{"id":17841,"date":"2020-07-19T08:37:14","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T08:37:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17841"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:31:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:31:07","slug":"al-chico-que-sigue-dejandome-y-volviendo-a-mi-ya-he-tenido-suficiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-chico-que-sigue-dejandome-y-volviendo-a-mi-ya-he-tenido-suficiente\/","title":{"rendered":"Para el chico que me deja y vuelve conmigo: Ya he tenido bastante"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nunca supe a qu\u00e9 atenerme contigo. Nuestra relaci\u00f3n era una monta\u00f1a rusa emocional y no en el buen sentido.<\/p>\n<p>No es que tuvi\u00e9ramos una especie de casi relaci\u00f3n. No, no ten\u00edas ning\u00fan problema en etiquetar las cosas. Nunca tuviste problema en llamarme tu novia o en decir que ten\u00edamos una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You never had a problem with theory\u2014it was the practice that was hard for you to accomplish.<\/p>\n<p>Lo que te costaba era quedarte. Nunca sabr\u00e9 si estabas huyendo de m\u00ed todo el tiempo o si en realidad estabas huyendo de ti mismo todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>En cualquier caso, la cuesti\u00f3n es b\u00e1sicamente la misma. T\u00fa eras siempre el que hu\u00eda y yo era siempre el que te persegu\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Y nunca me dijiste tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/me-despido-definitivamente-de-ti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">despedida final<\/a>. Because you always knew you had someone to come back to if you weren\u2019t happy wherever you went.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada y sumida en profundos pensamientos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Y esto era verdad. Siempre me ten\u00edas a m\u00ed para volver. Siempre ten\u00edas tu santuario, un hogar acogedor esper\u00e1ndote, a pesar de todo lo que hac\u00edas mientras estabas fuera.<\/p>\n<p>Con el tiempo, esto se convirti\u00f3 en un h\u00e1bito tuyo. Cada vez que te cansabas de estar en una relaci\u00f3n, cada vez que te cansabas de m\u00ed, simplemente... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/al-hombre-que-me-dejo-sin-decir-una-palabra\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">d\u00e9jame sin decir una palabra<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A veces, te ibas durante semanas o meses. Y yo me pasaba todo ese tiempo esperando pacientemente a que volvieras.<\/p>\n<p>Even when I was petrified that this was your last time leaving me, deep down I always knew you\u2019d be back. And I was always right.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y cada vez que volv\u00edas, te quer\u00eda a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/strong> You always promised me that you\u2019d change, telling me that you had finally realized how much you loved me and that you would never leave my side again.<\/p>\n<p>Me declarabas tu amor eterno y eso bastaba para alegrarme y tranquilizarme.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con los ojos cerrados de pie al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/woman-with-closed-eyes-standing-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And I believed you. I didn\u2019t believe all of this because I thought it was true\u2014I believed in it because I wanted it so badly to be true.<\/p>\n<p>Y porque estos eran los \u00fanicos momentos en los que sent\u00eda tu amor. Estos eran los momentos a los que me aferraba cada vez que te ibas.<\/p>\n<p>I kept telling myself that you wouldn\u2019t be coming back to me every time if you didn\u2019t love me. And this was the only thing keeping me sane and keeping me alive.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando pasaba este periodo de felicidad mutua, yo volv\u00eda a tener miedo.<\/p>\n<p>I was always terrified that you\u2019d leave me, because deep down I knew it was just a matter of time before that would happen.<\/p>\n<p>Esperaba constantemente que te marcharas, aunque eso era lo \u00faltimo que quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora que lo pienso, pas\u00e9 la mayor parte de nuestra relaci\u00f3n con miedo. Y ese miedo me paraliz\u00f3 por completo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el sal\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por otro lado, nunca tuviste miedo. Sab\u00edas que siempre te esperar\u00eda con los brazos abiertos.<\/p>\n<p>Y siempre te tuve de vuelta, como si nada hubiera pasado. Siempre te permit\u00ed actuar como si nunca te hubieras ido y siempre retom\u00e1bamos las cosas donde las hab\u00edamos dejado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But the time has come for me to say I am done and to tell you I\u2019ve had more than enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Me dejaste. Otra vez. Hiciste todo lo que estuviste haciendo todos estos a\u00f1os.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nada ha cambiado.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Excepto yo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know why this time it is different but what I do know is that I can\u2019t wait for you any longer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103261\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And I don\u2019t want to. I spent years of my life waiting for you. And it\u2019s time for me to finally move on from you for good.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had enough of being your backup plan, your last resort and your safety net. I\u2019m done being there for you when everyone else turns their backs on you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done putting my life on hold, while waiting for you to come to your senses.<\/p>\n<p>Porque ahora s\u00e9 que nunca vas a cambiar. Y s\u00e9 que no estoy preparada para pasar el resto de mi vida viviendo as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Este no soy yo dici\u00e9ndote que tienes que elegirme finalmente. Este no soy yo d\u00e1ndote un ultim\u00e1tum y este no soy yo pidi\u00e9ndote que vuelvas a m\u00ed si quieres quedarte conmigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Este soy yo quit\u00e1ndote tus opciones. Este soy yo dici\u00e9ndote que no hay nada que puedas hacer <\/strong>m\u00e1s<strong> para que te acepte de nuevo. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Este soy yo alej\u00e1ndome de ti por primera y \u00faltima vez. Y este soy yo nunca mirando hacia atr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103264\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para el chico que sigue dej\u00e1ndome y volviendo a m\u00ed Ya he tenido suficiente\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I never knew where I stood with you. Our relationship was an emotional roller coaster and not in a good way. It is not that we had a kind of almost relationship. No, you had no trouble labeling things. You never had a problem calling me your girlfriend or saying that we were in a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":103262,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/To-The-Guy-Who-Keeps-Leaving-Me-And-Coming-Back-To-Me-Ive-Had-Enough.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17841"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163550,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17841\/revisions\/163550"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103262"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17841"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17841"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17841"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}