{"id":17792,"date":"2018-04-18T12:41:09","date_gmt":"2018-04-18T12:41:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17792"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:27","slug":"ella-no-perdio-tu-amor-ella-solo-se-dio-cuenta-que-nunca-lo-tuvo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ella-no-perdio-tu-amor-ella-solo-se-dio-cuenta-que-nunca-lo-tuvo\/","title":{"rendered":"No perdi\u00f3 tu amor, s\u00f3lo se dio cuenta de que nunca lo tuvo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por mucho que ella deseara que lo consiguierais, en realidad nunca estuvo destinado a suceder. Por mucho que lo intentara, por mucho que diera o por mucho que rezara, todo fue en vano porque eras incapaz de amar. A\u00fan lo eres, supongo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todas las veces que crey\u00f3 que la amabas, s\u00f3lo jugaste con ella.<\/b> You know what you have to do in order to get what you want. You knew all the right words to say and all the right moves to make so that she would fall for you. To make her believe that you\u2019re honest, while that word doesn\u2019t even exist in your vocabulary. She fell in love with you without even thinking about it, because it felt good. It felt right.<\/span><\/p>\n

And she genuinely believed that you meant what you said. There was no reason for her to doubt your promises and all the vows you made her. There was no reason for her to go to bed wondering if maybe you\u2019re not telling the truth. And that\u2019s why it broke her even harder when you left.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todas las veces que crey\u00f3 que pod\u00eda confiar en ti, usaste su confianza contra ella.<\/b> Te confi\u00f3 su coraz\u00f3n y su vida. Te dej\u00f3 entrar, aunque antes la gente la utilizara. Te lo dio todo, aunque antes lo perdi\u00f3 todo. Pero confi\u00f3 en ti. T\u00fa eras el \u00fanico riesgo que ella estaba dispuesta a correr porque cre\u00eda que esta vez ser\u00eda diferente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Crey\u00f3 que no jugar\u00edas con su confianza, as\u00ed que te la dio f\u00e1cilmente. Crey\u00f3 que la proteger\u00edas cuando la vida se le viniera encima, as\u00ed que <\/span>ella te dio su coraz\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>. Ella cre\u00eda tantas cosas y ninguna de ellas result\u00f3 ser cierta. Ninguna.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todas las veces que escuch\u00f3 tus palabras como si fueran la sagrada Biblia, la intoxicaste con ellas.<\/b> Al principio, todo eran risitas y carcajadas mezcladas con expresiones de amor y cumplidos. Y con el tiempo, tus cumplidos se convirtieron en manipulaciones. Tus expresiones de amor se convirtieron en condiciones. Pero ella segu\u00eda queri\u00e9ndote. Segu\u00eda creyendo en ti. Segu\u00eda creyendo en el amor que os ten\u00edais. O al menos pensaba que lo hac\u00edas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todas las veces que te dio una segunda oportunidad, la aprovechaste para romperla una vez m\u00e1s.<\/b> She tried to escape; she tried to walk away. You were like a boomerang she couldn\u2019t run away from. And every time you would bounce back, you would break her more. You would take away one more piece of her, until nothing was left.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y ahora que ha huido <\/b>sin oportunidades<\/b><\/a> y el amor, por fin es libre.<\/b> Por fin puede ver que no fuiste m\u00e1s que un error que le cost\u00f3 muy caro. Por fin puede ver que nunca fue ella la que no era querible; fue tu incapacidad de amar lo que te ahuyent\u00f3. Fue tu ego\u00edsmo y tu coraz\u00f3n t\u00f3xico lo que la destruy\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

She was so afraid of letting you down, so afraid of facing a day without you, that she held on for you like she was holding on for her life. But she found her courage, she found a way to be brave, because it\u2019s better to face every day alone than with you by her side. It\u2019s better to fall asleep alone than to fall asleep in your lying hands.<\/span><\/p>\n

She finally sees that she never lost your love because you can\u2019t lose something you never had.<\/b> For too long, she blamed herself for all the downfalls of your relationship because you made her believe that it was all her fault. For too long, she hated parts of herself, thinking that they\u2019re the reason why you left. For too long, she refused to love herself because you didn\u2019t love her. You made her believe that she\u2019s the unlovable one and screw you for that!<\/span><\/p>\n

You took the most amazing woman with the biggest and greatest heart the world has seen and you broke her. You took her trust and stomped on it. You took her love and set it on fire so she\u2019ll burn in it. But she still managed to see through your lies and manipulations. She still managed to see the truth and to finally see that she deserves more than you. More than what you can even dream about giving to someone.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t lose something you never had, but it still doesn\u2019t mean it hurts less. She never had your love, but losing you still hurt.<\/b> The fact that she loved someone who never loved her back. The fact that she gave herself to someone who only took the  parts he liked. That\u2019s not love, for God\u2019s sake. Love is accepting and loving each other the way you are. But I guess that\u2019s science fiction for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

But she\u2019s getting there. She\u2019s learning to love herself the way you never knew how to love her. She\u2019s learning to put herself first, something you never even considered. And she\u2019s accepting the truth that it was never her fault you left because you weren\u2019t there in the first place. Not for her, not for your relationship. And not for love.<\/span><\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No matter how much she hoped that you two would make it, it was never meant to be, really. No matter how much she tried, how much she gave or how much she prayed, it was all in vain because you were incapable of loving. You still are, I guess. All the times she believed…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":17794,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17792","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/soragrit-wongsa-599087-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17792","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17792"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17792\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17794"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17792"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17792"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17792"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}