{"id":17341,"date":"2020-08-05T13:28:42","date_gmt":"2020-08-05T13:28:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17341"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:59:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:59:21","slug":"a-la-chica-que-piensa-que-esta-demasiado-jodida-para-encontrar-el-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-piensa-que-esta-demasiado-jodida-para-encontrar-el-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que cree que est\u00e1 demasiado \"jodida\" para encontrar el amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know exactly how you feel because I\u2019ve been there. I know that there are voices inside your mind telling you that no eres suficiente<\/a> y que ning\u00fan hombre te amar\u00e1 con todas tus cicatrices, tu equipaje y todos los demonios de tu pasado.<\/p>\n

I know that every time you meet someone new, those voices in your head try to sabotage your relationship, whispering that you don\u2019t even have to bother trying something that was destined to doom.<\/p>\n

Piensas que las experiencias de tu vida te convierten en alguien que no se puede querer, pero eso no es cierto. Nadie est\u00e1 demasiado da\u00f1ado para ser amado y encontrar el amor, \u00a1especialmente t\u00fa!<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo tienes que aceptarlo y empezar a pensar en positivo en lugar de dejar que los pensamientos negativos arruinen tu vida por completo.<\/p>\n

Puede que est\u00e9s jodido, pero al menos no est\u00e1s solo.<\/h2>\n

\"amigas<\/p>\n

We are all a little bit broken but that doesn\u2019t mean that we can\u2019t find love. Love is everywhere and you just need to recognize what you want to have in your life.<\/p>\n

Hay alguien que siente lo mismo que t\u00fa y, una vez que os conozc\u00e1is, os entender\u00e9is.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l ser\u00e1 tu alma gemela y t\u00fa su media naranja. Los dos estar\u00e9is rotos a vuestra manera, pero aprender\u00e9is a vivir juntos.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1s a su lado cuando la vida le d\u00e9 una bofetada, dici\u00e9ndole que todo mejorar\u00e1 y que amar\u00e1 todos tus pedazos rotos.<\/p>\n

Te aceptar\u00e1 tal y como eres, sin moldearte en alguien que \u00e9l quiere que seas.<\/p>\n

No eres el \u00fanico con equipaje<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

You made mistakes in the past? So what! We have all made some mistakes but that doesn\u2019t mean that we are not allowed to love again.<\/p>\n

Pienses lo que pienses, no eres tan malo como crees. Date una oportunidad y lo ver\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You gave so many second chances to people who didn\u2019t deserve them so why wouldn\u2019t you give another one to yourself? You will see that other people have issues and that we are not perfect.<\/p>\n

De hecho, estamos perfectamente imperfecto<\/a> pero eso es algo con lo que deber\u00edas estar de acuerdo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t strive for perfection because that doesn\u2019t exist. It is just a story for people who want to be as good as they can be. That is just a lie others tell us to make us reach our limits.<\/p>\n

No est\u00e1s tan roto como crees<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

My darling, all the people around you are broken as well but they don\u2019t show it. Maybe they are more broken than you but they are better liars. So, don\u2019t believe everything that others tell you.<\/p>\n

Puedes pensar con la cabeza y decidir qu\u00e9 est\u00e1 bien y qu\u00e9 est\u00e1 mal.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t ever give up on good things, especially love. Love can heal you and you won\u2019t even be aware of it.<\/p>\n

Si le das al amor otra oportunidad de estar en tu vida, ver\u00e1s que vali\u00f3 la pena. Ten en cuenta que siempre ocurrir\u00e1n cosas malas; s\u00f3lo depende de c\u00f3mo reaccionen las personas ante ellas.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que pase lo que pase, intenta ser t\u00fa mismo y estar siempre abierto a las cosas buenas y a que el amor forme parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Eres mejor de lo que crees<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know that sometimes you have high expectations. I know that sometimes people don\u2019t understand you so you think the problem is with you.<\/p>\n

Y tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 que puedes estar confundido por todo eso. Pero cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que eres mucho mejor de lo que crees.<\/p>\n

Eres mucho m\u00e1s fuerte que toda la mierda que te pasa y eres t\u00fa quien tiene que decidir si sigues adelante como un guerrero o si te pierdes ante cada problema de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Luchar no es f\u00e1cil, pero seguro que cuando lo consigas sentir\u00e1s que has hecho algo bueno por ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, puedes hacerlo, s\u00f3lo tienes que dar el primer paso solo.<\/p>\n

Usted no es el unlovable one<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que todos y cada uno de los chicos te trataron como una mierda. S\u00e9 que todos ellos trataron de convencerte de que t\u00fa eres la no querible, pero esa es la mentira m\u00e1s grande de todas.<\/p>\n

Lo hac\u00edan para sentirse mejor por las cosas que hab\u00edan estropeado. Quer\u00edan sentirse bien en su propia piel dej\u00e1ndote cargar con toda la culpa.<\/p>\n

In your past relationships, you were convinced that you were the one who couldn\u2019t love, the one who was hard to love and that you would never find that kind of love that people write books about.<\/p>\n

Too bad that you didn\u2019t believe in yourself enough and that you let them control you and make you think that you are something you are not.<\/p>\n

Tienes derecho a sentirte feliz<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tienes derecho a amar y a ser amado. Tienes derecho a vivir tu vida al m\u00e1ximo y, desde luego, tienes derecho a que te persigan.<\/p>\n

The worst thing that you can do is go with the flow and make zero effort for your life to be better. You are the only ruler of your life so don\u2019t let any man convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n

Si dejas que otros decidan en tu lugar, nunca encontrar\u00e1s la verdadera felicidad.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que olvida todo lo que te han dicho sobre hacer caso a los mayores. T\u00fa vives tu propia vida y tomas decisiones por tu cuenta.<\/p>\n

Si son malas, aprender\u00e1s de ellas y si son buenas, ser\u00e1n una bendici\u00f3n para ti.<\/p>\n

But whatever happens, be proud of who you are and walk through life with your head up. Because you don\u2019t deserve anything less than that.<\/p>\n

Hay alguien perfecto para ti ah\u00ed fuera<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Hay alguien que har\u00e1 que tu coraz\u00f3n lata m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido, el que te har\u00e1 sentir mariposas en el est\u00f3mago cada vez que lo veas.<\/p>\n

Hay un hombre que te volver\u00e1 loca y estar\u00e1 locamente enamorado de ti al mismo tiempo. Y cuando lo conozcas, lo sabr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You will feel that the one you have been waiting for, for such a long time, has come along. And bear in mind that good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

Pero una vez que su hombre perfecto entre en su vida, todo cobrar\u00e1 sentido. Ser\u00e1 la pieza que faltaba en el rompecabezas que has estado buscando durante tanto tiempo.<\/p>\n

And now he has come along to be with you, to hold you, to love you and to spoil you. Because you don\u2019t deserve anything less than that!<\/p>\n

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