e1s en el lado triste, sabes que la felicidad prevalecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Usted est\u00e1 ganando esto porque usted no tiene ninguna necesidad de justificar sus sentimientos a su ex o cualquier otra persona para el caso.<\/p>\n

Eres due\u00f1o de tus emociones, las sientes y las manejas. Ya te sientes m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que cre\u00edas.<\/p>\n

No est\u00e1s mostrando tu angustia en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque probablemente lo hayas borrado de todas tus redes sociales<\/a> accounts, you still don’t have the need to display your emotions publicly\u2014specially not in the form of long status updates of how are you feeling after the breakup.<\/p>\n

You know that not all of your social media friends are truly your friends. Your real life friends are people you can confide in and that’s more than enough.<\/p>\n

You don’t want any information about you reaching his ears. You know that not knowing is what will sting him the most.<\/p>\n

Te topas con ellos y mantienes la calma<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s like some unwritten rule that you will run into your ex the moment you stop thinking about him. It’s like some kind of joke the universe plays on us.<\/p>\n

Pero si eso ocurre y t\u00fa est\u00e1s con tu mejor cara, fingiendo que no te afecta en nada ese encuentro, est\u00e1s ganando.<\/p>\n

Because no matter how you feel, it’s never a good idea to break into tears when seeing your ex. You can always do it later in the privacy of your home.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t have to know how you feel\u2014specially if he had a toxic personality and he would only feed on your pain. So, in any case, head up and be proud of yourself for keeping your cool.<\/p>\n

Has o\u00eddo que han estado preguntando por ti<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And you wouldn’t do that in your wildest dreams. You know that people gossip and you know if you asked about him, it will reach his ears eventually.<\/p>\n

Como la informaci\u00f3n de que quiere saber d\u00f3nde est\u00e1s y lo que est\u00e1s haciendo lleg\u00f3 a usted.<\/p>\n

Puede que pregunten por pura curiosidad. Puede que lamenten haberte perdido. Puede que te quiero de vuelta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But the thing is that even though you enjoyed hearing that they want to know your whereabouts it simply doesn’t matter anymore.<\/p>\n

You have no intention of getting back with him. You decided it’s time to move on.<\/p>\n

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