{"id":17234,"date":"2019-04-03T12:26:12","date_gmt":"2019-04-03T12:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17234"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:23:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:23:46","slug":"lee-esto-si-te-han-enganado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lee-esto-si-te-han-enganado\/","title":{"rendered":"Lee esto si te han enga\u00f1ado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings there is. It is not just about the fact that your heart\u2019s been broken\u2014it also has a lot to do with the feelings of humiliation and betrayal.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever been cheated on, you know exactly what I am talking about. You feel an enormous amount of emotional pain because this man has consciously chosen some other woman over you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know that he willingly chose to betray you and that means he actually never cared about your feelings. He didn\u2019t care if he hurt you and how his actions would make you feel because if he did, he wouldn\u2019t do the things he did to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te sigues preguntando <\/span>why you weren\u2019t enough<\/span><\/a> para \u00e9l. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tuvo que buscar a otras mujeres, adem\u00e1s de a ti? \u00bfHab\u00eda algo que pudieras haber hecho para evitar que te enga\u00f1ara?<\/span><\/p>\n

Then, you blame yourself for everything. You feel guilty for not noticing the signs earlier; you can\u2019t believe how blind you were not to see something that was happening right in front of you. <\/span><\/p>\n

This was the man you could trust your life with, your life companion whom you should\u2019ve known the best. But, yet, you didn\u2019t notice anything. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dejaste que te tomara por tonta y as\u00ed es exactamente como te sientes ahora contigo misma.<\/span><\/p>\n

Te consumen diferentes tipos de emociones por este chico. Hay d\u00edas en los que le echas de menos y deseas que todo vuelva a ser como antes. Y luego, hay d\u00edas en los que lo odias a muerte. <\/span><\/p>\n

You hate him for ruining everything you\u2019ve built for so long, you hate him for not being a man enough to tell you how things really are and most of all, you hate him for making you feel this way. <\/span><\/p>\n

Le odias por vivir su vida como si nada hubiera pasado, mientras te dejaba sola para que lidiaras con esta desesperaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t want to hate him. You don\u2019t want to love him either. You just want to become indifferent towards him. You want to stop thinking of him.<\/b><\/p>\n

But, you can\u2019t seem to make that happen. You\u2019ve become <\/span>cr\u00f3nicamente infeliz<\/span><\/a>. You\u2019ve started looking at life negatively. You\u2019ve become bitter and pessimistic. <\/span><\/p>\n

You feel like you can\u2019t trust anyone because the man you trusted the most has betrayed you. What is there to expect from someone you have just met?<\/span><\/p>\n

I am here to tell you that you are not alone. Millions of women around the world have been through the same things you are going through right now. And they\u2019ve all survived. And so will you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am here to tell you that you didn\u2019t do anything wrong. You shouldn\u2019t blame yourself for everything that has happened because none of it was your fault. Cheating is obviously in this guy\u2019s blood. <\/span><\/p>\n

You probably asked yourself if you could\u2019ve been a better girlfriend but trust me\u2014nothing you did would have made a difference. Even if there was something about you that was bothering this guy, he should have been man enough to tell you that in person.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he thought he couldn\u2019t handle you or if he fell out of love with you, he should have been direct about it and leave you. Yes, that would also have been painful, but it would have certainly hurt less than knowing you\u2019ve been cheated on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero sobre todo, estoy aqu\u00ed para decirte que se pone mejor, although you don\u2019t believe me now.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

There will come a day when all of this pain will go away. I don\u2019t know when it will be, but it will happen before you know it.<\/span><\/p>\n

There will come a day when you\u2019ll understand that this man cheating on you was something that had to happen. <\/b><\/p>\n

He was a tough lesson for you, but he was a lesson worth learning. Trust me\u2014you\u2019ll be grateful because you had to chance to see this man\u2019s true colors in time.<\/span><\/p>\n

And there will come a time when you\u2019ll believe in love once again. There will come a moment when you\u2019ll realize that not all men are the same. <\/span><\/p>\n

Que hay un hombre que ser\u00e1 digno de tu confianza y de tu amor.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that man will come. He will make sure you know that he\u2019d never cheat on you because he will respect you more than that. This man will show you that you are always more than enough and he will make you feel like you are the only woman in the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este hombre nunca har\u00e1 nada que pueda humillarte porque te apreciar\u00e1 m\u00e1s que eso. Ser\u00e1 paciente contigo y te ayudar\u00e1 a curar todas las heridas del pasado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aguanta con fuerza.<\/b> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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