{"id":17238,"date":"2020-08-03T13:27:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-03T13:27:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17238"},"modified":"2022-03-04T10:54:13","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:54:13","slug":"cuando-sabes-que-nunca-funcionara-pero-sigues-volviendo-el-uno-al-otro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-sabes-que-nunca-funcionara-pero-sigues-volviendo-el-uno-al-otro\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando Sabes Que Nunca Funcionar\u00e1 Pero Sigues Volviendo El Uno Al Otro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, your love for someone is stronger than everything else. Sometimes, your mind simply can\u2019t control your actions, no matter how hard you try. Sometimes, you need to put a stop to some things but you just can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Si alguna vez has estado en una situaci\u00f3n en la que est\u00e1s loca por un chico pero sabes que no hay futuro para los dos, sabes exactamente de lo que estoy hablando.<\/p>\n<p>Este chico ha sacudido tu mundo desde el primer momento en que lo viste. Y sabes que \u00e9l siente lo mismo por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Los dos sois <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nos-amamos-pero-no-podemos-estar-juntos\/\">locamente enamorados el uno del otro<\/a> and you can\u2019t keep your hands off of one another.<\/p>\n<p>Pero desde el momento en que lo conociste, supiste <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hercampus.com\/love\/dating\/7-signs-he-s-trouble\" rel=\"noopener\">era problem\u00e1tico<\/a>. Sab\u00edas que los dos nunca podr\u00edais encontrar la paz uno al lado del otro.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you\u2019ve always thought that he is your other half\u2014you could never imagine loving someone that much. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95945\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-happy-silhouettes.jpg\" alt=\"pareja feliz siluetas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-happy-silhouettes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-happy-silhouettes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/couple-happy-silhouettes-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You both want things between you to work out badly but somehow that is not happening. You keep fighting and breaking up because you simply can\u2019t get along.<\/p>\n<p>And you don\u2019t know why that is so. You don\u2019t doubt his feelings and you are certain that you love him as well.<\/p>\n<p><b>A pesar de todo, segu\u00eds volviendo el uno al otro. En el fondo, ambos sab\u00e9is que nunca conseguir\u00e9is tener una relaci\u00f3n sana y fuerte, pero hay alguna fuerza inexplicable que os arrastra el uno hacia el otro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Every time you break things off, you decide to call it quits for good. You decide this is the last time you\u2019ll let this man into your life, because you know he is toxic for you.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to mean that he is a bad guy\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/solo-porque-estes-enamorada-no-significa-que-sea-el-indicado\/\">ustedes dos simplemente no son el uno para el otro<\/a>. He wakes up the worst in you and that is something you don\u2019t need in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Pero cada vez<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/lee-esto-si-vuelve-arrastrandose\/\"> vuelve arrastr\u00e1ndose<\/a>...lo llevas de vuelta, como si nada hubiera pasado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95946\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando a hombre mientras le coge de la mano en cafe de la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Aunque sabes que no hay futuro para vosotros dos, secretamente esperas que esta vez sea diferente. <\/b><b>And I am here to tell you that it won\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Neither of you is obviously ready to change. You are both grown-ups and it would be absurd to expect either of you to change so that you could fit the other person\u2019s standards.<\/p>\n<p>It is possible that you are both hot-tempered or that your personalities simply don\u2019t match.<\/p>\n<p>The two of you have been together for ages and by now, you should\u2019ve learned how to function together. But, obviously, that didn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n<p>And if it hadn\u2019t happened by now, why would you think it would in the future? <b>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 cree que esta vez ser\u00e1 diferente, cuando en el pasado las cosas acabaron siempre igual?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is that is keeping you two from being happy, it is obviously something that you can\u2019t surpass and it\u2019s time for you to stop running from that fact.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95947\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/an-angry-man-who-was-abandoned-by-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre enfadado que fue abandonado por una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/an-angry-man-who-was-abandoned-by-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/an-angry-man-who-was-abandoned-by-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/an-angry-man-who-was-abandoned-by-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time you accept the fact that your partner is not someone you need in your life, despite all the love you feel for him.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que crees que el amor verdadero puede vencer cualquier cosa. Y ciertamente puede. <b>But it\u2019s obvious that this is not true love, as much as you wish for it to be.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>True love shouldn\u2019t make you feel like this. Yes, this guy gives you butterflies and passion you\u2019ve never felt before, but admit it\u2014you feel stressed and overwhelmed all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca sabes a qu\u00e9 atenerte con \u00e9l y nunca sabes qu\u00e9 os deparar\u00e1 el futuro a los dos. Aunque esto puede parecer emocionante al principio, con el tiempo se vuelve agotador.<\/p>\n<p>True love will make you feel peaceful. It will feel like home. It will make all the puzzles fit in place and it will be everything you\u2019ve been looking for all along, without even knowing it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95948\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/smiling-couple-man-kisses-woman-on-forehead-outside.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sonriente hombre besa a mujer en la frente al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/smiling-couple-man-kisses-woman-on-forehead-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/smiling-couple-man-kisses-woman-on-forehead-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/smiling-couple-man-kisses-woman-on-forehead-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>As\u00ed que, por favor, por el bien de tu salud mental y f\u00edsica, s\u00e9 t\u00fa quien se aleje. Porque esto no es amor verdadero<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>it\u2019s torture.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I know you are scared of making the wrong decision and I know you don\u2019t want to hurt yourself or your partner. And I am not going to lie to you\u2014it won\u2019t be easy.<\/p>\n<p>Estar\u00e1s devastado una vez que finalmente pongas fin a esta farsa. Y echar\u00e1s de menos como \u00e9l el infierno.<\/p>\n<p>You will cry, you will feel like you can\u2019t live without him and you will want to go back to him. And this is when you\u2019ll have to be the strongest.<\/p>\n<p>This is when you\u2019ll have to realize that sometimes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/a-veces-el-amor-no-es-suficiente\/\">el amor no es suficiente<\/a> and this is when you\u2019ll have to accept the fact that you\u2019d never be happy with this guy.<\/p>\n<p>But all of this pain will go away in time. And you\u2019ll be grateful you finally ended it. You\u2019ll be thankful you saved yourself from a lifetime of misery.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95943 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/When-You-Know-It-Will-Never-Work-Out-But-You-Keep-Going-Back-To-Each-Other-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Cuando Sabes Que Nunca Funcionar\u00e1 Pero Sigues Volviendo El Uno Al Otro\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/When-You-Know-It-Will-Never-Work-Out-But-You-Keep-Going-Back-To-Each-Other-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/When-You-Know-It-Will-Never-Work-Out-But-You-Keep-Going-Back-To-Each-Other-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/When-You-Know-It-Will-Never-Work-Out-But-You-Keep-Going-Back-To-Each-Other-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/When-You-Know-It-Will-Never-Work-Out-But-You-Keep-Going-Back-To-Each-Other-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/When-You-Know-It-Will-Never-Work-Out-But-You-Keep-Going-Back-To-Each-Other-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/When-You-Know-It-Will-Never-Work-Out-But-You-Keep-Going-Back-To-Each-Other-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, your love for someone is stronger than everything else. Sometimes, your mind simply can\u2019t control your actions, no matter how hard you try. Sometimes, you need to put a stop to some things but you just can\u2019t help yourself. If you have ever been in a situation where you are crazy about a guy&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":95944,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17238","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/When-You-Know-It-Will-Never-Work-Out-But-You-Keep-Going-Back-To-Each-Other.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? 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