{"id":18032,"date":"2020-04-30T08:40:49","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T08:40:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18032"},"modified":"2022-02-17T17:17:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-17T17:17:13","slug":"le-atraigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le-atraigo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfLe atraigo o s\u00f3lo es simp\u00e1tico? 12 maneras de saber si le interesas"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSe siente atra\u00eddo por m\u00ed o s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 siendo amable?<\/p>\n

I bet this is a question that popped into your mind at least once when you liked a guy but you hit a dead-end street because you didn\u2019t know how to react or what to do.<\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s just hard to decide whether a chico le gustas<\/a> o si s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 siendo amable contigo.<\/p>\n

The signals he is sending are so confusing because they are easy to interpret wrongly. You just can\u2019t seem to decide what he\u2019s actually thinking.<\/p>\n

Lucky for you there’s one way to always know what he’s thinking. Girls usually don’t know anything about this, but if you uncover Su obsesi\u00f3n secreta<\/a>, he’ll be 100% yours.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

To set you free of that eternal struggle of whether he likes you or not, I\u2019m going to try to solve this once and for all.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, deje de hacerse la pregunta de si se siente atra\u00eddo por ti<\/a> o simplemente ser amable y leer las se\u00f1ales reales sin ser parcial o desear que las se\u00f1ales trabajen a tu favor.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

But before we start with actual signs that he\u2019s interested and not only being nice, read the heartbreaking signs that he really doesn\u2019t want to have anything to do with you and he is just being polite, trying to let you know in a nice way that he\u2019s not interested<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pero no te preocupes, PUEDES conseguir al hombre que quieras con Su obsesi\u00f3n secreta<\/a> – a guide that helps you win him over even if he wasn’t initially interested in you.<\/p>\n

Se\u00f1ales de que no se siente atra\u00eddo por ti<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

1. He doesn\u2019t want to hang out with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Ves que evita pasar tiempo contigo.<\/p>\n

He probably doesn\u2019t want to blow you off so obviously, so he is trying to let you know that he is not interested in a more subtle way.<\/p>\n

Even when you are alone together, it doesn\u2019t feel comfortable, as his body language is telling you that he doesn\u2019t look at you in that way.<\/p>\n

2. He is not so interested in what you\u2019ve got to say<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A guy who likes you won\u2019t allow himself not to notice anything that you say.<\/p>\n

Te escuchar\u00e1 y te prestar\u00e1 atenci\u00f3n porque, si le gustas, har\u00eda cualquier cosa por recordar tus intereses y las historias que cuentas.<\/p>\n

If he likes you, he will genuinely be interested in what you\u2019ve got to say because you are the one who is interesting.<\/p>\n

3. Menciona a otras mujeres delante de ti<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

A guy who likes you wouldn\u2019t talk about other women or comment on them in your presence.<\/p>\n

He is probably just trying to let you know that he is not attracted to you but is actually just being nice because he maybe likes you but only as a friend, or he is just an ass and doesn\u2019t care about your feelings or isn\u2019t even aware of the fact that you like him.<\/p>\n

4. Te oculta a sus amigos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

This is the number one sign that he doesn\u2019t care for you in that way.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just a casual, random person to him and since he doesn\u2019t see you in his life for the long haul, he won\u2019t go to the trouble of letting you meet his friends. This should be a red flag sign that he is not attracted to you in the way you want him to be. <\/p>\n

5. Su lenguaje corporal lo dice todo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando le gustas a un chico<\/a>, he doesn\u2019t have to say it\u2014his body speaks for him.<\/p>\n

El lenguaje corporal puede delatar todos los secretos que guarda una persona, as\u00ed que si realmente le gustas su cuerpo lo demostrar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re hanging out he\u2019ll constantly seek an opportunity to get close to you or \u2018accidentally\u2019 touch you.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll try to keep eye contact with you for as long as possible.<\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t see any of these things, and if you see that he is pulling away from you instead of getting closer to you or avoiding eye contact, then you can be sure that nothing is going to happen between the two of you.<\/p>\n

6. Te trata igual que a los dem\u00e1s<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not on a special pedestal because, sadly, you\u2019re not special to him.<\/p>\n

No est\u00e1 enamorado de ti y se comporta contigo como se comporta con todo el mundo.<\/p>\n

Si realmente le gustaras, te tratar\u00eda de otra manera, intentar\u00eda llamar tu atenci\u00f3n por todos los medios posibles.<\/p>\n

So, there you are, the sure-fire signs that he has no interest in you other than just a friendly one, which is not so bad I guess, but if you want something more and he is in it only for the friendship, you should either break contact with him if it\u2019s too painful, or try to deal with the situation that there is not going to be any kind of romantic relationship between the two of you.<\/p>\n

Now that we\u2019re clear on how guys act when they are not attracted to anyone, let\u2019s solve the often-asked question\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe siente atra\u00eddo por m\u00ed o s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 siendo amable?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ten en cuenta que no muchos chicos se armar\u00e1n de valor para acercarse a ti y decirte directamente que les gustas y que quieren estar contigo. No todos son tan valientes. Pero lo m\u00e1s probable es que te den pistas con su comportamiento.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 hacen eso los t\u00edos?<\/em><\/p>\n

Bueno, en primer lugar, todos sufrimos la miedo al rechazo<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Is there anything worse than getting rejected, or hearing or realizing that someone doesn\u2019t like you and doesn\u2019t want to be with you?<\/p>\n

Eso duele y todos queremos evitarlo, pero nos pasa a todos.<\/p>\n

So, it\u2019s no wonder that it\u2019s so easy to mix up when he\u2019s really attracted to you or is just being nice, or he’s scared of how much he likes you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You have to keep track of all the subtle signs because as I\u2019ve already said, they\u2019re not going to say it right to your face. So, here we go\u2026<\/p>\n

Se\u00f1ales de que se siente atra\u00eddo por ti<\/a> y no s\u00f3lo ser amable<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

1. Quiere saberlo todo sobre ti<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Es un tipo que sue\u00f1a contigo por las noches, es un tipo que venera el suelo que pisas.<\/p>\n

Quiere conocer cada detalle de tu vida y cada inter\u00e9s que tengas.<\/p>\n

Vale, esto puede sonar un poco espeluznante y acosador, pero lo digo en el sentido de que me encanta.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll ask all kinds of questions, from those random ones to personal ones, not just to keep the conversation alive but because he genuinely wants to know all those things.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, si s\u00f3lo estuviera siendo amable, nunca mostrar\u00eda tanto inter\u00e9s por tu vida.<\/p>\n

Te dedicar\u00eda tiempo de conversaci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo por cortes\u00eda y no porque te desee y la diferencia entre ambas cosas es enorme.<\/p>\n

2. Sus pupilas se dilatan<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t beat science. It is proven that our brain works in a way that our pupils dilate when we see something we like.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, la pr\u00f3xima vez que sorprendas a un chico que te gusta mir\u00e1ndote, presta atenci\u00f3n a sus pupilas.<\/p>\n

Si son m\u00e1s grandes de lo normal, entonces definitivamente le gustas y est\u00e1 siendo amable porque... le gustas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

3. Presta atenci\u00f3n a su aspecto<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Har\u00e1 lo que sea para que te fijes en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised if he develops a sense of fashion all of a sudden, or gets a new haircut or does something with his facial hair.<\/p>\n

Si le gustas, har\u00e1 todo lo posible para resultarte atractivo.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if a guy doesn\u2019t have any romantic interest in you, he would never go to that kind of trouble to impress you. He will hang out with you in his old t-shirt or the clothes he wears around the house.<\/p>\n

Si lo hace, puedes estar segura de que probablemente s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 siendo amable contigo porque le gustas s\u00f3lo como amiga.<\/p>\n

4. Te mira fijamente<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

Maybe even longer than he should but look at it this way\u2014he is in love, he can\u2019t help it.<\/p>\n

Hay un dato interesante sobre el contacto visual: dicen que cuando a un chico le gusta una chica, la mirar\u00e1 cada vez que pueda, y si ella le descubre mir\u00e1ndola fijamente, mantendr\u00e1 sus ojos fijos en los de ella para hacerle saber que est\u00e1 interesado en ella.<\/p>\n

Tampoco se excluyen una o dos sonrisas.<\/p>\n

But there is another side to the coin and it\u2019s an ugly one.<\/p>\n

If he is not attracted to you, you\u2019ll probably see it right away.<\/p>\n

It can happen that he looks at you by accident, but if he does, his eye contact won\u2019t last and he will look away almost immediately.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t confuse the two and you\u2019ll know whether he is attracted to you or is just being nice.<\/p>\n

5. Prestar\u00e1 atenci\u00f3n a cada palabra que digas<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll listen and not just to be polite but because he really wants to.<\/p>\n

He is really interested in the things you\u2019re saying and he can’t get enough.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you can talk for hours without getting sick of each other. He will listen to even the most boring stories with the smallest details.<\/p>\n

And the thing is, he\u2019ll let you know he\u2019s listening and he\u2019ll ask you questions. You\u2019ll see that he\u2019s enjoying it.<\/p>\n

Guys who are only being nice and polite will also listen to you, because they don\u2019t want to be rude, but they won\u2019t remember a thing you\u2019ve said, simply because they don\u2019t care enough about you to remember anything.<\/p>\n

6. Te defender\u00e1<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si ve u oye que alguien habla mal de ti, levantar\u00e1 la voz y te defender\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Te defender\u00e1 est\u00e9s o no est\u00e9s. Un hombre que se siente atra\u00eddo por ti nunca dejar\u00e1 que nadie te haga da\u00f1o de ninguna manera.<\/p>\n

Even if it\u2019s someone who is dear to him, he will take your side.<\/p>\n

But when a man is only being nice to you without any attraction, he won\u2019t meddle that much in things that don\u2019t concern him.<\/p>\n

Either he will keep quiet and walk away, or he\u2019ll just say a word or two in your defense out of politeness, but without any real effect.<\/p>\n

7. Se pondr\u00e1 un poco celoso<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that sick, possessive kind of jealousy, it\u2019s that sweet \u2018I like you\u2019 kind of jealousy<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He is attracted to you and he doesn\u2019t want to lose you to another man.<\/p>\n

Especially if he hasn\u2019t let you know he likes you and is waiting for the perfect moment to do something about it. You can be one hundred percent positive that he is attracted to you if he is jealous.<\/p>\n

En cambio, un hombre que s\u00f3lo te ve como una amiga no se pondr\u00e1 celoso porque no tiene motivos para ello.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t care if you\u2019re talking to another man or even flirting because he is not interested in you in that way. He is only being nice to you and nothing more.<\/p>\n

8. Quiere que formes parte de su vida<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"alegre<\/p>\n

You will know a lot about him. He\u2019ll tell you his secrets and he\u2019ll confide in you because he trusts you completely.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be a part of his life and you\u2019ll get to know his family and he\u2019ll introduce you to his friends because his intention is to keep you in his life for a bit longer.<\/p>\n

Toda su vida girar\u00e1 en torno a ti y not even a day will pass when you don\u2019t talk<\/a> o enviarse mensajes de texto. Quiere conservarte y comunicarse contigo todo el tiempo que pueda.<\/p>\n

Alguien que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 siendo amable tendr\u00e1 su propia vida aparte de ti.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t introduce you to his family or call you to hang out with his friends.<\/p>\n

Even when you talk or text, it won\u2019t be personal and you won\u2019t know that much about him and his life, except for the ordinary things that everyone knows.<\/p>\n

9. Imaginar\u00e1 su futuro contigo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

He will do anything in his power to ensure that you\u2019re going to be together and hang out in the future.<\/p>\n

Al principio ser\u00e1n planes a corto plazo, como cenas e ir al cine, pero m\u00e1s adelante ser\u00e1n viajes, conciertos, etc.<\/p>\n

This is him giving you subtle signs that he\u2019s attracted to you and wants to have a future with you.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not attracted to you, he won\u2019t make any plans with you.<\/p>\n

He can call you to go to the movies or elsewhere, but usually he calls an hour or two earlier. Maybe his plans fell through and he hasn\u2019t got anyone to go with where he wanted to go, so he called you.<\/p>\n

Pero los planes a largo plazo est\u00e1n descartados porque no le atraes de esa manera.<\/p>\n

10. Actuar\u00e1 de forma diferente contigo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019ll even be nervous because it\u2019s a lot of pressure.<\/p>\n

Le gustas y se esforzar\u00e1 mucho para impresionarte<\/a>. La mejor manera de comprobarlo es ver c\u00f3mo se comporta con las personas a las que quiere.<\/p>\n

If you see he\u2019s acting differently around you, a bit nervous or clumsy or trying too hard, then you can be positive that he has feelings for you.<\/p>\n

A guy who is just being nice will treat you like he treats everyone else around him. He won\u2019t be clumsy or nervous, he\u2019ll just be himself, as he always is.<\/p>\n

11. Har\u00e1 cualquier cosa con tal de verte feliz<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Your happiness means the world to him. That\u2019s why men who are in love do things they wouldn\u2019t normally do, just to see the person next to them smile. Nothing will be hard for him to do.<\/p>\n

Incluso estar\u00e1 dispuesto a cambiar sus h\u00e1bitos para hacerte feliz. Ir\u00e1 en contra de su voluntad si eso te hace sonre\u00edr.<\/p>\n

Of course, he won\u2019t be a complete sucker and let you manipulate him but as long as it\u2019s reasonable, he will do it.<\/p>\n

A guy who is not interested in you won\u2019t give you such pleasure.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t care about your wishes and the things that make you happy because for him your smile is no different from anybody else\u2019s.<\/p>\n

12. Te apoyar\u00e1<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Literalmente en todo lo que hagas. Ser\u00e1 el tipo que te dir\u00e1 que puedes hacer cualquier cosa que desees.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l ser\u00e1 la voz que te impedir\u00e1 renunciar a tus sue\u00f1os. \u00c9l ser\u00e1 quien te apoye cuando dudes de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Aunque te derrumbes, \u00e9l estar\u00e1 a tu lado para ayudarte a recoger los pedazos rotos de tu coraz\u00f3n y de tu esp\u00edritu. \u00c9l los volver\u00e1 a unir y te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s fuerte que nunca.<\/p>\n

Har\u00e1 todas estas cosas porque le importas y le gustas m\u00e1s que nada.<\/p>\n

Someone who is not attracted to you wouldn\u2019t go to all that trouble. He likes you but not enough and not in that way.<\/p>\n

He will be there for you as a friend but when you come home at night you\u2019re going to be alone.<\/p>\n

Un hombre que se siente atra\u00eddo por ti y no se limita a ser amable es un hombre que estar\u00e1 a tu lado y nunca te perder\u00e1 de vista.<\/p>\n

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Is he attracted to me or just being nice? I bet this is a question that popped into your mind at least once when you liked a guy but you hit a dead-end street because you didn\u2019t know how to react or what to do. Sometimes it\u2019s just hard to decide whether a guy likes…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":68029,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18032","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Is-He-Attracted-To-Me-Or-Just-Being-Nice-12-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-Interested.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18032","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18032"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18032\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/68029"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18032"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18032"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18032"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}