{"id":17714,"date":"2018-04-17T10:09:27","date_gmt":"2018-04-17T10:09:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17714"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:09:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:09:37","slug":"al-hombre-que-derribo-mis-muros-solo-para-destruirme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-hombre-que-derribo-mis-muros-solo-para-destruirme\/","title":{"rendered":"Al hombre que derrib\u00f3 mis muros s\u00f3lo para destruirme"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando llegaste a mi vida, estaba muy perdida. Estaba en un lugar oscuro y solitario del que no sab\u00eda c\u00f3mo salir.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de haber sido utilizada y maltratada por los hombres, me hab\u00eda sentido indigna de amor durante a\u00f1os. Mi muro estaba en lo m\u00e1s alto y no ten\u00eda ninguna intenci\u00f3n de dejar que ning\u00fan hombre lo derribara.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero, por una especie de milagro, empezaste a arrastrarme, aunque estaba aterrorizada.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Te lo advert\u00ed y te dije que te alejaras de m\u00ed. Era demasiado trabajo. Pero a diferencia de los dem\u00e1s, t\u00fa estabas dispuesto a hacer todo lo necesario para hacerme tuya. Me perseguiste.<\/p>\n<p>You made me feel beautiful every single day without fail. You told me you loved me every morning and every night. You waited patiently for me and didn\u2019t push me to do anything I didn\u2019t want to do.<\/p>\n<p>You started a spark deep inside my soul. A spark that I hadn\u2019t seen in years. A spark that whispered, \u2018You are good enough and always have been\u2019. When I broke down at night, crying because I was so scared to be vulnerable and let you in, you just held me and told me that it would be okay and you would always be there.<\/p>\n<p>But&#8230;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/youre-not-man-fell\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">d\u00f3nde est\u00e1s ahora<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p><strong>I thought you were different from all the men before you. Boy, was I so wrong. You were the ultimate wolf in sheep\u2019s clothing. You were worse than them all.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After you tore my wall down brick by brick and the last piece was gone, that\u2019s when all hell broke loose and the games began. You had finally won some sick mental battle that I didn\u2019t even know we were fighting. Now I was all yours to control.<\/p>\n<p>Tu fachada se desmoronaba y el hombre que me asegurabas que eras empez\u00f3 a desaparecer. De repente, te cre\u00edste mi due\u00f1o. Lo arrancaste todo de mi vida, desde mis amigos hasta mi familia, para que tuviera que depender de ti y solo de ti.<\/p>\n<p>The sweet I love yous slowed down, and the drunk \u2018I can\u2019t stand yous\u2019 were constant. You brainwashed me so much that I would end up apologizing for things that YOU did.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Looking back, I did nothing wrong except try to force a man who had no heart to love me. When you left me because you \u2018didn\u2019t love me anymore;&nbsp;it absolutely crushed me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What did I do to ruin us? It had to have been my fault somehow. But then I realized something\u2026 I did absolutely nothing wrong and the real problem was you never loved me in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>En retrospectiva, creo que lo \u00fanico que amabas era la idea de alguien que fuera lo suficientemente d\u00e9bil para que t\u00fa la controlaras. Te aprovechas de la debilidad, siempre lo has hecho y siempre lo har\u00e1s. Usaste tus palabras para que me enamorara de ti. Pero al final, todo lo que hiciste fue demostrar que todas tus palabras eran mentiras, todas tus promesas eran vac\u00edas, y tus intenciones conmigo nunca fueron puras.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not sure if you ever really wanted to be with me or you just liked the chase. You showed me the most twisted version of \u2018love\u2019 I had ever seen and left me shattered on the ground without a second thought. You broke down my wall only to destroy me.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/hombre-que-piensa-que-no-puede-vivir-sin\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Probablemente pensaste que estar\u00eda roto<\/a> and beyond repair when we ended. But guess what? My life is just beginning. That spark that you started inside of me is still there but you\u2019re not fueling it anymore. I\u2019m fueling it all by my damn self and I hope that it burns you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even though you took me through hell and back, I am thankful for you. If it wasn\u2019t for you I wouldn\u2019t have become who I am today. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/querido-ex-ya-no-soy-la-chica-que-una-vez-conociste\/\">Ya no soy la chica d\u00e9bil<\/a> I was when I first met you, and I will never become her again. By tearing me down and destroying me, you ended up helping me discover a strength within myself that I didn\u2019t know existed.<\/p>\n<p>He aprendido mucho de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Me ense\u00f1aste a no confiar f\u00e1cilmente en los hombres que dicen todo lo correcto. Las acciones dicen m\u00e1s que las palabras. Me ense\u00f1aste a ser consciente del amor fabricado. Un hombre de verdad nunca te har\u00e1 preguntarte si te quiere de verdad o no. Me ense\u00f1aste a no volver a tolerar las faltas de respeto.<\/p>\n<p>El pr\u00f3ximo hombre que me hable como t\u00fa lo hiciste ser\u00e1 mandado a la calle antes de que pueda abrir la boca para disculparse. Me ense\u00f1aste a ver m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de las tonter\u00edas y a defenderme siempre, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nunca m\u00e1s me conformar\u00e9 con un hombre como t\u00fa. Gracias por demostrarme que merezco mucho m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>por Kassidy Jennings<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you came into my life, I was so lost. I was in a dark and lonely place that I wasn\u2019t sure how to get out of. After being used and abused by men, I had felt unworthy of love for years. My wall was at an all-time high, and I had absolutely no intention&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":32548,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17714","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/freestocks-org-245827-unsplash-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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