{"id":18015,"date":"2020-08-24T13:17:13","date_gmt":"2020-08-24T13:17:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18015"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:06:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:06:05","slug":"una-carta-a-la-chica-que-siempre-acaba-como-segunda-opcion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-siempre-acaba-como-segunda-opcion\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la chica que siempre acaba siendo la segunda opci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hola preciosa,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know that you don\u2019t like being here right now but your good heart brought you here. You were always the one who couldn\u2019t say \u2018no\u2019 to people and if you did tell them that, you didn\u2019t feel good. You would feel guilty for not helping them.<\/p>\n

Pero d\u00e9jame preguntarte algo: \u00bfte han ayudado alguna vez? <\/i><\/b> \u00bfAlguna vez han estado ah\u00ed para ti mientras tu mundo se desmoronaba <\/a> ?<\/p>\n

I guess they haven\u2019t because every memory of that brings tears to your eyes. And you know what the worst part is?<\/p>\n

Eres un ser humano incre\u00edble, con una hermosa personalidad y un coraz\u00f3n limpio y puro, dispuesto a ayudar a todo el mundo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And you know that you deserve to be someone\u2019s priority but the thing is that you never are. You don\u2019t know what to do or how to act anymore to get the respect you crave so much.<\/p>\n

Porque intentes lo que intentes, siempre acabas siendo una segunda opci\u00f3n, una chica a la que los dem\u00e1s llaman s\u00f3lo cuando les conviene.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

And the bad thing about that is that even he didn\u2019t treat you differently.<\/i><\/b> He was a man who kept you close just because it was convenient for him. Just think about it\u2014did he call you yours that night when he slept with you?<\/p>\n

Did he show you to the world because you wanted that? I know that he didn\u2019t and I also know that it te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n. <\/a><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que fing\u00edas estar bien, pero todo tu mundo se desmoronaba. Te mor\u00edas por dentro, pregunt\u00e1ndote por qu\u00e9 siempre te ten\u00edan que pasar cosas as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know what you did to deserve treatment like that.<\/i><\/b> Bueno, te lo dir\u00e9. Fuiste demasiado buena con \u00e9l y \u00e9l s\u00f3lo fue un imb\u00e9cil que se aprovech\u00f3 de eso.<\/p>\n

Nunca te llamaba su novia pero siempre quer\u00eda beneficios de novio. Siempre te llamaba cuando el resto de sus amigos ten\u00edan cosas mejores que hacer que salir con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Siempre fuiste su <\/i><\/b>segunda opci\u00f3n<\/i><\/b><\/a>una chica que siempre estar\u00eda ah\u00ed para hacerle sentir bien, para subirle el ego y decirle que era perfecto.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But you never got words like that from him. He always said that you were lucky for him being with you and that you should be thankful for that. And you agreed, thinking that you couldn\u2019t find a better man.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Todas tus esperanzas se hundieron con sus fr\u00edas palabras que te cortaron como la espada m\u00e1s afilada.<\/i><\/b> Te estaba haciendo da\u00f1o, pero t\u00fa estabas tranquilo y eras paciente.<\/p>\n

Pensaste que tal vez cambiar\u00eda poco a poco. Pero nunca lo hizo. Conoc\u00eda una buena manera de enga\u00f1ar a una chica que estaba locamente enamorada de \u00e9l y aprovech\u00f3 esa oportunidad. Y t\u00fa te dejaste dominar por \u00e9l gracias a tu coraz\u00f3n blando y puro.<\/p>\n

Fuiste muy buena con \u00e9l pero mala contigo misma.<\/i><\/b> Cre\u00edas en todo lo que dec\u00eda, cre\u00edas en cada mentira que sal\u00eda de su boca.<\/p>\n

Y ese fue tu primer error. El d\u00eda que dejaste que te manipulara, le diste el control de tu vida. L\u00e1stima que fuera un mal hombre que se aprovech\u00f3 de eso y te llev\u00f3 en la direcci\u00f3n equivocada.<\/p>\n

En lugar de traer amor, felicidad y armon\u00eda a tu vida, trajo l\u00e1grimas, agon\u00eda y sufrimiento.<\/p>\n

And he didn\u2019t feel any remorse for doing that to you.<\/i><\/b> Te hizo todas esas cosas desagradables porque sab\u00eda que t\u00fa didn\u2019t give a damn <\/a> sobre tu vida.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda que ten\u00edas baja autoestima y que obedecer\u00edas todo lo que te dijera. Y eso es lo que has hecho todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n

\"fuera<\/p>\n

You put up with him and his actions and you were convincing yourself that it was all love and that other couples had the same problems as you. But you know what? Love isn\u2019t supposed to hurt but it\u2019s meant to heal.<\/p>\n

And in your case it brought you to the edge, to the place where you didn\u2019t have a chance to save yourself<\/i><\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

And you were pushed into a chasm you couldn\u2019t escape from. And he didn\u2019t even give you his hand to help you out but he was smiling seeing you down, crawling and looking for an escape.<\/p>\n

Era un bastardo enfermo que s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda verte caer, verte sufrir, s\u00f3lo para sentirse mejor.<\/p>\n

You expected that he would feel sorry for you but he didn\u2019t.<\/i><\/b> Nunca lo hizo. As\u00ed que ahora que has tocado fondo con \u00e9l, es hora de seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

It is finally time to put yourself first because you are a beautiful human being with a kick-ass personality but you just need to say \u2018no\u2019 to some people. Don\u2019t ever say \u2018yes\u2019 to someone if that will mean saying \u2018no\u2019 to yourself.<\/p>\n

Resp\u00e9tate a ti mismo<\/i><\/b><\/a> para que otros te sigan.<\/i><\/b> Tienes que demostrar al mundo que realmente te importa tu vida y que vas a defender lo que quieres.<\/p>\n

Lo mismo debes hacer con las relaciones amorosas. Un hombre que entra en tu vida tiene que demostrarte que es digno de ti y entonces podr\u00e9is desarrollar algo serio.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t ever give your heart to someone just to avoid being alone. <\/i><\/b> Let love come to you at its own pace and don\u2019t push or hurry anything.<\/p>\n

Simplemente disfruta del momento, disfruta de las peque\u00f1as cosas y nunca te dejes entristecer por culpa de un imb\u00e9cil que s\u00f3lo quiere aprovecharse de ti.<\/p>\n

Porque te mereces m\u00e1s que eso. Mereces ser feliz, que te quieran y te cuiden. Te mereces un hombre que te ponga una sonrisa en la cara, dici\u00e9ndote que es muy afortunado de tenerte en su vida.<\/p>\n

You see, you don\u2019t deserve someone who comes back. You deserve someone who never walks away.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Te mereces un hombre que te d\u00e9 todo su amor y sea feliz porque se lo est\u00e1 dando a la mejor mujer que ha conocido.<\/p>\n

Cari\u00f1o, \u00a1te mereces a alguien que te haga nada menos que una PRIORIDAD!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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Hey gorgeous, I know that you don\u2019t like being here right now but your good heart brought you here. You were always the one who couldn\u2019t say \u2018no\u2019 to people and if you did tell them that, you didn\u2019t feel good. You would feel guilty for not helping them. But let me ask you something:…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18015","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18015","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18015"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18015\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18015"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18015"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18015"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}