{"id":17163,"date":"2020-03-30T10:55:41","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T10:55:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17163"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:27:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:27:27","slug":"me-rompiste-el-corazon-pero-no-me-rompiste-a-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-rompiste-el-corazon-pero-no-me-rompiste-a-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Me rompiste el coraz\u00f3n pero no me rompiste a m\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando me dejaste, pens\u00e9 que era el fin del mundo. Pens\u00e9 que mi vida hab\u00eda llegado a su fin y que ya no ten\u00eda nada por lo que vivir. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te lo di todo y, mientras estuve contigo, dej\u00e9 de existir como otra cosa que no fuera tu novia. <\/span><\/p>\n

And when you left, I just didn\u2019t know what to do with myself anymore. I felt like my existence had no meaning and no purpose. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eras la \u00fanica persona que me tra\u00eda felicidad y que era capaz de poner una sonrisa en mi cara. Y todo se hab\u00eda ido. <\/span><\/p>\n

Recuerdo vagamente los meses siguientes. Me pas\u00e9 todo ese tiempo llorando por ti y esperando a que volvieras. Sent\u00eda que lo cambiar\u00eda todo en este mundo s\u00f3lo por o\u00edr tu voz y ver tu cara una vez m\u00e1s. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pathetic, I know. But that was exactly how I felt. I couldn\u2019t get myself into doing anything productive and all I did was think of you. I cried from the moment I\u2019d wake up to the moment I\u2019d fall asleep. <\/span><\/p>\n

And even when I would manage to fall asleep, I would still dream about you. This pain you left behind consumed my entire being and I didn\u2019t see any signs of a bright future ahead of me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I just assumed I\u2019d suffer for you as long as I breathed. <\/span><\/p>\n

And then, one day, it just didn\u2019t hurt that much. I was still thinking of you but I didn\u2019t have the feeling I would die without you by my side. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y desde ese momento, supe que sobrevivir\u00eda. Sab\u00eda que me llevar\u00eda tiempo, pero estaba segura de que ocurrir\u00eda tarde o temprano.<\/span><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, llegu\u00e9 a la conclusi\u00f3n de que <\/span>you leaving me wasn\u2019t so bad after all. <\/b>S\u00f3lo fuiste una dura lecci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> I had to learn. I saw that I was foolish for thinking that my life had come to its end just because you weren\u2019t in it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que mi amor por ti no era lo \u00fanico que me hab\u00eda convertido en la mujer que soy. Me di cuenta de que tarde o temprano pasar\u00eda de ti y estaba decidida a hacerlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was still the woman I was before I met you. You came very close to breaking me and you did damage me emotionally but you didn\u2019t destroy me completely. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the beginning, I was terrified that I would never love someone the way I loved you. I was scared that I wouldn\u2019t let anyone in after you. I was positive that everyone would hurt me the way you did. <\/span><\/p>\n

But most of all, I was scared that this pain you\u2019d put me through would damage me for life. I was certain that this experience would make me a bitter, negative person and that I would never recover from everything I\u2019d survived after you left. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were my toughest lesson. You taught me what I don\u2019t want from love and what love shouldn\u2019t look like. You taught me that it\u2019s OK to feel emotional pain and that I need to give myself<\/span> tiempo para curarse<\/span><\/a>antes que cualquier otra cosa. <\/span><\/p>\n

You taught me not to allow myself to be defined by someone else\u2019s presence or the lack of it. You taught me not to allow anyone to give meaning to my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero sobre todo, <\/span>me has hecho darme cuenta de que necesito aprender <\/b>amarme a m\u00ed mismo<\/b><\/a>,<\/b> aunque hayas dejado de quererme. Me hiciste comprender que soy mi mejor amiga y que soy la \u00fanica persona en la que puedo confiar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019ve made it way harder for me to believe in true love.<\/b> But that doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019ve lost faith in it completely.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, <\/span>jugaste con mi confianza<\/b> but you didn\u2019t manage to make me an insecure person.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, <\/span>you\u2019ve changed some things about me<\/b> pero yo segu\u00eda esencialmente igual.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, <\/span>Estaba enfadado.<\/b> but I didn\u2019t become bitter and I hold no resentment.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed,<\/span> you\u2019ve hurt me in more than one way<\/b> pero s\u00e9 que sanar\u00e9 y me recuperar\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, <\/span>you\u2019ve made me vulnerable <\/b>but you didn\u2019t take my strength away from me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, you broke my heart but you didn\u2019t break me.<\/b><\/p>\n

<\/b>Y ese es mi mayor \u00e9xito. <\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you left me, I thought of it as the end of the world. I thought my life had come to an end and that there was nothing for me to live for anymore. I gave you my everything and while I was with you, I ceased to exist as anything else but your girlfriend….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":17164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/vladislav-todorov-611107-unsplash-1-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17163"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17163\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}