{"id":17224,"date":"2018-04-03T09:55:50","date_gmt":"2018-04-03T09:55:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17224"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:29:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:29:23","slug":"hay-mas-en-la-vida-que-perseguir-a-un-chico-que-no-sabe-lo-que-vales","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hay-mas-en-la-vida-que-perseguir-a-un-chico-que-no-sabe-lo-que-vales\/","title":{"rendered":"Hay m\u00e1s cosas en la vida que perseguir a un chico que no sabe lo que vales"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Trust me when I say that there is more to life than chasing after a guy who doesn\u2019t know your worth. Trust me because I have been in your shoes. Trust me because I have learned the hard way that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/get-heart-keeps-holding\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nunca puedes retener a alguien<\/a> que no est\u00e1 destinado a estar en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>I wasted so much time running after somebody who didn\u2019t deserve to be given a second look, let alone my heart. He took my feelings and tossed them in the mud like they meant nothing. He took my heart and broke it. But I did even more damage to myself because chasing after him broke me even more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Creo que se me acabaron las l\u00e1grimas cuando me di cuenta de que debe haber algo m\u00e1s en la vida que \u00e9l.<\/strong> Than chasing after somebody who doesn\u2019t want to be caught. After somebody who never intended to stay. After somebody who was only halfway there. And I was right\u2014there is so much more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ah\u00ed est\u00e1 esa primera sonrisa genuina en tu cara mientras recorres el camino de la curaci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Existe ese momento de alivio en el que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-veces-que-te-daras-cuenta-de-que-has-esquivado-una-bala-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/\">darte cuenta de que esquivaste una bala<\/a> because he is no longer a part of your life. He never saw you. He never valued you\u2014he only made you feel like you weren\u2019t enough. He never noticed all that you\u2019ve have been giving, all the efforts you were making. He just took all of it for granted.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Existe ese momento incre\u00edble en el que decides ponerte a ti mismo en primer lugar.<\/strong> El momento en el que te des cuenta de lo que vales ser\u00e1 el momento en el que descubras tu fuerza y te sentir\u00e1s incre\u00edble. Sabr\u00e1s que puedes sobrevivir a todo. Sabr\u00e1s que te debes a ti mismo ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Existe esa felicidad cuando consigues algo por lo que has trabajado tan duro.<\/strong> Porque cuando te centras en ti mismo, alcanzas la grandeza. Sigues ganando en la vida. Porque todos los esfuerzos que le dedicabas a \u00e9l te los rediriges a ti mismo. Persistes en tu trabajo. Por fin empiezas a perseguir tus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Existe esa sensaci\u00f3n de pertenencia cuando tu amigo te abraza tan fuerte que puedes sentir c\u00f3mo crujen tus huesos.<\/strong> Cuando sepas que tienes <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/10-ways-you-know-youve-found-your-person?sec=pop6&amp;utm_expid=.53hHQ_sIS_GVYl9TPM4psw.3&amp;utm_referrer=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tu persona<\/a>tu verdadera alma gemela, alguien que siempre est\u00e9 a tu lado pase lo que pase. Alguien que est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para escuchar su drama sin sentido, alguien que es feliz cuando eres feliz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Existe esa sensaci\u00f3n de alegr\u00eda cuando pasas tiempo con tu familia y te das cuenta de que tienes personas en tu vida que te quieren incondicionalmente.<\/strong> Cuando te des cuenta de que gracias a ellos eres m\u00e1s dichoso de lo que jam\u00e1s pensaste, todas tus dem\u00e1s penas parecer\u00e1n peque\u00f1as. Estas personas son la raz\u00f3n por la que debes estar agradecido por esta vida y darle un mejor uso.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Existe esa novedad y belleza de no saber lo que va a pasar.<\/strong> Hay gente nueva que conoces por el camino. Hay nuevas experiencias para las que te armas de valor. Est\u00e1 ese viaje por carretera que haces con tus amigas, en el que recoges cada momento y lo atesoras para siempre. Hay una copa de vino que bebes mientras te relajas en el jacuzzi, disfrutando de tu tiempo a solas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hay algo en mirar todo lo que te rodea con nuevos ojos.<\/strong> Algo sobre aprovechar todo lo que te rodea. Disfrutar del caf\u00e9 de la ma\u00f1ana. Ver ponerse el sol. Mirar la luna y las estrellas. Admirar las vistas desde lo alto de un edificio o una colina. Sentir el sol en la piel. Respirar el aire fresco.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hay algo m\u00e1gico en aprender a quererse m\u00e1s a uno mismo cada d\u00eda.<\/strong> Hay algo poderoso en cada pedazo pegado de tu coraz\u00f3n. Hay algo admirable en que te muevas y sigas adelante a pesar de toda la angustia y el dolor y el da\u00f1o por los que has pasado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There&#8217;s you chasing your happiness instead of chasing a guy who would never make you happy.<\/strong> Instead of wasting your days on someone who doesn\u2019t deserve your minutes. He was just blocking the view for the one who is meant to find you and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/para-siempre-mucho-tiempo-no-me-importaria-gastar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> qu\u00e9date ah\u00ed para siempre<\/a>. The one who will be everything your ex could never come close to. The one who will see you and love you just the way you are. The one you won\u2019t have to chase. The one who will meet you halfway.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dejar-de-perseguirlo-y-ver-que-pasa-6-posibles-resultados\/\">Don&#8217;t chase him<\/a>. Trust me when I say that there is more to life than chasing after a guy who doesn\u2019t know your worth.<\/strong> There is you. There is the whole world to see and enjoy. There is happiness waiting for you and that\u2019s only thing you need to chase in this life.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Trust me when I say that there is more to life than chasing after a guy who doesn\u2019t know your worth. Trust me because I have been in your shoes. Trust me because I have learned the hard way that you can never hold on to somebody who is not meant to be in your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":17225,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/beach-dawn-dusk-274053.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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