{"id":17469,"date":"2020-05-11T09:20:44","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T09:20:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17469"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:15:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:15:22","slug":"5-razones-por-las-que-no-se-abre-a-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-razones-por-las-que-no-se-abre-a-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"5 razones por las que no se abre a ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Una comunicaci\u00f3n sana es crucial para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-signos-relacion-estable\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relaci\u00f3n estable<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But all communication is a two-way street and you can\u2019t expect it to be healthy when you are dealing with someone who simply refuses to open up to you, especially if that someone is your romantic partner.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried everything but you feel like you can\u2019t get to this man completely.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you do, he stays far away from you and there is always a part of him he doesn\u2019t want to share with you.<\/p>\n<p>And no matter how hard you try to understand this, you can\u2019t figure out why this is so.<\/p>\n<p>Por eso, aqu\u00ed tienes 5 posibles razones por las que tu hombre se niega a abrirse contigo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Es inseguro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83763 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"hombre pensativo sentado junto a la ventana y mirando hacia fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the main reasons most men won\u2019t open up is because of their insecurities.<\/p>\n<p>En nuestro mundo, los hombres suelen ser representados como criaturas duras que tienen pocas emociones.<\/p>\n<p>But the truth is quite different\u2014they are also human beings and they can experience a wide range of emotions, the same as women can.<\/p>\n<p>Pero lo que quiz\u00e1 no sepas es que la mayor\u00eda de los hombres tienen un ego muy fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n<p>It is possible that your partner feels like he\u2019ll be less of a man in your eyes if he opens up to you and expresses his true feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he is insecure about your feelings for him and he thinks he\u2019ll appear too weak in front of you.<\/p>\n<p>He might be afraid that you won\u2019t understand him or that you\u2019ll ridicule him for opening up to you and that blocks him from showing his true emotions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You didn\u2019t react well to him opening up to you in the past<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83764 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer infeliz y enfadada hablando con su novio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Unhappy-angry-woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, the slightest thing can hurt someone. It is possible that your man tried to open up to you in the past but you simply didn\u2019t react the way he expected you to.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you didn\u2019t even realize that he was trying to share something with you and didn\u2019t take his hint, so you disregarded his feelings. That was more than enough for him to close up all over again.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks he tried opening up but you just didn\u2019t provide him with the comfort he needed at that point, so he simply decided to give up on sharing anything with you.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ve done this on purpose, it only means that you need to pay better attention to him and everything he is trying to tell you if you want to have a better relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t love you enough<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83765 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"pareja triste sentada en el sof\u00e1 de su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Men won\u2019t open up to just anyone. They need to really care about you and they need to be sure that you are their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-cosas-que-no-son-para-siempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">persona para siempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things none of wants to accept is that it is possible our partner simply doesn\u2019t love us enough but this can be one of the reasons your partner doesn\u2019t open up to you.<\/p>\n<p>As much as it hurts you, it is possible that he doesn\u2019t consider your relationship something that will be long-lasting, so he chooses not to open up to someone who will soon be gone from his life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s been hurt in the past<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83766 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-wearing-hoodie-sitting-beside-water.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con capucha sentado junto al agua\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-wearing-hoodie-sitting-beside-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-wearing-hoodie-sitting-beside-water-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-wearing-hoodie-sitting-beside-water-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the most common reasons men refuse to open up to just anyone is the fact that they\u2019ve been hurt in the past.<\/p>\n<p>Es posible que su pareja haya pasado por una experiencia dolorosa en alguna de sus relaciones anteriores, por lo que es natural que tenga problemas de confianza.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, este hombre decidi\u00f3 mantener todas sus emociones embotelladas en su interior.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks he\u2019ll be hurt again the moment he exposes his vulnerable side, so he built thick walls around him and decided not to let anyone in, including you.<\/p>\n<p>Si \u00e9ste es el caso de tu pareja, necesitar\u00e1 tiempo y paciencia antes de darse cuenta de que eres alguien digno de su confianza.<\/p>\n<p>But sooner or later, he\u2019ll understand this and then you\u2019ll be able to see his true side.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He isn\u2019t in touch with his emotions<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83767 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-1.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de hombre con gafas de sol apoyado en ladrillo de pared\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/side-view-of-man-with-sunglasses-leaning-on-wall-brick-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Algunas personas son simplemente <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindbodygreen.com\/articles\/signs-out-of-touch-with-your-emotions\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fuera de contacto con sus emociones.<\/a> Esto es especialmente frecuente en los hombres.<\/p>\n<p>There are men who are not in sync with their emotions and they have the ability to disconnect from them. This doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t have feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Al contrario, s\u00f3lo las esconden en lo m\u00e1s profundo de su ser por diferentes motivos.<\/p>\n<p>Si crees que tu hombre es una de estas personas, tienes que ayudarle a ponerse en contacto con sus sentimientos, sin presionarle demasiado, porque si lo haces, s\u00f3lo ser\u00e1 contraproducente.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, deja que se enfrente a sus emociones por s\u00ed mismo, contigo a su lado, cogi\u00e9ndole de la mano en este viaje.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83768 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 razones por las que no se abre a ti\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Healthy communication is crucial for a healthy and stable relationship. But all communication is a two-way street and you can\u2019t expect it to be healthy when you are dealing with someone who simply refuses to open up to you, especially if that someone is your romantic partner. You\u2019ve tried everything but you feel like you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":83769,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/5-Reasons-He-Doesnt-Open-Up-To-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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