{"id":17482,"date":"2020-04-11T11:07:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-11T11:07:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17482"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:13:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:13:21","slug":"6-razones-por-las-que-no-deberias-dejar-que-tu-ex-vuelva-a-tu-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-por-las-que-no-deberias-dejar-que-tu-ex-vuelva-a-tu-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"6 razones por las que no debes dejar que tu ex vuelva a tu vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here he comes again: your ex. He&#8217;s begging you to take him back, telling you he made a mistake and that he will change.<\/p>\n<p>He probably says how he can&#8217;t live without you or how hard it is to fall asleep at night without you by his side.<\/p>\n<p>Esas cosas pueden ser ciertas, pero d\u00e9jame decirte esto: nunca dejes que tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-razones-por-las-que-tu-ex-sigue-arrastrandose-hacia-ti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ex arrastrarse de nuevo en su vida<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>He will only make a mess and nothing good can come out of it. If you&#8217;re really considering taking him back again, read this first:<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Tuvo su oportunidad<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Le diste la oportunidad de demostrar que era digno de ti. \u00bfY qu\u00e9 hizo? \u00bfTraicionarte? \u00bfTe hizo sentir poco amada y apreciada? Te hizo creer que era culpa tuya y estuviste d\u00edas tumbada en la cama llorando a l\u00e1grima viva porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-te-rompera-el-corazon\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Do you really think that it&#8217;s that easy for someone to change and become a better person? Do you think that he will start loving you out of the blue? Or is he just scared that you might move on without him?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Se dirigen hacia el mismo resultado final<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>What happens most of the time is that you simply aren&#8217;t right for each other and that will remain the same. It doesn&#8217;t just change over a short period of time.<\/p>\n<p>You need to know that taking your ex back means that you&#8217;re settling for the same problems again and I wouldn&#8217;t say that that&#8217;s a smart idea. You will split up again and he will break your heart again. He simply isn&#8217;t worth it.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. He&#8217;s just desperate<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The thing with men who crawl back into our life is that they are not really in love with us but with the way we make them feel. We take care of them, we&#8217;re always the one who run to make them feel better if they&#8217;re sick and we never look for something in return\u2014which is a mistake.<\/p>\n<p>Pero los hombres se desesperan <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/8-razones-por-las-que-los-hombres-dejan-a-las-mujeres-que-aman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">cuando nos dejan<\/a> y ven que nadie m\u00e1s estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed para ellos como estuvimos nosotros y vuelven arrastr\u00e1ndose. \u00bfDe verdad quieres a alguien as\u00ed?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. He&#8217;s not worth it<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If he really did love you, he would have made you feel loved and appreciated the first time. You were worthy of affection and attention but he wasn&#8217;t able to give you that. So, is he really worthy of you?<\/p>\n<p>Is he worth the tears and the broken heart you&#8217;ll endure after your relationship falls out of control again? No, I wouldn&#8217;t say so.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Siempre recordar\u00e1s la ruptura<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you start again, you&#8217;ll see that the previous break-up will be at the back of your mind, always mocking you and it won&#8217;t give you the relaxed feeling you should have in a relationship in order for it to work out properly.<\/p>\n<p>You will always remember those tears that wouldn&#8217;t stop flowing and you will always remember his back while he got farther away from you with every step he took. Do you really need those flashbacks?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Las relaciones cr\u00edticas conducen a matrimonios infelices<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If your relationship is constantly led by the thought of a break-up, even if you do get married there&#8217;s no way that the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/articles\/199403\/what-makes-marriage-work\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">el matrimonio funcionar\u00e1 correctamente<\/a>. You will split up again and you can&#8217;t escape your fate.<\/p>\n<p>The worst part about it is that in marriage you&#8217;ll have kids who&#8217;ll listen to you fighting as well. Don&#8217;t let them experience that. Your kids deserve tender love and not harsh words.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here he comes again: your ex. He&#8217;s begging you to take him back, telling you he made a mistake and that he will change. He probably says how he can&#8217;t live without you or how hard it is to fall asleep at night without you by his side. Those things might be true but let&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":17483,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/lucas-sankey-365365.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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