Like so many others who were under his spell, you were too busy planning your future with your so-called Prince Charming that you ignored all those curveballs he pitched your way. It\u2019s not until the relationship ends abruptly and you\u2019re sitting on your living room floor consuming more than 500 calories worth of ice cream that you realize that while you were ready to win the World Series with your man, he wasn\u2019t ready to give you his jersey yet, because he was still in the batting cage with his past.<\/p>\n
We all choose to believe what we want. Sometimes we wear blinders which prevent us from seeing the truth. However, if your so-called \u2018Mr. Right\u2019 is even throwing any of these subtle indicators your way, you may want to protect your heart and find yourself another game!<\/p>\n
My ex used to praise me for being so \u2018different\u2019. I had fire in my soul, hair as golden as the sun and I was completely outspoken when it came to giving advice, granted or not. He would always inform me that it was so great to have someone able to push him into being a better man. That same push, along with dishonesty, were the reasons why our relationship ended.<\/p>\n
However, I was devastated when I found out my ex, who I had lived with, was already onto the next gal within a month\u2026 When I found out, my immediate instinct was to stalk her on social media. Armed with my great FBI skills, I was able to find out she was completely opposite from me. I was shocked: brunette, country girl, and never worked out a day in her life. She was the yin and I was the yang.<\/p>\n
Needless to say, when a man tells you \u2018you are so refreshing\u2019, note that the only thing refreshing should be a glass of Chardonnay, not you!<\/p>\n
Rushing into another relationship after a serious one is probably sign number two that you\u2019re the rebound. If he\u2019s willing to be so #extra, promising you a great life ahead, a house, cars, kids, etc. so soon, you may want to take a step back from that altar and look at the bigger picture. Some men find pleasure in competing with their ex to see who can jump into the next relationship faster. Sorry sister, you might want to place those bouquets on hold.<\/p>\n
So, he tells you he\u2019s ready for the next step in your relationship, yet he\u2019s not ready to give up the numbers in his phone or even lunch dates with his past. If you find yourself more often than not getting frustrated as to why he won\u2019t ditch the past, maybe it\u2019s a clear indicator he\u2019s not ready to ditch her himself yet.<\/p>\n
If he\u2019s wanting #relationshipgoals all over social media, you make want to think twice about what his motives really are. So, he seems totally into you, with endless amounts of kissing photos and the late-night #outonthetownwithbabe. You find yourself consumed in endless poses just to get the perfect picture. So when the selfie pics stop, you may want to take your camera elsewhere.<\/p>\n
So you find yourself running into the ex more than you\u2019d like? You see her at the gym, at his favorite coffee shop and, oddly enough, at the bar every Friday night. How dare she, right?! Wrong! This is a clear indicator he\u2019s most likely using you as a ploy to make the ex jealous.<\/p>\n
Cuando sientas que sabes m\u00e1s del ex que de tu hombre, es posible que quieras ponerte esas supuestas zapatillas de cristal llamadas zapatillas de deporte y salir corriendo de esta relaci\u00f3n. Est\u00e1 claro que alguien tiene problemas subyacentes que necesita solucionar en su interior. Ah\u00f3rrate las interminables y largas sesiones de terapia y l\u00edmpiate los o\u00eddos de todo el odio que te lanza sobre su ex.<\/p>\n
So he\u2019s promised you to meet his parents soon but momma and poppa bear just aren\u2019t ready to meet you? Before you blame the ex, you may want to take a step back and think as to why they don\u2019t want to meet you. Mom and Dad both know what\u2019s best for baby boy, so if his parents are not willing to meet you, I\u2019d heed the warning.<\/p>\n
So, if you find yourself dealing with the ex more often than you\u2019d like, maybe it\u2019s time to consider lighting a new candle for someone else, because the only one who can protect your heart is you.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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