{"id":18020,"date":"2020-05-25T06:43:41","date_gmt":"2020-05-25T06:43:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18020"},"modified":"2022-01-20T16:02:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T16:02:16","slug":"por-favor-dejame-ir-porque-no-me-amas-y-nunca-lo-haras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-favor-dejame-ir-porque-no-me-amas-y-nunca-lo-haras\/","title":{"rendered":"Por Favor D\u00e9jame Ir Porque No Me Amas Y Nunca Lo Har\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Durante a\u00f1os, me ment\u00ed a m\u00ed misma dici\u00e9ndome que me quer\u00edas. Aunque nunca sent\u00ed tu amor y nunca lo vi, me aferr\u00e9 a peque\u00f1as muestras de tu afecto y atenci\u00f3n y las confund\u00ed con amor.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d been mistaking your drunk, late-night phone calls and you coming back to me as love.<\/p>\n<p>Pero despu\u00e9s de mucho tiempo, <strong>Me di cuenta de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/deja-honesto-nunca-realmente-amado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">nunca me quisiste<\/a>. Y fue la realizaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s dolorosa de mi vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fue algo contra lo que luch\u00e9 durante a\u00f1os y tuve que aceptarlo cuando se hizo demasiado evidente.<\/p>\n<p>But even that realization didn\u2019t convince me to walk away from you.<\/p>\n<p>Fui tan tonta como para pensar que podr\u00eda cambiar tus sentimientos hacia m\u00ed, despu\u00e9s de todo este tiempo. Fui tan tonta como para seguir humill\u00e1ndome delante de ti, mientras suplicaba tu atenci\u00f3n y luchaba por tu amor.<\/p>\n<p>And now, after all this time, I know everything was in vain. I know that you can\u2019t make someone love you, no matter how hard you try and that all the love you might be giving to that person serves you for nothing.<\/p>\n<p>And I am not resentful or angry because of that. You couldn\u2019t force yourself into loving me and that is something I am slowly learning to live with.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91830\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees.jpg\" alt=\"vista trasera de hombre y mujer sentados alrededor de \u00e1rboles\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> Pero <strong>what I can\u2019t forgive you for is not walking away from me the moment you realized you didn\u2019t love me the way I loved you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t forgive you for letting me waste years on you, when you knew very well that you could never give me the love and attention I wanted so badly.<\/p>\n<p>Porque si lo hubieras hecho, probablemente me habr\u00eda olvidado de ti hace mucho tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Pero en lugar de eso, decidiste utilizarme durante todos estos a\u00f1os, porque disfrutabas del amor y la atenci\u00f3n que te daba.<\/p>\n<p>Supongo que s\u00f3lo te conven\u00eda y por eso me has tenido pegada a ti todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>And now, it\u2019s about time to put a final stop to this charade and to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifehack.org\/articles\/communication\/8-signs-its-time-end-the-relationship.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">terminar esta relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s time for me to start getting used to living without you, the same way I got used to living without your love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91831\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder.jpg\" alt=\"foto de primer plano de mujer mirando por encima del hombro\" width=\"800\" height=\"544\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-looking-over-shoulder-768x522.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nunca pens\u00e9 que ser\u00eda yo quien dir\u00eda esto, pero... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-lo-ruego-por-favor-vete\/\">por favor, d\u00e9jame ir<\/a>. Por favor, d\u00e9jame en paz y por favor, al\u00e9jate de m\u00ed por \u00faltima vez.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Por favor, deja de darme falsas esperanzas.<\/strong> Because you know all I need is one phone call, one look or one night spent with you to convince myself that not all is lost and that you might care about me in some way. And we both know it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por favor, deja de volver a m\u00ed s\u00f3lo para dejarme otra vez,<\/strong> cuando sabes muy bien que te tendr\u00e9 de vuelta cada vez que lo hagas. Deja de reaparecer en mi vida cada vez que atraviesas una fase dif\u00edcil en la tuya.<\/p>\n<p>Deja de pedirme mi hombro para llorar cada vez que los dem\u00e1s te abandonan. Deja de contar conmigo para que te cubra las espaldas cuando los dem\u00e1s te traicionan. Deja de buscar mi mano cada vez que necesites orientaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por favor, deja de enga\u00f1arme.<\/strong> Deja de darme la cantidad justa de tu afecto y atenci\u00f3n y la cantidad justa de ti mismo s\u00f3lo para mantenerme cerca.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por favor, deja de usarme s\u00f3lo porque soy bueno para tu ego.<\/strong> I know you enjoy having someone to love you the way I love you. I know you enjoy all the attention I\u2019ve been giving you for years.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91832\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-front-of-each-other-outside.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer de pie uno frente al otro en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-front-of-each-other-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-front-of-each-other-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/man-and-woman-standing-in-front-of-each-other-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But let\u2019s face it\u2014those are all matters of your ego and you\u2019ve been <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-de-que-esta-usando-el-ego\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">us\u00e1ndome como una inyecci\u00f3n de ego<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por favor, deja de convencerme de que me quieres<\/strong> every time I try to walk away, when we both know that you don\u2019t. You never loved me and you never will.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca apreciaste nada de lo que hac\u00eda por ti, siempre me dabas por sentado, nunca me respetaste y nunca me diste prioridad.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre fuiste un narcisista egoc\u00e9ntrico y nunca te ocupaste de m\u00ed ni de mis necesidades. Y as\u00ed es como tratas a la mujer que amas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por favor, s\u00e9 un hombre mejor de lo que nunca fuiste<\/strong> y se aleje de m\u00ed para siempre, porque eso es algo que nunca podr\u00e9 hacer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por favor, dame la oportunidad de encontrar mi propia felicidad,<\/strong> because I could never be happy while you are around. I think we can both agree it\u2019s the least I deserve.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-91828 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Please-Let-Me-Go-Because-You-Dont-Love-Me-And-You-Never-Will-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Por Favor D\u00e9jame Ir Porque No Me Amas Y Nunca Lo Har\u00e1s\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Please-Let-Me-Go-Because-You-Dont-Love-Me-And-You-Never-Will-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Please-Let-Me-Go-Because-You-Dont-Love-Me-And-You-Never-Will-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Please-Let-Me-Go-Because-You-Dont-Love-Me-And-You-Never-Will-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Please-Let-Me-Go-Because-You-Dont-Love-Me-And-You-Never-Will-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Please-Let-Me-Go-Because-You-Dont-Love-Me-And-You-Never-Will-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Please-Let-Me-Go-Because-You-Dont-Love-Me-And-You-Never-Will-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years, I lied to myself that you loved me. Even though I never felt your love and I never saw it, I held on to small tokens of your affection and attention and mistook it for love. I\u2019d been mistaking your drunk, late-night phone calls and you coming back to me as love. But&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":91829,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Please-Let-Me-Go-Because-You-Dont-Love-Me-And-You-Never-Will-1.jpg",800,545,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18020"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18020\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}