{"id":17946,"date":"2020-04-23T08:57:08","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T08:57:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=17946"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:18:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:18:45","slug":"la-mejor-venganza-es-seguir-adelante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-mejor-venganza-es-seguir-adelante\/","title":{"rendered":"La mejor venganza es seguir adelante"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>He did this to you. He turned you into an empty shell, with eyes full of tears and a scream in your throat that you&#8217;re not able to let go.<\/p>\n<p>He made your thirst for revenge bigger\u2014so big, in fact, that no reasonable conversation could change your mind. You have made your decision.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Pero para! Por favor, para con esos pensamientos que te est\u00e1n comiendo vivo. Ni siquiera te dejan dormir bien.<\/p>\n<p>Those thoughts are turning you into the monster that he wanted to make out of you, but don&#8217;t let him. Believe me, the best revenge is to move on.<\/p>\n<p>The best revenge is self-love. Don&#8217;t give him the pleasure by showing him that he made you doubt yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Walk around with your head held high and your heart in its place. Take care of yourself and don&#8217;t ever make the same mistake again of thinking that you&#8217;re not good enough or that you are unworthy of love.If he wasn&#8217;t able to love you, it doesn&#8217;t mean that you are unlovable.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96576\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de chica guapa al atardecer\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-girl-on-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Qui\u00e9rete plenamente.<\/strong> With everything you&#8217;ve got. Forget about getting even and forget about having the upper hand.<\/p>\n<p>Forget about all those times you figured out a strategy to show him what he lost. Just don&#8217;t. He will be more than sorry when he sees you happy, like he never meant a thing to you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La mejor venganza es dejarse llevar.<\/strong> Let go of everything that has happened because you can&#8217;t change your past now. You can&#8217;t influence what happened and you can&#8217;t hold on to something that&#8217;s not there anymore.<\/p>\n<p>So, learn to let go. Learn to free yourself from everything that doesn&#8217;t serve you\u2014and your past probably doesn&#8217;t, does it?<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/mejor-venganza-simplemente-feliz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">La mejor venganza es ser feliz<\/a>.<\/strong> Cuando te dej\u00f3, te enga\u00f1\u00f3 o lo que sea que hizo para romperte, probablemente quer\u00eda verte estrellarse. Ahora deja que te vea prosperar. Sonr\u00ede, r\u00ede, baila y p\u00e1salo en grande.<\/p>\n<p>You only have one life and this one is yours, so don&#8217;t spend it dwelling over someone who doesn&#8217;t even care about your tears because if he did, he wouldn&#8217;t have done this to you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96578\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-happy-smiling-woman-standing-on-the-square.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de mujer sonriente y feliz de pie en la plaza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-happy-smiling-woman-standing-on-the-square.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-happy-smiling-woman-standing-on-the-square-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-happy-smiling-woman-standing-on-the-square-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-happy-smiling-woman-standing-on-the-square-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Portrait-of-happy-smiling-woman-standing-on-the-square-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 feliz y demuestra al mundo que puedes volver a levantarte despu\u00e9s de haber ca\u00eddo al suelo.<\/p>\n<p>You can rise and become wiser from your mistakes. There is no one holding you down anymore except yourself. Don&#8217;t let it continue this way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La mejor venganza es el perd\u00f3n.<\/strong> Puede que pienses que estoy loco por decir esto, pero el perd\u00f3n es algo tan sagrado que no todo el mundo tiene la capacidad de practicarlo.<\/p>\n<p>If you forgive, you will be better than most of us, so forgive. Don&#8217;t hold grudges because they will poison your mind and your heart, and you will become just like him. I&#8217;m pretty sure you don&#8217;t want that.<\/p>\n<p>Usted no es un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/aftermath-toxic-person\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">persona t\u00f3xica<\/a>. You are a wonderful human being who needs love and affection. He wasn&#8217;t able to give you that and that&#8217;s why you need to forgive him. He didn&#8217;t know better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La mejor venganza es cuidarse a uno mismo.<\/strong> To know when you&#8217;ve had enough and when you want to take a day off from all the chaos in this world is a blessing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96579\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-smiling-girl-standing-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de chica sonriente junto al mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-smiling-girl-standing-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-smiling-girl-standing-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-smiling-girl-standing-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-smiling-girl-standing-by-the-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/portrait-of-smiling-girl-standing-by-the-sea-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You need to have time for yourself in which you&#8217;re going to relax and forget about the rest of the world because no one is more important than you now\u2014especially in this time when <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/stacey-becker\/2016\/08\/this-is-how-youll-get-back-on-your-feet-again\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">necesitas volver a ponerte en pie<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La mejor venganza es curarse.<\/strong> When you show him that the wounds he inflicted are healing or already healed, then there&#8217;s nothing more that will bother him.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9l quer\u00eda romperte y t\u00fa le mostraste c\u00f3mo es un alma m\u00e1s pura y lo importante que es para ti sanar adecuadamente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>La mejor venganza es seguir adelante.<\/strong> Seguir adelante y nunca mirar atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Ten en cuenta que era una valiosa lecci\u00f3n que ten\u00eda que ocurrirte para que te volvieras m\u00e1s sabio y para demostrarte que eres mucho m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que nunca antes hab\u00edas pensado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96587 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"La mejor venganza es seguir adelante\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He did this to you. He turned you into an empty shell, with eyes full of tears and a scream in your throat that you&#8217;re not able to let go. He made your thirst for revenge bigger\u2014so big, in fact, that no reasonable conversation could change your mind. You have made your decision. But stop!&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":96574,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17946","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/The-Best-Revenge-Is-To-Move-On.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17946","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17946"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17946\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96574"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17946"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17946"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17946"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}