{"id":17439,"date":"2020-04-09T13:52:06","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T13:52:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17439"},"modified":"2022-02-07T03:43:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T03:43:21","slug":"8-etapas-de-una-relacion-de-rebote-y-consejos-para-afrontar-cada-una-de-ellas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-etapas-de-una-relacion-de-rebote-y-consejos-para-afrontar-cada-una-de-ellas\/","title":{"rendered":"8 etapas de una relaci\u00f3n de rebote y consejos sobre c\u00f3mo manejar cada una de ellas"},"content":{"rendered":"

El fin de una relaci\u00f3n duradera y seguir adelante<\/a> is always difficult and challenging, whether you are the one who ended it or the one who\u2019s been left behind.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, a veces lo m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil es lanzarse a una nueva relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Aunque parezca la forma m\u00e1s adecuada de afrontar que te han roto el coraz\u00f3n, una relaci\u00f3n de rebote puede traerte m\u00e1s cosas negativas de las que crees.<\/p>\n

Antes de decidirte a entrar en este tipo de relaci\u00f3n, tienes que dejar tu ego\u00edsmo a un lado y pensar en ese chico al que podr\u00edas estar enga\u00f1ando.<\/p>\n

The same way you don\u2019t want to be some guy\u2019s chica de rebote<\/a>, this potential boyfriend of yours doesn\u2019t want to be just your rebound partner who you\u2019ll use to get over your ex.<\/p>\n

Pero si de todos modos decides entrar en una relaci\u00f3n de rebote, aqu\u00ed tienes 8 etapas que puedes esperar en ella.<\/p>\n

1. Duelo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nDespu\u00e9s de terminar una relaci\u00f3n duradera, la primera etapa es siempre el duelo. Cada persona hace el duelo de una forma diferente.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, es posible que al principio niegues que la ruptura haya ocurrido, pero eso tambi\u00e9n forma parte del proceso de duelo.<\/p>\n

But no matter how fast you run from it, sooner or later, you\u2019ll have to face the fact that your relationship is over.<\/p>\n

Cuando te golpea, puedes pensar que tu vida ha llegado a su fin.<\/p>\n

No le ves sentido y lo \u00fanico que haces es esperar a que tu ex vuelva.<\/p>\n

Recuerdas todo lo bueno que pas\u00f3 entre vosotros y todos los recuerdos felices que compartisteis.<\/p>\n

Al principio, piensas que nunca podr\u00edas seguir adelante con tu vida y que nunca podr\u00edas olvidarte de ese hombre.<\/p>\n

Lloras hasta quedarte dormida, esperando que te llame, dici\u00e9ndote te quiere de vuelta desesperadamente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pero, con el tiempo, ves que la vida sigue, con o sin \u00e9l en tu vida.<\/p>\n

La gente sigue dici\u00e9ndote que tu ruptura no es para tanto<\/a> and that it\u2019s about time to get back on your feet and slowly, you start to regain your strength.<\/p>\n

Soon, you come to the realization that this pain can\u2019t last forever and that it\u2019s about time you turn to the future.<\/p>\n

2. De vuelta al mercado de las citas<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Cuando por fin termina la fase de duelo inicial, te sientes preparado para volver a salir al mercado de las citas.<\/p>\n

Before this, you don\u2019t think you could ever look at some other man besides your ex-boyfriend.<\/p>\n

Pero a medida que pasa el tiempo, ves que esto no es tan cierto como pensabas.<\/p>\n

Al principio, cada vez que entablas una conversaci\u00f3n inofensiva con otro hombre, sientes que est\u00e1s traicionando a tu ex novio y que le est\u00e1s enga\u00f1ando.<\/p>\n

Pero, con el tiempo, empiezas a sentirte halagada cuando hay un chico que te mira como a una mujer o te hace un cumplido.<\/p>\n

Al cabo de un tiempo, vuelves al mercado de las citas, sinti\u00e9ndote preparado para conocer gente nueva e incluso para iniciar una nueva relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Pones todo tu empe\u00f1o en encontrar a alguien, ya sea con la ayuda de tus amigos, las redes sociales o de alguna otra forma. Esto es se\u00f1al de que poco a poco empiezas a abraza tu vida de soltero<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You want a different experience from your past and you are sure you won\u2019t repeat the same mistakes again.<\/p>\n

Ahora ya sabes qu\u00e9 tipos de chicos debes evitar y qui\u00e9nes son los chicos por los que te sientes atra\u00edda.<\/p>\n

But just because you got back on the dating market and you are ready to start dating someone new, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that you\u2019ll enter into a relationship with all of the guys you meet.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, debes dar a algunos hombres la oportunidad de conocerte mejor y de presentarse de la mejor manera posible, pero siempre debes mantener el list\u00f3n alto.<\/p>\n

3. Nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"rom\u00e1ntica<\/p>\n

Once you get back on the dating market, you meet all types of guys. Some of them you really like and some of them you simply don\u2019t like as much.<\/p>\n

Pero de todos ellos, s\u00f3lo habr\u00e1 uno que destaque.<\/p>\n

This is a guy you\u2019ll find physically attractive but also someone whose personality you will like.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que le ves, sientes mariposas y empiezas a preguntarte si est\u00e1s enamorada y, antes de que te des cuenta, est\u00e1s perdidamente enamorada de ese chico.<\/p>\n

You are sure you\u2019ve forgotten all about your previous break-up and heartbreak and you are positive you are listo para una nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

De repente, sientes que tu ex novio es s\u00f3lo una parte del pasado o como si nunca hubiera existido.<\/p>\n

Pones todas tus esperanzas en tu nueva relaci\u00f3n, esperando que este chico cure todas tus heridas y cicatrices emocionales.<\/p>\n

Although you may have some doubts about if it is too soon for you to enter into a new relationship and if you\u2019ve properly healed from your heartbreak, you choose to ignore this little voice inside of you and proceed with this new relationship.<\/p>\n

Even when you are alone with your thoughts and your ex comes to mind, you think that the best way to forget what\u2019s left of him inside you is to try being with someone else.<\/p>\n

When you find yourself in this situation, the most important thing to do is to ask yourself whether you really want to be with this new guy you\u2019ve met or you just want to be with anyone who comes your way, because you are dying to have a new relationship.<\/p>\n

4. La fase de luna de miel<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si decide dar este nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a> una oportunidad, a pesar de todo lo escrito anteriormente, puedes esperar que sea casi perfecto al principio.<\/p>\n

Cuando realmente queremos que algo funcione, resulta casi imposible ver la realidad y el panorama general.<\/p>\n

Therefore, when you first start dating this new guy you\u2019ve just met, he\u2019ll appear to be everything you ever wished for.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see him for what he truly is and you don\u2019t notice any of his flaws and imperfections.<\/p>\n

Esto se debe a que todos llevamos puestas las gafas de color de rosa en las fases iniciales de una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Besides, we all tend to present ourselves in the best way possible when we meet a new person and it\u2019s the same with you and this guy.<\/p>\n

Los dos quer\u00e9is gustar al m\u00e1ximo a la otra persona, as\u00ed que es normal que ambos os present\u00e9is de la mejor manera posible.<\/p>\n

Cuando te encuentres en esta etapa de relaci\u00f3n de rebote, lo m\u00e1s importante que debes recordar es que probablemente las cosas no sean tan perfectas como parecen.<\/p>\n

Ves a este chico como tu salvaci\u00f3n y ves esta nueva relaci\u00f3n como el fin de tu miseria, as\u00ed que inconscientemente lo ves todo mejor de lo que realmente es.<\/p>\n

5. Quieres seguir donde lo dejaste<\/h2>\n

\"El<\/p>\n

After the honeymoon stage passes, this is when you finally become fully aware that you are in a new relationship. But sometimes, you can\u2019t seem to understand this completely.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edas algunos h\u00e1bitos en tu relaci\u00f3n anterior y quieres llevarlos a la nueva.<\/p>\n

Si este es el caso, significa que s\u00f3lo quieres seguir donde lo dejaste.<\/p>\n

Your ex was a part of your life for years and you\u2019d gotten used to having a man in your life.<\/p>\n

You\u2019d gotten used to being someone\u2019s girlfriend and you just want to continue living your life as if nothing has happened.<\/p>\n

Pero lo que obviamente sigues olvidando es que este es un nuevo hombre y una nueva relaci\u00f3n con sus propias reglas.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect for it to be as serious from the start as your past relationship was.<\/p>\n

Si quieres que esto sea algo m\u00e1s que un relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/a> and if you want things to work out, you need to make an effort to look at this guy you\u2019ve met as a separate individual and you need to try and make new memories with him.<\/p>\n

This is one of the hardest things for anyone in a rebound relationship to figure out but it\u2019s something that has to be done.<\/p>\n

6. La fase de comparaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been with one man for a long time, so it is perfectly natural for you to see him in every other guy you meet.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t have to mean that you are searching for him everywhere you go, it just means that he set some standards in your life and it is normal for you to compare every other man with him.<\/p>\n

In this stage, you\u2019ll search for clues of your ex in your new boyfriend.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll like the things about him that remind you of your ex-boyfriend and you\u2019ll be annoyed by some of his negative qualities that your ex also had.<\/p>\n

Si piensa en esto de forma casual, no hay nada que deba preocuparle.<\/p>\n

Pero si te das cuenta de que est\u00e1s en esta relaci\u00f3n porque este chico te recuerda a tu ex o si te sorprendes a ti misma imaginando que este chico es tu ex, tienes un problema.<\/p>\n

En este caso, es seguro que haven\u2019t gotten over your ex<\/a> y que definitivamente no est\u00e1s listo para una nueva relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que es bastante improbable que esperes que esta relaci\u00f3n se convierta en algo m\u00e1s que un simple rebote.<\/p>\n

7. Cuestionar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando hayas pasado un periodo de tiempo m\u00e1s largo en tu nueva relaci\u00f3n y aprendas a aceptar el hecho de que hay alguien nuevo en tu vida, es posible que tus viejos traumas vuelvan a ti.<\/p>\n

Esto significa que empiezas a recordar todo lo malo de tu relaci\u00f3n anterior y todo el dolor que sentiste cuando las cosas terminaron entre t\u00fa y tu ex.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, espera que todas estas cosas vuelvan a suceder en su nueva relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

No matter how great this new guy is, you simply can\u2019t believe that his intentions for you are sincere.<\/p>\n

Usted tiene importantes problemas de confianza<\/a> y esperas que te cause dolor, igual que tu ex.<\/p>\n

Todo esto despierta en ti todas tus inseguridades, lo que te hace cuestionar tu nueva relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You wonder if you\u2019ve really gotten over your ex and if this new man is the right guy for you.<\/p>\n

Esta etapa de relaci\u00f3n de rebote puede asustarte, pero en realidad significa que tus pensamientos van en la direcci\u00f3n correcta.<\/p>\n

Significa que es consciente de su nueva relaci\u00f3n y que se cuestiona su decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

This is the time when you\u2019ll figure out whether this relationship is something you need in your life or if you haven\u2019t gotten over your heartbreak just yet.<\/p>\n

8. La soluci\u00f3n final<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve given yourself a chance to think everything through regarding your new relationship, you can see this new guy in your life clearly for the first time.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, tambi\u00e9n puedes ver el estado de la relaci\u00f3n de forma realista y si es algo que necesitas en este momento.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve taken your rose-tinted glasses off and you see all of this guy\u2019s flaws and imperfections, as well as his virtues. Now, you have to decide if you really like him for who he is.<\/p>\n

La fase de luna de miel ya ha pasado y es el momento en el que debes decidir qu\u00e9 es lo que quieres de la vida y de este hombre.<\/p>\n

You need to be introspective and decide if you\u2019ve really gotten over your ex and if you are ready to invest yourself into this new relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to be honest toward yourself and toward this man you are dating.<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes que decidir si se trata s\u00f3lo de una relaci\u00f3n de rebote o si es algo por lo que merece la pena luchar.<\/p>\n

If you realize that you aren\u2019t ready to open yourself to someone new and that you aren\u2019t over your ex yet, this is the time when you need to marcharse<\/a> de este tipo nuevo, sin darle m\u00e1s largas.<\/p>\n

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