{"id":17797,"date":"2020-09-18T13:17:25","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T13:17:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17797"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:52:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:52:05","slug":"8-senales-de-que-sufriste-desatencion-emocional-de-nino-y-como-te-afecta-ahora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-de-que-sufriste-desatencion-emocional-de-nino-y-como-te-afecta-ahora\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales de que sufriste abandono emocional de ni\u00f1o (y c\u00f3mo te afecta ahora)"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you don\u2019t get what you need in your childhood, it can affect your adulthood in negative ways. If your parents missed all your signs for help and if they didn\u2019t give you all the love and affection that you craved as a child, it is normal that behavior like that will leave deep scars and that you will doubt all that you do. You will constantly seek proof that you are good enough and you won\u2019t open up to people as much as they open up to you.<\/p>\n

Por desgracia, hay tantos ni\u00f1os desatendidos emocionalmente<\/a> hoy en d\u00eda y puede ocurrir debido a un n\u00famero mixto de razones. Algunos son hijos de padres divorciados, narcisistas, demasiado estrictos o ausentes. Y todas esas cosas hicieron que esos ni\u00f1os creyeran que estaban haciendo algo mal y que no eran lo suficientemente buenos.<\/p>\n

Si te preguntas si fuiste desatendido emocionalmente en tu infancia, comprueba las siguientes se\u00f1ales que te ayudar\u00e1n a darte cuenta de si realmente necesitas ayuda o no.<\/p>\n

Siempre te cuesta abrirte a la gente<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Do you have the constant feeling that you should always help others but you never share your problems with them? If your answer is positive, it can be a sign that you were an emotionally neglected child. This happens because you were a child who needed help and assistance, but you never got them and now you don\u2019t ask for them from others. You think that nobody will listen to you and that the rest of the people, like your parents did, will fail to help you.<\/p>\n

Sentirse defectuoso<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

For you, all the people around you are perfect but that is not what you think about yourself. You feel that something is missing, but you can\u2019t figure out what. There is always some bad feeling and you can\u2019t get rid of it. So, you keep asking yourself what to do to feel better and you sometimes find help in the wrong places. You feel that you have a problem and that you are not likeable. You think that people won\u2019t like you because no eres lo suficientemente bueno.<\/a><\/p>\n

Tiene problemas para expresar sus emociones<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Do you feel all frozen in a stressful situation, not knowing what to say? Do you question people\u2019s behaviors just like your own too many times? If this is what happens to you on a daily basis, it is a sign that you were an emotionally neglected child and that you have issues from your past. Whatever you do, you just can\u2019t relax and you don\u2019t know what to do about it.<\/p>\n

Tiene baja autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Because of this trauma from your past, you have a lack of self-love. For you, other people are perfect but you are not. You keep thinking that you should improve yourself, but you don\u2019t know how. You don\u2019t cherish your empathy for others and your strengths to do things you think you are not capable of doing. You simply can\u2019t see how amazing you are and it is all because of the mistakes of your parents.<\/p>\n

Eres muy sensible<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Eres sensible a todo, pero sobre todo al rechazo. Cuando alguien te dice que debes mejorar, inmediatamente piensas que las cosas van muy mal y piensas en el peor escenario posible. S\u00f3lo porque alguien mencione una cr\u00edtica constructiva, te sientes ofendido y que no eres lo suficientemente bueno.<\/p>\n

Disfrutas m\u00e1s cuando est\u00e1s solo<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Since you have low self-esteem, you constantly think that you don\u2019t fit in with other people. You don\u2019t feel as worthy as they are and that\u2019s why you like to spend time alone. In that way, nobody can hurt you with their actions and you feel safe, that nothing bad will happen to you.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t find a valid reason for your unhappiness<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Do you sometimes catch yourself feeling unhappy but you actually don\u2019t know why? You feel like something is missing in your life and you need that small thing to be happy. So, you stuck with anxiety and depression and you make more problems in your life. If you feel this way, just know that you were probably emotionally neglected in your childhood and that you have consequences now when you are an adult.<\/p>\n

Te sientes culpable de todo lo malo que te pasa<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You somehow feel that everything bad that happens to you has something to do with your actions. You think that you made mistakes and that because of that, you can\u2019t succeed in achieving your goals. What you don\u2019t know is that you can\u2019t be the only one to blame because there are a lot of factors in life that can ruin our dreams. So, don\u2019t be too harsh on yourself and try to work on the things you think you need to. The rest actually doesn\u2019t depend on you.<\/p>\n

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