{"id":17753,"date":"2020-03-18T07:11:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-18T07:11:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17753"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:45:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:45:55","slug":"ella-no-tendria-problemas-de-confianza-si-tu-no-hubieras-tenido-problemas-de-mentiras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ella-no-tendria-problemas-de-confianza-si-tu-no-hubieras-tenido-problemas-de-mentiras\/","title":{"rendered":"Ella no tendr\u00eda problemas de confianza si t\u00fa no hubieras tenido problemas de mentiras"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00daltimamente, cada vez que ves a tu chica, s\u00f3lo ves dudas en sus ojos. As\u00ed que piensas que, obviamente, est\u00e1 exagerando y exagerando.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what has gotten into her and why she doesn\u2019t trust a word you say. She obviously has strong trust issues and this has been impacting on your relationship in horrible ways.<\/p>\n

Te preguntas d\u00f3nde ha desaparecido la chica alegre y feliz que conociste.<\/strong> Ahora, s\u00f3lo puedes o\u00edrla rega\u00f1ar y cuestionar cada uno de tus movimientos.<\/p>\n

No hay nada que puedas hacer para demostrarle tu amor. Crees que te est\u00e1s esforzando al m\u00e1ximo para ser un buen chico, un novio cari\u00f1oso y comprensivo, pero nada parece funcionar.<\/p>\n

Aunque movieras el mundo por ella, seguir\u00eda dudando de tu amor.<\/p>\n

And naturally, this is slowly starting to annoy you. You didn\u2019t picture your life like this.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need someone whose pensar demasiado arruina tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a> and someone who is constantly checking on every little thing you do. You don\u2019t want to feel like you are constantly being monitored and controlled.<\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan t\u00fa, todo esto se te ha ido un poco de las manos. Es demasiado celosa y empiezas a pensar que se est\u00e1 volviendo loca.<\/p>\n

You feel like you just can\u2019t deal with her constant mood swings and with her behavior toward you in general.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that every relationship is a two-way street. Su comportamiento es s\u00f3lo una reacci\u00f3n a tus acciones y esa es la \u00fanica verdad. <\/strong><\/p>\n

En lugar de acusarla de estar loca, ser celosa y demasiado controladora, \u00bfhas pensado alguna vez en todas las cosas que has hecho t\u00fa para que tu novia est\u00e9 as\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, es muy consciente de que tiene problemas de confianza<\/a>. She doesn\u2019t believe a word you say and there is nothing that can convince her of your honesty.<\/p>\n

Yes, she sometimes acts like she is paranoid and there are times when she\u2019ll accuse you of things you didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfhas pensado alguna vez qu\u00e9 hiciste t\u00fa para que ella se comportara as\u00ed? \u00bfTe has cuestionado alguna vez a ti mismo y todo lo que le hiciste para que se comportara as\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know very well this girl wasn\u2019t like this when you met her. You know she was an innocent and caring girl who believed in love and who believed that there was something good in everything.<\/p>\n

But most of all, she believed that there was something good in you. Although people kept telling her that you were trouble and that you weren\u2019t the right man for her, she had faith in you.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda fe en su amor por ti y cre\u00eda que el enorme amor que sent\u00eda por ti te cambiar\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Pero nunca te cambi\u00f3. En vez de eso, la cambiaste.<\/strong> You showed her that she never should\u2019ve trusted you.<\/p>\n

Le demostraste que todo el mundo ten\u00eda raz\u00f3n sobre ti y que ella era tonta por creerte. La decepcionaste m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s cada vez que te pillaba mintiendo.<\/p>\n

Ella perd\u00eda cada vez m\u00e1s la confianza en ti cada vez que te pillaba escondiendo el m\u00f3vil, cada vez que ten\u00edas llamadas misteriosas y cada vez que te pillaba mirando a otra chica.<\/p>\n

And then, she caught you cheating on her. You may think she forgave you. And maybe she did. But she didn\u2019t do it because she wanted to.<\/p>\n

She did it because she loved you, despite everything you did to her. She did it because she couldn\u2019t imagine not having you in her life, despite all the pain you caused her.<\/p>\n

And she did it because she kept hoping that you\u2019d eventually become a better man.<\/p>\n

But although she forgave you, she never forgot what you did to her. She tried really hard to put all of that behind her and she tried to turn over a new leaf. But she just couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Los sentimientos de traici\u00f3n y humillaci\u00f3n que le hiciste pasar fueron incluso m\u00e1s fuertes que el amor que sent\u00eda por ti.<\/p>\n

And above all, she still can\u2019t perdonarse a s\u00ed misma<\/a> for staying by your side. She can\u2019t stand living in this torture anymore.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que te mira, ve a un hombre que le hizo da\u00f1o de la forma m\u00e1s horrible, ve a un hombre que la destruy\u00f3 y la cambi\u00f3 para siempre.<\/p>\n

Y no hay nada que ella pueda hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que cada vez que te moleste su falta de confianza, cada vez que pienses que te est\u00e1 maltratando y cada vez que pienses que debe estar loca, recuerda que t\u00fa la hiciste as\u00ed. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Recuerda que todo esto es culpa tuya.<\/strong> And remember that she wouldn\u2019t have trust issues if you hadn\u2019t had lying issues.<\/p>\n

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