{"id":17166,"date":"2018-03-30T11:25:08","date_gmt":"2018-03-30T11:25:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17166"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:32:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:32:48","slug":"a-cada-chica-que-piensa-que-es-dificil-de-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-cada-chica-que-piensa-que-es-dificil-de-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"A todas las chicas que creen que es dif\u00edcil amarlas"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been hearing this for as long as you can remember. All the men you\u2019ve encountered in your life have told you that you are challenging, that you are hard to love and difficult to put up with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been told you are a handful, that you expect too much of everyone and that you are a perfectionist. And you think this cannot be a coincidence<\/span>\u2014<\/span>debe haber algo de verdad en ello. <\/span><\/p>\n

Con el tiempo, empezaste a creerles y empezaste a verlo como algo negativo. Pensaste que era culpa tuya, que era algo que hac\u00eda que los hombres huyeran de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que dejaste que te definiera. Empezaste a culpar a esta cualidad tuya como la raz\u00f3n por la que ninguna de tus relaciones tuvo \u00e9xito.<\/span><\/p>\n

You started blaming yourself for all the bad treatment you were getting and everything you\u2019ve been through in life.<\/span><\/p>\n

But I am here to tell you it\u2019s time to stop feeling this way. <\/b><\/p>\n

Estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que no eres dif\u00edcil de amar. S\u00f3lo eres fuerte,<\/span> mujer independiente <\/span><\/a>con sus propias opiniones y actitudes. Es alguien que lucha por s\u00ed misma y por lo que considera correcto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Y<\/span>ou are a woman who relies on herself only and a woman who doesn\u2019t trust everybody who comes into her life. <\/span><\/p>\n

No eres alguien que se deja definir por los hombres y no eres alguien que cambiar\u00e1 la esencia de su ser s\u00f3lo para ser m\u00e1s agradable a alg\u00fan chico o para encajar en los est\u00e1ndares de la sociedad. <\/span><\/p>\n

You have a very strong intuition and you don\u2019t get fooled easily. You are not easily lied to, because it offends your intelligence.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te respetas a ti mismo y exiges que todos en tu vida te respeten y te aprecien. Nunca permites que te den por sentado o te traten con condescendencia, porque conoces tu verdadero valor.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t make you hard to love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sus cualidades s\u00f3lo hacen<\/span> hombres inmaduros<\/span><\/a><\/em> feel insecure about you. They feel threatened and as if they aren\u2019t man enough.<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n

Estos hombres son conscientes de tu fuerza de car\u00e1cter, son conscientes de tu poder y valent\u00eda y saben muy bien que nunca podr\u00edan manipularte como les gustar\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\n

B<\/span>ut their fragile ego doesn\u2019t allow them to accept that, nor say it to you. So, they choose to blame you for everything. They choose to persuade you to feel guilty for being difficult to handle or hard to deal with. <\/span><\/p>\n

What those men don\u2019t know is that you hide a heart full of love. They don\u2019t know that your strength is something that would help them get through life. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you being a fighter means that you would also fight against everyone and everything just to preserve your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would never leave their side and that you would hold their hand through all of life\u2019s difficulties. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know you would never disrespect them, if they respected you. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would believe in them, even when everyone else stopped. <\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know that you would love them unconditionally and that you are someone who would make sacrifices for their well-being, if they proved to be worthy of your love.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, deja de culparte, de pensar que eres dif\u00edcil de amar, porque no lo eres.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are just hard to love for men who don\u2019t deserve you and who are not worthy of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t expect too much from people<\/span>\u2014<\/span>s\u00f3lo eres alguien que da mucho y espera el mismo trato. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know that you shouldn\u2019t be <\/span>el \u00fanico que pone todo su empe\u00f1o<\/span><\/a> en una relaci\u00f3n y eso est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que bien. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to prioritize the people who treat you as an option and that is what you should continue doing. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know you don\u2019t believe me now but trust me, <\/span>vendr\u00e1 un hombre que pensar\u00e1 que mereces todas las molestias.<\/b><\/p>\n

It will take you some time and a lot of patience but you will let him get close to you because you\u2019ll feel that his intentions are sincere and that his feelings are real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando entre en tu vida, este hombre te ver\u00e1 tal y como eres y ver\u00e1 lo valiosa que eres. Ver\u00e1 todas tus cualidades y se esforzar\u00e1 para que dejes tu escudo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este hombre te amar\u00e1 hasta la luna y de vuelta exactamente por lo que eres. Amar\u00e1 todas tus imperfecciones y te amar\u00e1 como mereces ser amada. <\/span><\/p>\n

B<\/span>ut most of all, he will fight all your insecurities away and he will show you that there is much about you to be loved. By doing this, he will teach you how to love yourself again. When this man comes along, you\u2019ll never again think you\u2019re hard to love. <\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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