{"id":17508,"date":"2020-08-11T11:58:01","date_gmt":"2020-08-11T11:58:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17508"},"modified":"2022-02-15T00:16:25","modified_gmt":"2022-02-15T00:16:25","slug":"a-todas-las-madres-solteras-que-hay-ahi-fuera-sois-verdaderas-heroinas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-todas-las-madres-solteras-que-hay-ahi-fuera-sois-verdaderas-heroinas\/","title":{"rendered":"A todas las madres solteras: Sois verdaderas hero\u00ednas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser madre es duro pero ser madre soltera es el trabajo m\u00e1s duro del mundo<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

Te quedas solo con un mont\u00f3n de dolor emocional <\/a> que tienes que aguantar y un hijo que te necesita m\u00e1s que nunca.<\/p>\n

Y todos los d\u00edas te sorprendes llorando a l\u00e1grima viva porque la vida ha sido injusta contigo, pero entonces ves dos ojos brillantes que te miran y te preguntan si est\u00e1s bien.<\/p>\n

So, you stand up, summon up the last bit of strength you have and tell your child that mommy is okay and that you weren\u2019t actually crying\u2014something fell into your eye .<\/p>\n

You lie to your child\u2014not being able to believe in your own lie\u2014but you don\u2019t want to hurt him because you don\u2019t want him to suffer just like you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want him to miss his father figure, so you always go the extra mile to make up for the love he is not receiving from a so-called dad.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"madre<\/p>\n

Because there is a man out there who is his father but your son will never call him \u2018dad\u2019. Dads don\u2019t do things like that. They don\u2019t make moms sad and they never leave their kids.<\/p>\n

Dads are there to tuck their kids in every night and to kiss them goodnight. They come to every football game and are their kid\u2019s biggest fan.<\/p>\n

Los pap\u00e1s llevan a sus hijos a hombros y les hacen sentir que pueden conquistar el mundo porque son muy altos.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Los padres hacen que los ni\u00f1os se sientan especiales y \u00fanicos. Pero cuando no hay un pap\u00e1 que haga todas estas cosas, uno de los padres tiene que hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Y en este caso, esas son las madres solteras. Llevan la pesada carga a sus espaldas, pero nunca dicen que es duro para ellas.<\/p>\n

Son muy buenos haciendo varias cosas a la vez, cosas que pensaban que nunca ser\u00edan capaces de hacer.<\/p>\n

\"madre<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1n cansados de todo el trabajo que tienen que hacer solos, pero nunca hablan de eso.<\/p>\n

The single moms don\u2019t talk about the 2 jobs they have to do to pay the bills and the rent<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t talk about all the emotional pain that is inside them and about all the love they still have, but there is nobody to reciprocate it.<\/p>\n

Pretenden que son los las mujeres m\u00e1s fuertes <\/a> in public but once they come home to their 4 walls, they fall apart into a million shattered pieces\u2014pieces that can\u2019t be stuck back together no matter what happens.  <\/p>\n

And they live like that\u2014like everything is normal and they have a dream life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Single moms are true heroes but others don\u2019t see that. It is simple to gossip about and judge them but once you get to be in their shoes, you will see that their every day is a constant battle.<\/p>\n

\"madre<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 25 se\u00f1ales innegables de que eres un mombie<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Es una batalla por sus vidas y por esa peque\u00f1a criatura que les admira, pensando que son poderosos y que pueden resolver cualquier problema.<\/p>\n

Y s\u00f3lo por esos ojos enormes y esa sonrisa que puede alegrarte el d\u00eda, vosotras, las madres solteras, luch\u00e1is todo lo que pod\u00e9is.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Luchas por darles todo lo que necesitan, por proporcionarles cari\u00f1o, afecto y consejos.<\/p>\n

You work 2 jobs because you know that alimony is not enough. You simply don\u2019t want to disappoint your children more that they are already disappointed.<\/p>\n

Odias ver las l\u00e1grimas en sus ojos cuando ven a otras familias ir juntas al parque y despu\u00e9s dirigirse a sus casas.<\/p>\n

And you hate that you can\u2019t find a valid reason to explain why your family doesn\u2019t go home with dad and why he isn\u2019t there with you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"madre<\/p>\n

Se te hace un nudo en la garganta, est\u00e1s al borde de las l\u00e1grimas, pero aun as\u00ed, consigues inventar algo y le dices a tu hijo que la pr\u00f3xima vez os divertir\u00e9is con pap\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Y con pasos pesados, te arrastras hasta tu casa vac\u00eda, fingiendo ser el superh\u00e9roe que siempre sonr\u00ede y se siente bien.<\/p>\n

Intentas por todos los medios ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti misma, ser una madre de ensue\u00f1o para tu hijo, pero sabes que es m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil que nunca.<\/p>\n

Then, when your child finally sleeps in your arms, you look at him and you don\u2019t regret anything that you did for him.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t mind being a mom, housekeeper, doctor, psychologist, mejor amigo <\/a> camarero y protector simult\u00e1neamente.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t mind doing all that every day, 24\/7 and not getting a salary for your work.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You even don\u2019t mind that you are the one who goes the extra mile because you know that your child will transform into a good person.<\/p>\n

And all that is thanks to you\u2014mom! <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Eres un verdadero superh\u00e9roe y s\u00e9 que hay alguien ah\u00ed arriba que ve todo tu dolor y sacrificio.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 que un d\u00eda ver\u00e1s los frutos de tu trabajo y que estar\u00e1s muy orgullosa de ti misma porque hiciste todo eso sola, sin ayuda. Y lo has conseguido.<\/p>\n

Tu proyecto principal est\u00e1 terminado y es absolutamente perfecto gracias a ti, mam\u00e1.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think that you made mistakes because you gave as best as you could to make things work. You were a magician, making things work that didn\u2019t work at the beginning.  <\/p>\n

As\u00ed que levanta la cabeza, mujer orgullosa y no dejes que nadie te haga mirar hacia abajo.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Eres m\u00e1s que suficiente.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Eres digno.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Te mereces el mundo<\/i><\/b><\/a>!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sabes que tienes imperfecciones, pero que te hacen perfecto tal y como eres.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Your difficulties don\u2019t reflect on your worth, because you already know that you are more than enough, so never let anyone convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you and tell you that it is easy because it is not<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

This phase of your life is like a roller coaster of emotions, a crazy drive whose end is unknown. But I know one thing\u2014it is definitely worth it.<\/p>\n

Merece la pena por esos ojitos que te miran y piensan que eres perfecta.<\/p>\n

Basta con esas peque\u00f1as manos que te tienden para que las protejas porque creen que eres el m\u00e1s fuerte.<\/p>\n

Creen que se puede conquistar el mundo y la verdad es que s\u00ed se puede.<\/p>\n

Mam\u00e1, puedes conquistar el mundo con una mano mientras tu hijo sujeta la otra.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t you ever forget that <\/i><\/b>t\u00fa eres suficiente<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

De hecho, mam\u00e1, \u00a1eres m\u00e1s que suficiente!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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