{"id":17661,"date":"2018-04-16T11:05:41","date_gmt":"2018-04-16T11:05:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17661"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:12:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:12:33","slug":"si-necesitas-hacer-estas-7-cosas-para-estar-con-el-no-vale-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-necesitas-hacer-estas-7-cosas-para-estar-con-el-no-vale-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Si necesitas hacer estas 7 cosas para estar con \u00e9l, no vale la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todos tenemos una imagen en la cabeza de c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda una relaci\u00f3n perfecta, \u00bfverdad? Pero de alguna manera nos olvidamos de nuestras propias ideas y nos dedicamos a complacer a nuestra pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, the things that are needed in order for our partner to be happy are quite unusual, but we still do them, mistaking his needs for love. That&#8217;s the problem, you know?<\/p>\n<p>Hacer cosas con las que no estamos de acuerdo simplemente para que nuestra pareja permanezca a nuestro lado es lo peor que puede hacer una mujer. Si realmente necesitas hacer ciertas cosas para que \u00e9l est\u00e9 contigo, entonces no vale la pena.<\/p>\n<p>Especialmente si esas cosas van en contra de todo aquello en lo que crees.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Guardar silencio<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>What does he tell you when you get angry and you try talking to him? Does he shut you up? If you are feeling upset for whatever reason and he doesn&#8217;t give you the freedom to talk about it, then he&#8217;s not worthy of you.<\/p>\n<p>Lo mismo ocurre si te hace esconder las l\u00e1grimas. Dice que esas cosas le molestan o que est\u00e1s deprimida simplemente porque has tenido un d\u00eda duro y \u00e9l lo empeora a\u00fan m\u00e1s no estando a tu lado. M\u00e1rchate.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t deserve you. It\u2019s just who he is. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/a-la-chica-de-corazon-blando-que-nunca-va-a-cambiar\/\">He won\u2019t change.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Tener sexo con \u00e9l<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Your body is yours only and he doesn&#8217;t have the right to it. Ever. If he tells you that sex is the ultimate sign of love, he&#8217;s lying. You can give your body to whomever you want but you can also choose if you&#8217;ll give it to him.<\/p>\n<p>If you refuse, he needs to respect your decision. Men think that they are entitled to our body, thinking that if we don&#8217;t give ourself to them, we don&#8217;t care enough.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Renunciar a tus sue\u00f1os<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If a guy wants you to give up your job, your dreams or everything you&#8217;re working for, then we have a problem. If he really loves you, he will be supportive of everything that you want to achieve in your life and he might even help if he sees that there&#8217;s a way he actually could.<\/p>\n<p>But keeping you locked inside his own little world, never allowing you to grow? Well, that&#8217;s just messed up. You need to grow together and not let him convince you that he&#8217;s the only one who should be working or going to university. You deserve to follow your dreams as well!<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Renuncia a tus amigos<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I know that it&#8217;s very common that we find ourselves in relationships with people who don&#8217;t really get along with our friends but that&#8217;s not as horrible as if he tries to make you give them up.<\/p>\n<p>If he keeps on talking about them in a bad manner and doesn&#8217;t even want to meet them, then there&#8217;s a problem. He needs to love you for who you are and respect all your choices.<\/p>\n<p>Your friends are one of your choices and if he wants you to give up on your friendships in order for him to stay in your life, then he&#8217;s simply not worth it.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Settle for something you&#8217;re not into<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If he proposes an open sexual relationship and he tells you that it&#8217;s the only way he can function in a relationship but you simply don&#8217;t like the idea of it, what do you do? Do you tell him that you are not into that or do you not say anything because you&#8217;re too scared that you might lose him, so you still go with it?<\/p>\n<p>If he makes you settle for this kind of thing, he isn&#8217;t in love with you and you shouldn\u2019t let yourself <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/prefiero-quedarme-soltera-a-conformarme-con-menos\/\">conformarse con menos<\/a> than you want or need. If you need him to be only yours and he still decides to leave, then it&#8217;s his loss. You just keep on being yourself.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Vestir de forma diferente<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s cute when a guy gets jealous sometimes, right? It gives off the impression that he cares. But if he doesn&#8217;t allow you to wear certain pieces of clothing because other men might look at you, he&#8217;s just possessive.<\/p>\n<p>If he makes you wear jeans to formal events where you would rather wear a dress, because he&#8217;s afraid that you might catch the attention of another man, he doesn&#8217;t trust you enough, so why bother?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Tomar la iniciativa<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>I don&#8217;t mean that women shouldn&#8217;t take initiative in a relationship but if you&#8217;re always the one organizing dates and if you&#8217;re always the one who texts first, then sorry, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/el-simplemente-no\/\">he&#8217;s just not that into you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He should be the one calling you and texting you, at least to see how you&#8217;re doing. But if he doesn&#8217;t do that and he keeps on waiting for you to take the lead and arrange a night out, then he&#8217;s not worth it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have a picture in our head of how a perfect relationship would look, right? But we somehow forget about our own ideas and we dedicate ourself to pleasing our partner. Sometimes, the things that are needed in order for our partner to be happy are quite unusual, but we still do them, mistaking&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":17663,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17661","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/daniel-spase-565430-unsplash-1.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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