{"id":17347,"date":"2020-06-05T13:46:45","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T13:46:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17347"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:12:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:12:36","slug":"al-hombre-que-me-dejo-sin-decir-una-palabra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-hombre-que-me-dejo-sin-decir-una-palabra\/","title":{"rendered":"Al hombre que me dej\u00f3 sin decir una palabra"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Siempre supe que eras un hombre de pocas palabras. Siempre te cost\u00f3 verbalizar tus emociones y abrirte a alguien, aunque ese alguien fuera yo.<\/p>\n<p>Esta cualidad tuya caus\u00f3 muchos problemas en nuestra relaci\u00f3n. Nunca sab\u00eda a qu\u00e9 atenerme contigo y nunca pod\u00eda estar segura de tus sentimientos, y eso me volv\u00eda loca.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora que lo pienso, en realidad nunca nos pele\u00e1bamos. Siempre que hab\u00eda algo que te molestaba con respecto a m\u00ed, te lo callabas, as\u00ed que yo era el \u00fanico que se ocupaba de todos nuestros problemas.<\/p>\n<p>Mientras tanto, me pasaba horas y a veces d\u00edas intentando averiguar qu\u00e9 hab\u00eda fallado y qu\u00e9 hab\u00eda hecho mal.<\/p>\n<p>Me cuestionaba constantemente mientras intentaba llegar a ti.<\/p>\n<p>And of course, I never managed to do that, because you never let me in. No matter how hard I tried, you were always distant and I simply didn\u2019t know how to change that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95297\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"El hombre discute con su novia, que est\u00e1 sentada a su lado en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Men-argue-with-his-girlfriend-who-is-sitting-next-to-him-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, tambi\u00e9n cuestion\u00e9 tus emociones y nuestra relaci\u00f3n. Aunque nunca lo dijiste en voz alta, en el fondo, ten\u00eda la firme esperanza de que me quer\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>Y siempre que me enfrentaba a ti por esto, me dec\u00edas que estabas a mi lado y que eso era prueba suficiente de tu amor por m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque siempre quise m\u00e1s de ti, me conform\u00e9 con peque\u00f1as migajas de tu amor y afecto.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d tried to change this about you but I never succeeded. When I come to think about it, I never knew much about you.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca compartiste nada conmigo y tendr\u00eda que asumir algunas cosas sobre ti.<\/p>\n<p>Pero nunca supe si me quer\u00edas de verdad y nunca supe si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/someone-whos-scared-death-lose\/\">ten\u00edas miedo de perderme<\/a>. Con el tiempo, de alguna manera me acostumbr\u00e9 a ti.<\/p>\n<p>I learned to accept you for who you were and I accepted that you\u2019d never be someone who talked about his emotions.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-and-woman-sitting-next-to-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer reflexivos sentados uno al lado del otro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-and-woman-sitting-next-to-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-and-woman-sitting-next-to-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-and-woman-sitting-next-to-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But I also accepted that our relationship had an expiration date. I knew that we\u2019d break apart sooner or later because a relationship like this was anything but sustainable.<\/p>\n<p>And I knew you\u2019d be the one to walk away from me, because I would never have the strength to do something like that.<\/p>\n<p><b>And the only thing I prayed for was that you didn\u2019t walk away without saying a word.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Y eso fue exactamente lo que hiciste y, al hacerlo, sacaste a la luz uno de mis mayores temores.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de todos los a\u00f1os que pasamos juntos, me dejaste sin despedirte, sin darme ning\u00fan tipo de explicaci\u00f3n. Y eso me doli\u00f3 m\u00e1s que todo lo que pas\u00e9 en nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Haciendo esto, <b>me dejaste colgado y esperando a que volvieras.<\/b> At first, I didn\u2019t know what has happened.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t know if you had really left or you just needed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-you-need-to-take-a-break-from-your-relationship\/\" rel=\"noopener\">una ruptura de la relaci\u00f3n<\/a>. As\u00ed que segu\u00ed esperando a que volvieras a m\u00ed como si nada hubiera pasado. Esperaba constantemente que me llamaras, que aparecieras.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-95300\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-lying-on-white-pillow-and-looking-at-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tumbada sobre almohada blanca y mirando su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-lying-on-white-pillow-and-looking-at-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-lying-on-white-pillow-and-looking-at-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-lying-on-white-pillow-and-looking-at-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I put my life on hold and myself on pause because I didn\u2019t know what had hit me and I didn\u2019t know what to expect.<\/p>\n<p>Al principio, estaba en estado de shock. Y cuando pas\u00f3 ese shock y esa negaci\u00f3n iniciales, empez\u00f3 la desesperaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t help but wonder why you didn\u2019t have the desire and the courage to tell me that you were leaving me.<\/p>\n<p><b>Didn\u2019t I mean anything to you? Didn\u2019t I deserve an explanation, a goodbye at least? Didn\u2019t our relationship deser<\/b><b>\u00bftienes un final mejor?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Al hacer esto, actuaste como si nunca hubi\u00e9ramos existido.<\/b> Me mostraste lo irrelevante e insignificante que fui para ti todo ese tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Me dejaste sin un cierre y eso es algo que nunca podr\u00e9 perdonarte. Me dejaste pensando en todas las razones que te llevaron a tomar esa decisi\u00f3n y pregunt\u00e1ndome qu\u00e9 fue lo que hice mal.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95301\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Silhouette-of-womans-head-with-blowing-hair-back-light.-1.jpg\" alt=\"Silueta de cabeza de mujer con el pelo al viento, a contraluz.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Silhouette-of-womans-head-with-blowing-hair-back-light.-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Silhouette-of-womans-head-with-blowing-hair-back-light.-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Silhouette-of-womans-head-with-blowing-hair-back-light.-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And most of all, you changed my opinion of you. Despite everything, I\u2019d always appreciated you. And I kind of admired you for not being as sensitive as I was. But now I see that you are actually just an immature boy.<\/p>\n<p>I see that you are a coward who didn\u2019t have the guts or the courage to face me after all the years we\u2019d spent together. It was easier for you to simply run away.<\/p>\n<p>Y ni una sola vez pensaste en c\u00f3mo me afectar\u00eda todo esto. Me dejaste sola intentando recoger los pedazos de nuestra relaci\u00f3n y me dejaste sola buscando un cierre.<\/p>\n<p>Has mostrado tu lado ego\u00edsta y cruel y eso es lo \u00faltimo que me merec\u00eda de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Pero ahora s\u00e9 que todo esto ha sido en vano y sin sentido. Lo \u00fanico que puedo y debo hacer es seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<p>Independientemente de la forma en que hiciste todo, el hecho es que me dejaste y que nunca m\u00e1s formar\u00e1s parte de mi vida. Y eso es algo con lo que tengo que aprender a lidiar. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95306 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Man-Who-Left-Me-Without-Saying-A-Word-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Al hombre que me dej\u00f3 sin decir una palabra\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Man-Who-Left-Me-Without-Saying-A-Word-_-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Man-Who-Left-Me-Without-Saying-A-Word-_-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Man-Who-Left-Me-Without-Saying-A-Word-_-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Man-Who-Left-Me-Without-Saying-A-Word-_-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Man-Who-Left-Me-Without-Saying-A-Word-_-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Man-Who-Left-Me-Without-Saying-A-Word-_-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I always knew that you were a man of few words. You always had trouble verbalizing your emotions and opening up to someone, even if that someone was me. This quality of yours caused a lot of trouble in our relationship. I was never sure where I stood with you and I could never be&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95305,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17347","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Man-Who-Left-Me-Without-Saying-A-Word.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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