{"id":18024,"date":"2020-07-25T06:48:47","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T06:48:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18024"},"modified":"2022-01-21T12:45:55","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T12:45:55","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-se-siente-al-intentar-seguir-adelante-sin-un-cierre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-se-siente-al-intentar-seguir-adelante-sin-un-cierre\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que se siente al intentar seguir adelante sin un cierre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de toda ruptura es seguir adelante con tu vida.<\/p>\n

You shared everything with this one person for a certain amount of time and he wasn\u2019t just your romantic partner\u2014in time, he had become your friend and family.<\/p>\n

Y ahora, de repente, ese hombre desaparece. Y mientras \u00e9l sigue viviendo su vida, t\u00fa te quedas sola, intentando recoger los pedazos rotos de ti misma.<\/p>\n

Of course you miss him but what is even harder is to try to continue living your life as if nothing had happened. You don\u2019t know where or how to begin because this man was everything to you.<\/p>\n

You see yourself standing in one spot and you feel lost because you simply don\u2019t know what to do without him in your life.<\/p>\n

Intentas por todos los medios olvidarte de \u00e9l y de todos los recuerdos que compartisteis, pero suele ser todo menos f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t believe the person you planned your future with has left you hanging like this and you can\u2019t imagine yourself ever being with another man.<\/p>\n

Pero seguir adelante<\/a> es especialmente dif\u00edcil cuando no tienes cierre<\/a>. Cada historia tiene su principio y su curso y es natural que anheles que tambi\u00e9n tenga un final.<\/p>\n

Mientras estabas con este chico, esperabas tener un final feliz con \u00e9l, pero ahora te das cuenta de que eso nunca suceder\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Incluso darse cuenta de que todo ha terminado entre los dos es un reto y bastante duro. Es un proceso que requiere mucho esfuerzo, tiempo y energ\u00eda.<\/p>\n

But somehow, with a lot of pain, you grew to accept this. You kept telling yourself that this man is a part of your past and that he isn\u2019t coming back and with time, you got used to this idea.<\/p>\n

But what you can\u2019t seem to accept is that he never gave you closure.<\/strong> Te dej\u00f3 sin decir una palabra o nunca te dio una explicaci\u00f3n de su marcha.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

De cualquier manera, sientes como si te lo hubieran arrancado, como si te lo hubieran robado y como si se te hubiera escapado de las manos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And now you are left alone thinking about all the things that happened and all the things that could have happened if he\u2019d stayed.<\/p>\n

And those \u2018what ifs\u2019 are killing you the most. You simply don\u2019t know what happened and you are trying to put your relationship puzzle together.<\/p>\n

But you are missing some crucial pieces\u2014you are missing his side of the story.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know why he left you and what went wrong all of a sudden and you can\u2019t accept the fact that these are the things you\u2019ll never find out about.<\/p>\n

You keep wondering if there was something you could\u2019ve done to make him stay or at least to give you an explanation.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No dejas de cuestionarte todo lo que pas\u00f3 entre vosotros. Rebobinas cada peque\u00f1a situaci\u00f3n de vuestra relaci\u00f3n en tu cabeza, intentando encontrar una explicaci\u00f3n para que te dejara.<\/p>\n

No dejas de preguntarte si hiciste algo que lo ahuyent\u00f3<\/a> y a veces incluso te culpas por todo lo malo que ha pasado en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Pero las respuestas que busca con tanta pasi\u00f3n no se encuentran en ninguna parte. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Te sientes atrapado en el pasado y atrapado en tu propia cabeza, pensando en diferentes escenarios de lo que pas\u00f3 y c\u00f3mo las cosas podr\u00edan haber salido de otra manera.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lo peor es que nunca tuviste la oportunidad de decirle c\u00f3mo te sent\u00edas. There are so many things you would like to say to this man and even more questions you\u2019d like to ask him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero sabes que no se merece nada de ti. No dejas de preguntarte c\u00f3mo ha podido dejarte as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Y, naturalmente, sientes resentimiento. Te quedas con toneladas de rencor. Cuestionas toda tu relaci\u00f3n y te preguntas si este chico alguna vez te quiso si pudo dejarte as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Gradually, you feel like you are going crazy, looking for answers you\u2019ll never get.<\/p>\n

Sientes que podr\u00edas seguir adelante con tu vida en el momento en que escuchas su versi\u00f3n de la historia, en el momento en que juntas todas las piezas.<\/p>\n

No estoy aqu\u00ed para darle falsas esperanzas. La cruda realidad es que es poco probable que obtengas respuestas. Es probable que nunca consigas el cierre que tanto deseas.<\/p>\n

But that is something you have to accept and something you have to live with, the same way you\u2019ve accepted the fact that this man is not in your life. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Y eso es algo de lo que nunca debes culparte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He was the one who left and he was the one whose duty it was to give you the closure you needed. But he didn\u2019t do that and he will probably never do it.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si quieres encuentra tu paz interior<\/a>, you have to try very hard to forgive this guy for everything he did and especially for everything he didn\u2019t do. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Tienes que aceptar las disculpas que nunca recibiste y tienes que intentar dejarlo en el pasado, donde pertenece.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y sobre todo, tienes que dejar de cuestionarte sobre tu relaci\u00f3n y sobre su final.<\/p>\n

Las cosas fueron como fueron y eso es lo \u00fanico que necesitas saber.<\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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