{"id":17813,"date":"2020-08-19T07:03:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-19T07:03:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17813"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:42:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:42:58","slug":"tus-palabras-no-significan-nada-porque-tus-acciones-mostraron-la-verdad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tus-palabras-no-significan-nada-porque-tus-acciones-mostraron-la-verdad\/","title":{"rendered":"Tus Palabras No Significan Nada Porque Tus Acciones Muestran La Verdad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hace mucho tiempo o\u00ed un dicho que dec\u00eda que las acciones hablan m\u00e1s que las palabras, pero tard\u00e9 un tiempo en entenderlo.<\/p>\n

Mientras estaba en una relaci\u00f3n contigo, Confi\u00e9 en ti lo suficiente como para dejar que me hicieras da\u00f1o<\/a>. Yo era totalmente abierto sobre mis planes y mis acciones mientras que t\u00fa eras el que dec\u00eda una cosa y hac\u00eda algo totalmente opuesto.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9 fue lo peor?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Siempre te escapabas con cosas as\u00ed. Cada vez que ve\u00edas que me enfadaba y que estaba a punto de acabar con lo nuestro, ven\u00edas a m\u00ed, prometi\u00e9ndome las estrellas y la luna.<\/p>\n

Y cada vez, ca\u00eda ante tus dulces mentiras y tus abrazos que me hac\u00edan temblar. Cada vez, me entregaba a ti pensando que cambiar\u00edas, que mi amor te cambiar\u00eda.<\/p>\n

But that never happened. I wasn\u2019t so important to you to fight for me like your life depends on it. And you managed to hurt me with every action.<\/p>\n

Me hiciste pasar por algo impensable dolor emocional<\/a> and even if I told you that you were doing me harm, you didn\u2019t stop. You just continued doing things that were good for you, not even feeling remorse for the pain you caused me.<\/p>\n

I still remember your verbal abuse and putting me down every time you didn\u2019t like something I did. Nothing that I would do for us worked for you and you thought that you were the only one who should make important decisions.<\/p>\n

Dijiste que me amabas; luego me enga\u00f1aste.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Dec\u00edas que yo era importante para ti; luego me menospreciabas delante de mis amigos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Dijiste que durar\u00edamos para siempre; luego traicionaste nuestro amor con la primera mujer que conociste.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You lied to me everyday just to get what you wanted and I was so blind in love that I couldn\u2019t see it. I refused to believe that you didn\u2019t love me enough and that I didn\u2019t matter to you.<\/p>\n

Segu\u00eda viviendo en mi mundo de fantas\u00eda pensando que cambiar\u00edas y que empezar\u00edas a quererme como al principio de nuestra relaci\u00f3n. Pero eso nunca ocurri\u00f3.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t want to fight for me. You didn\u2019t want to chase me because I was already yours. But the catch is that you should have chased me even if I was yours because that is the point of love.<\/p>\n

Se trata de intentarlo y de luchar por tu ser querido. Se trata de las peque\u00f1as cosas, porque son las que m\u00e1s importan.<\/p>\n

And that was all that I wanted\u2014just a couple of small things to keep me alive. I just needed one small proof that you cared about me and that you wanted us to succeed.<\/p>\n

I wanted you to fight for me, but you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\n

Me lastimaste tantas veces y luego usabas tus palabras para justificar tus acciones. Pero las acciones s\u00f3lo pueden justificarse con acciones.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Your sweet words that you will change meant nothing to me because I didn\u2019t have any proof you would do that. I was sick and tired of your manipulation, gaslighting, lying, and controlling.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda alejarme de ti y de todo lo que representabas. Y eso fue lo que hice al final.<\/p>\n

Cuando vi que nunca cambiar\u00edas y que siempre intentar\u00edas tomarme el pelo, decid\u00ed liberarme de ti.<\/p>\n

But I must admit that it wasn\u2019t easy to do. There were times when I wished you had never existed and there were times when I felt the same about myself.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how hard you hurt me. You were the man I loved the most, but at the same time, you were the one who beat me to an emotional death.<\/p>\n

Y mientras pensaba en las secuelas de mi relaci\u00f3n contigo, me di cuenta de que sacaste todo lo mejor de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Me drenaste toda la energ\u00eda y qued\u00e9 totalmente insensible. S\u00f3lo porque estaba tratando de protegerme del posible dolor emocional que otro hombre podr\u00eda hacerme, me aisl\u00e9 totalmente de mis sentimientos.<\/p>\n

I blocked them and I didn\u2019t allow anyone to come close to my heart. I made high and thick walls around me so I won\u2019t get hurt again. In that way, I missed the chance to love and to be loved again.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Y cuando vi lo que hice, despert\u00e9 de un mal sue\u00f1o del que hab\u00eda formado parte durante mucho tiempo. Me di cuenta de que aunque me mintieras e hicieras todas esas cosas desagradables, deb\u00eda seguir adelante con mi vida.<\/p>\n

Aceptar que me pas\u00f3 a m\u00ed fue la primera etapa de curaci\u00f3n tras la huida<\/a> una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica, pero definitivamente necesitaba recuperarme completamente.<\/p>\n

After all that you did to me, I promised myself that I will love again, hoping that another man in my life won\u2019t be anything like you. I promised myself that I will open my heart to love despite all the fears and trust issues.<\/p>\n

Me promet\u00ed a m\u00ed misma que volver\u00eda a amar a pesar de todas las heridas emocionales que a\u00fan ten\u00eda presentes. Y al hacerlo, pude finalmente alejarme de ti. Porque abriendo mi coraz\u00f3n a un nuevo amor, podr\u00eda curar mis heridas y volver a ser la antigua yo.<\/p>\n

Me promet\u00ed a m\u00ed misma que volver\u00eda a amar, con todo mi coraz\u00f3n y que nunca dejar\u00e9 que ning\u00fan hombre me haga da\u00f1o como t\u00fa lo hiciste. Decid\u00ed seguir adelante y volver a ser una mujer feliz y amada. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Y s\u00e9 que verme as\u00ed ser\u00e1 mi mejor venganza hacia ti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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