{"id":18011,"date":"2020-06-24T13:00:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T13:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18011"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:15:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:15:30","slug":"quedate-soltero-hasta-que-conozcas-a-la-persona-que-te-haga-reir-tanto-que-te-duela-el-estomago","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/quedate-soltero-hasta-que-conozcas-a-la-persona-que-te-haga-reir-tanto-que-te-duela-el-estomago\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9date soltero hasta que conozcas a la persona que te haga re\u00edr tanto que te duela el est\u00f3mago"},"content":{"rendered":"

De alguna manera, a lo largo del camino de crecimiento, aprendimos que se ha convertido en algo normal llorar en nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Nos hemos dado cuenta de que realmente somos incapaces de resistirnos, porque nos hacen da\u00f1o, aunque sea un poco de vez en cuando. Nos quedamos solos con nuestros pensamientos y lloramos.<\/p>\n

Hemos llorado hasta quedarnos dormidos demasiadas veces porque olvidamos que necesitamos estar en una relaci\u00f3n por la felicidad que aporta, no por el dolor y la miseria. Me di cuenta en el momento justo, porque la persona adecuada<\/a> entr\u00f3 en mi vida.<\/p>\n

La primera vez que le vi, me hizo sonre\u00edr sin ning\u00fan motivo en particular. S\u00f3lo su mirada me hac\u00eda feliz.<\/p>\n

But it’s not because he was so handsome or that he was funny looking\u2014no. He was just a spark of sunlight that came into my life that day without any announcement.<\/p>\n

When we would go out in a group, he wouldn’t talk too much, so I thought that he was very serious.<\/p>\n

\"jovenes<\/p>\n

En aquella \u00e9poca estudiaba en la universidad y tambi\u00e9n trabajaba; era ambicioso. As\u00ed que nunca pens\u00e9 que me har\u00eda llorar de alegr\u00eda tantas veces.<\/p>\n

But I was wrong, because he was fun and he wasn’t serious about life at all. All he wanted was to be happy.<\/p>\n

Habl\u00e1bamos de nuestras infancias y de temas profundos que nunca hab\u00eda tratado con nadie m\u00e1s, pero aunque las cosas de las que habl\u00e1bamos eran a veces tristes, \u00e9l se deten\u00eda un momento y me dec\u00eda que nos hab\u00edamos encontrado el uno al otro y era entonces cuando me hac\u00eda sonre\u00edr.<\/p>\n

Durante toda la relaci\u00f3n, siempre hac\u00eda escenas que me hac\u00edan doler el est\u00f3mago de la risa. Contaba chistes y llegaba a mi puerta vestido de forma rid\u00edcula.<\/p>\n

It’s not that he had nothing better to do but he wanted to make my day better by making me laugh.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que los dos fu\u00e9ramos completamente felices y a\u00fan hoy vive seg\u00fan esa filosof\u00eda.<\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s when I realized that we settle for giggles and cute nicknames and we forget about passionate laughing and the way it feels when our partner makes our stomach hurt with laughter.<\/p>\n

Nos conformamos con las l\u00e1grimas y el miedo, nos conformamos con menos <\/a>incluso cuando podr\u00edamos estar con alguien que nos hace felices y nos hace sentir queridos y apreciados.<\/p>\n

To every woman out there, I say: find yourself a man who makes you laugh, because he’s the one who will always make you a priority, because he will do his best to make you happy.<\/b><\/p>\n

Siempre echamos la culpa a los dem\u00e1s, pero a quien debemos culpar es a nosotros mismos. Somos nosotros los que dejamos que esas personas negativas, t\u00f3xicas y manipuladoras entren en nuestra vida.<\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

We are the ones who allow these things to happen because we think that falling for someone who loves to make us laugh is way too easy. But it’s become lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil.<\/a><\/p>\n

Cuando un hombre pone tu felicidad como prioridad, significa que tu felicidad, en un momento dado, se convirti\u00f3 en la suya. <\/b><\/p>\n

Significa que no hay nada m\u00e1s importante en su vida que no verte derramar l\u00e1grimas en tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even if you do feel sad, he’ll be there for you, he’ll understand you and cheer you up.<\/b><\/p>\n

A man who makes you laugh, a man who makes you happy, is a man every woman needs in her life. To make sure she knows what a real man looks like, because it’s more than muscles and a cold heart.<\/p>\n

\"Qu\u00e9date<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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