{"id":17264,"date":"2019-11-04T10:07:17","date_gmt":"2019-11-04T10:07:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17264"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:05:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:05:43","slug":"para-el-tipo-que-viene-despues-de-su-desamor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/para-el-tipo-que-viene-despues-de-su-desamor\/","title":{"rendered":"Para el chico que viene despu\u00e9s de su angustia"},"content":{"rendered":"

She caught your eye\u2014probably because of the fiery glow she gives off when she smiles now that she\u2019s learning c\u00f3mo volver a ser feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n

She has a mystery about her that you just can\u2019t seem to put your finger on.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that she doesn\u2019t want to let you in, it\u2019s just that she\u2019s just worked so hard to get where she is now that she is very selective of who she will let enter her life. Should you find yourself being that person she allows to scratch through the layers, please read this.<\/p>\n

Ha sido reducida a la nada por alguien que le prometi\u00f3 el mundo. Le dijeron que la quer\u00edan, pero la trataron como si no fuera nada.<\/p>\n

Nunca nadie le ha dicho algo en serio, as\u00ed que se entiende por qu\u00e9 es tan reservada.<\/p>\n

El amor no ha sido m\u00e1s que una experiencia confusa y desgarradora para ella, as\u00ed que ahora le da mucho miedo.<\/p>\n

Se ha levantado del suelo cubierta de l\u00e1grimas negras con resaca de vino demasiadas veces antes, de modo que ahora, tiende a querer huir de cualquiera que se acerque remotamente a hacerle sentir NADA.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that she\u2019s incapable of loving someone, in fact, it\u2019s just the opposite.<\/p>\n

Todav\u00eda tiene mucho amor que dar a la persona adecuada a pesar de todas las equivocadas que la han agotado tanto que se olvid\u00f3 de amarse a s\u00ed misma en medio de amarlas.<\/p>\n

Ama much\u00edsimo, y te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que esto es lo mejor y lo peor de ella.<\/p>\n

If when you look at her, you don\u2019t see the fire in her soul and the flames that dance in her eyes as she laughs\u2026 please do not stay. Don\u2019t lead her on for even a second.<\/p>\n

Ella ha hecho todo lo posible para llegar a donde est\u00e1 ahora, as\u00ed que por favor no hagas nada que ponga en peligro la curaci\u00f3n de su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

She may smile and laugh and seem like she is the strongest woman you know, but she is still very fragile regardless whether you can or can\u2019t see the bruises she still bears underneath.<\/p>\n

Loving her will be challenging at times, but I promise it will be the most amazing and rewarding thing you\u2019ll come to know, aside from the love that she has to offer you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have to be patient as she aprende a confiar de nuevo<\/a>. She\u2019s going to apologize a lot for things she didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s going to think you\u2019re mad for no reason. She\u2019s going to carry around the doubt and fear that you are ready to walk out at any given moment because this is all she\u2019s ever known.<\/p>\n

She may not call or text like she wants to because she feels like she\u2019s bothering you, but she is waiting to see if she means enough to you for you to send her something, letting her know you\u2019re thinking of her like she\u2019s thinking of you.<\/p>\n

She will get a sinking feeling in her stomach when your phone goes off around her at night or if you don\u2019t answer it when it does, even if she doesn\u2019t say a word about it.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll think the worst when you don\u2019t answer her calls or texts right away. When you\u2019re not around, she\u2019ll start playing out scenarios in her head of what you\u2019re doing and why she isn\u2019t good enough.<\/p>\n

When she kisses you before you leave like it\u2019s the last time she will ever see you, please know that she does this because she knows it could be.<\/p>\n

She may have this look in her eyes when you tell her goodbye like she doesn\u2019t want to say it and it\u2019s because she is wondering if it\u2019s for good this time.<\/p>\n

She will always love you like there is no tomorrow because if there is anything she has learned, it\u2019s how much time is really borrowed.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s not crazy, but she may get jealous at times. You need to be willing to understand why.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not ready to make her feel like a priority, then you don\u2019t deserve to be in her life at all. She will no longer be someone\u2019s convenience.<\/p>\n

The self love she possesses these days is worth her walking away from anyone who doesn\u2019t realize that. Don\u2019t make the mistake of letting her walk away.<\/p>\n

You might have to remind her sometimes that she\u2019s the only one you want, but don\u2019t just tell her\u2026 show her.<\/p>\n

She needs more than words to feel the truth in anything because of all the empty promises she\u2019s been told.<\/p>\n

Sus temores no son irracionales porque s\u00f3lo se basa en lo que ha estado acostumbrada durante tanto tiempo. S\u00e9 el hombre que cambie eso para ella.<\/p>\n

I can promise you that anything you tell her, she won\u2019t believe until she sees it happen.<\/p>\n

Please don\u2019t feel like she is punishing you for the mistakes of those who came before you. She just doesn\u2019t want to be disappointed again.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s just trying to protect her heart because no one else ever has.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not trying to scare you off or trying to give you reasons not to stay, I just want you to know that this is not a game for her\u2014she is done letting people waste her time.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que estoy tratando de eliminar a los d\u00e9biles. Tienes que ser capaz de soportar el calor de un incendio forestal si quieres que tu mundo se ilumine.<\/p>\n

She will be the most faithful, loving, loyal woman you\u2019ll ever have by your side, but you have to be willing to work for it.<\/p>\n

Lucha por ella cada d\u00eda incluso despu\u00e9s de sentir que la tienes y ella har\u00e1 lo mismo por ti. Ella s\u00f3lo quiere ser amado como ella ama.<\/p>\n

She wants to know that she is worth it to someone, that she isn\u2019t easy to walk away from and that the thought of leaving wouldn\u2019t even be an option.<\/p>\n

If you are lucky enough to be loved by her, it will be a love that is unwavering, unquestionable and so fulfilling that you\u2019ll wonder if anyone else ever really loved you before.<\/p>\n

So why should she settle for anything less than that for herself? She shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Do you realize that despite what this girl has gone through, the pain that she has felt, the people who have made her question her worth, she still chooses to put her heart on the line for a chance to feel like she isn\u2019t the only one who loves her.<\/p>\n

She knows she\u2019s taking a risk. She knows the outcome may not end well for her once again, but she doesn\u2019t give up<\/a>!<\/p>\n

If that doesn\u2019t make you feel honored to know such a resilient being, then you are not the man for her.<\/p>\n

If her presence alone does not make you feel something, then please do not let her get attached to you because when she falls, and she will\u2026 she goes all in.<\/p>\n

So if you don\u2019t plan on being the one to catch her, then don\u2019t stand there and watch as her foot leaves the ledge.<\/p>\n

Te querr\u00e1 mucho antes de atreverse a pronunciar las palabras, pero sabr\u00e1s que te quiere por todas las formas en que te lo demuestra. \u00bfEst\u00e1s dispuesto a prestarles atenci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

She\u2019s telling you everything you need to know without saying anything. She\u2019s just so damn tired of giving herself to someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate it, so she tries her hardest to hold back in fear of being made a fool.<\/p>\n

So if you are given the opportunity to be the guy who comes after her heartbreak, after she has put herself back together\u2026. Please do not fail her.<\/p>\n

Be the one who chases away the demons from her past, not another haunting memory she will have to overcome. Be her saving grace and show her that she is not waging it all on a war she will never win. Just please, please\u2026 don\u2019t be like the rest of them.<\/p>\n

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