{"id":17231,"date":"2018-04-03T11:03:16","date_gmt":"2018-04-03T11:03:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17231"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:30:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:30:55","slug":"6-senales-de-que-tienes-miedo-al-amor-y-que-hacer-al-respecto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-senales-de-que-tienes-miedo-al-amor-y-que-hacer-al-respecto\/","title":{"rendered":"6 se\u00f1ales de que te asusta el amor y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Crees en el amor y, en teor\u00eda, enamorarte es lo que m\u00e1s deseas.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bftus actos respaldan tus palabras? \u00bfO sigues huyendo del amor inconscientemente?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEres t\u00fa quien te impide ser feliz? \u00bfTienes miedo de enamorarte?<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes 6 se\u00f1ales que te dar\u00e1n una respuesta a estas preguntas.<\/p>\n

1. Te aferras al pasado<\/span><\/h2>\n

One of the first signs that you are scared of love and relationships is the fact that you still hold on tight to the past. You\u2019ve had your heart broken recently and you feel like you are not ready to enter a new relationship just yet.<\/p>\n

Aunque sin duda necesita date tiempo para curarte<\/a> and you shouldn\u2019t jump from one relationship to another, you should also do your best to look at the future.<\/p>\n

Lo que ha sucedido en el pasado debe quedarse ah\u00ed y nunca podr\u00e1s encontrar tu felicidad a menos que sueltes todo el resentimiento y rencor que puedas estar sintiendo.<\/p>\n

2. . You don\u2019t trust people<\/span><\/h2>\n

If you\u2019ve ever been hurt in the past, it is natural that you\u2019ve lost your trust in people and especially in men. A<\/p>\n

ll the men in your life violated your trust and you assume that every guy you meet will be the same. You\u2019ve been cheated on and lied to, so you are extra careful whenever there is a new man on your radar.<\/p>\n

And although being careful around new people is a good thing, it is also something that prevents you from finding true love. I know you don\u2019t believe it now, but not all men are the same.<\/p>\n

There will come a guy who will show you that he is worthy of your trust\u2014you just have to give him a chance.<\/p>\n

3. Piensas demasiado<\/span><\/h2>\n

A veces, una de las cosas que puede frenarte a la hora de entablar nuevas relaciones es tu exceso de reflexi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que conoces a un chico nuevo, piensas en todos los posibles resultados de tu posible relaci\u00f3n. Solo ves todos los defectos e imperfecciones que tiene ese chico y esto te impide darle una oportunidad a nadie.<\/p>\n

Aunque decidas intentarlo con alguien, tu pensar demasiado arruina tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a> tarde o temprano. S\u00e9 que es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil decirlo que hacerlo, pero tienes que esforzarte por relajarte.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control everything that is going to happen and sometimes it\u2019s best to just go with the flow.<\/p>\n

4. Se siente inseguro<\/span><\/h2>\n

The men from your past have tried to manipulate and control you. But, the only thing they\u2019ve accomplished is ruining your self-esteem. Over time, your insecurities grew and you started believing that you really are unlovable.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you can\u2019t believe that there exists a guy who would like you, so you keep sending new guys all the wrong signals, making them think you are unapproachable.<\/p>\n

Si este es tu caso, lo primero que tienes que hacer es recuperar tu autoestima.<\/p>\n

Although you don\u2019t think this way now, a man who thinks you are worthy will come and he will show you that love is not something you should be scared of.<\/p>\n

5. You can\u2019t imagine yourself being with one person<\/span><\/h2>\n

Otra se\u00f1al de que eres con miedo al amor<\/a> is the fact that you can\u2019t imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with one person.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t believe in monogamy\u2014you are just scared that you\u2019ll get tired of one guy after a while.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you one thing\u2014these types of fears and introspective thoughts are perfectly normal and are not something you should be ashamed of. Instead of thinking about so far off in the future, focus on the present and everything that is going on now.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to mean that every relationship you get involved in will end up being a long-lasting one. So, live for the moment and see where life brings you.<\/p>\n

6. Disfrutas demasiado de tu espacio personal<\/span><\/h2>\n

Being single can be great if you know how to use that time right. But, if you\u2019ve been single for a long time, it is likely that you\u2019ve started enjoying it too much and it can be one of the signs that you are too scared to fall in love.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s simple\u2014you\u2019ve developed your own habits with time and you forgot how it feels to compromise with a partner. But, this doesn\u2019t have to be a thing that prevents you from falling in love.<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n, es importante establecer l\u00edmites y, de esta forma, puedes seguir teniendo tu espacio personal. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You believe in love and theoretically, falling in love is something you desire the most. But, do your actions stand behind your words? Or do you keep running away from love subconsciously? Are you the one keeping yourself from being happy? Are you actually afraid of falling in love? Here are 6 signs that will…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":17232,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/bruno-van-der-kraan-614223-unsplash.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17231"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17231\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17232"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}