{"id":18035,"date":"2020-07-11T09:12:16","date_gmt":"2020-07-11T09:12:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18035"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:45:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:45:36","slug":"8-senales-sutiles-de-manipulacion-en-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-sutiles-de-manipulacion-en-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s comunes de manipulaci\u00f3n en una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

La manipulaci\u00f3n en las relaciones es un hecho muy com\u00fan que la mayor\u00eda de los maestros manipuladores <\/a> gracias a su astucia y su sutil poder de persuasi\u00f3n.
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\u00bfSe ha preguntado alguna vez si le ha ocurrido esto sin ser consciente de ello? <\/i>
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It usually starts with little things. One day, you wake up and you realize that you\u2019ve been doing things lately that you normally wouldn\u2019t do but you aren\u2019t too alarmed about it yet so you just brush it off. <\/p>\n

You don\u2019t give it too much thought and you just go about your day. Then you start sensing that your partner has been starting to twist and turn your words and use them against you.<\/p>\n

You feel violated and completely taken aback because he\u2019s so sneaky when doing it. <\/p>\n

Master manipulators have a way of doing things that makes everything seem like it\u2019s totally your fault.<\/p>\n

Hacen que empieces a sentirte completamente loco y que cuestiones tu propio juicio. <\/p>\n

Sientes que todo lo que haces y dices empieza a morderte en el culo porque siempre hace que parezca que tienes mala intenci\u00f3n, cuando en realidad es \u00e9l quien vuelve todo lo que dices y haces en tu contra.
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You start feeling powerless and like you\u2019re no longer in control of what you do or say and it feels like a bottomless hole you can\u2019t get away from. <\/i>
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Manipulation in relationships is usually evident in a partner who seems to be in your head at all times and before you\u2019re even aware, he makes all your decisions for you.<\/p>\n

But he is so sly at doing it that you don\u2019t even realize it until it\u2019s too late! <\/p>\n

Algunos manipuladores son tan buenos que casi no se les puede pillar in fraganti, pero si crees que esto te puede estar ocurriendo a ti, permanece atento, ya que he recopilado una lista de los signos m\u00e1s comunes de manipulaci\u00f3n en las relaciones que te ayudar\u00e1n a llegar al fondo del asunto. <\/p>\n

Si reconoces estas se\u00f1ales y puedes admitir que se est\u00e1n aprovechando de ti mediante la manipulaci\u00f3n, puedes entrenarte para luchar <\/a> \u00a1y detener esto de una vez por todas!
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Acoso escolar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

At first, it seems like he’s joking around but when you think about it, he’s not laughing with you, he’s actually laughing at you. <\/p>\n

The tone that he speaks with and that look in his eyes tell you that he isn’t joking. By bullying, he wants to make sure that you are ‘obedient’ and that he has the upper hand.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even realize it but his jokes are a huge bandera roja <\/a> because he’s actually manipulating you into thinking that you are less worthy or that you suck at something. <\/p>\n

Why? Well, when the person you love repeats these things every day, it simply starts to become natural, like it’s always been this way. <\/p>\n

You can’t say no<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You simply aren’t able to say no. It doesn’t matter how many times you try to, just the thought of turning down a request from your partner scares you. <\/p>\n

Saying ‘no’ just feels like a crazy idea.<\/p>\n

You feel weak and helpless every time you try to disobey him, even though you aren’t really sure why it is like that.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the things he asks of you are impossible for you to do and you know that the right thing would be to say ‘no’ but at the same time, you just can’t seem to get yourself to say it. <\/p>\n

The sneakiest thing about this is that he makes you feel like you\u2019re a bad person if you say no!<\/p>\n

He appears to have good intentions (which is never true) and if you refuse, you\u2019re the one with a problem. <\/p>\n

As\u00ed que siempre acabas diciendo que s\u00ed porque sabe c\u00f3mo manipularte para que hagas lo que \u00e9l quiera sin parecer manipulador ni mand\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Justificas tus actos <\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Not just your own but his too. You try to find a reason for the way you’re both behaving. <\/p>\n

It’s like you’re always trying to find an excuse for doing everything he asks of you.<\/p>\n

You also want to justify his behavior, like he needs something from you and you’re the only one who can give him that. <\/p>\n

Incluso a ti, las explicaciones te parecen horribles pero sigues encontr\u00e1ndolas y justificando tu comportamiento y el suyo. <\/p>\n

Esta es su manera de hacer las cosas. \u00a1Te hace poner excusas por \u00e9l!<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s not right but it feels easier if you try to believe yourself that there might be a good explanation for his behavior, even though there never is.<\/p>\n

If you really loved me\u2026 <\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This one shows how bad your partner really is. If he makes you do things by saying, \u201cIf you loved me, you would do this for me,\u201d then I don’t know why you’re still with him. <\/p>\n

Esta frase significa que equipara tu amor <\/a> con lo que haces por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s habitual es que los hombres utilicen esta frase para el sexo, haci\u00e9ndote creer que el sexo es la \u00fanica y verdadera muestra de amor que existe.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you really loved me\u2026\u201d is kind of obvious but he can also put the same request into different words that have the same meaning. <\/p>\n

Este es uno de los m\u00e1s comunes y peligrosos. Utiliza tus emociones y te hace sentir culpable para que hagas cosas por \u00e9l porque sabe d\u00f3nde golpear donde m\u00e1s duele. <\/p>\n

Una persona que te quiere nunca utilizar\u00eda tu amor como excusa para chantajearte y obligarte a hacer algo.<\/p>\n

Always remember that! This man doesn\u2019t love you, he is only using you for his own satisfaction. <\/p>\n

Te culpas a ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter how many times someone told you that it wasn’t your fault, you can’t stop blaming yourself because in your own mind, you are a bad partner. <\/p>\n

Te sientes mal por tomarte un tiempo para relajarte porque en tu cabeza deber\u00edas estar con tu pareja, haci\u00e9ndole feliz. <\/p>\n

And this is how he gets you. He weasels his way into your head and stays there for as long as you\u2019re not obeying his every subtle order. <\/p>\n

Cuando empieces a culparte por hacer algo fuera de la relaci\u00f3n y tener una vida real fuera de \u00e9l, reconoce que es su forma de jugar contigo. <\/p>\n

You have every right to do whatever you want and hang out with whomever you like and when you feel like a bad person for that, know that\u2019s it\u2019s time to admit to yourself what is happening and confront it head-on. <\/p>\n

Chantaje emocional <\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Dear, emotional blackmail is the worse type of manipulation. It’s disguised as care and love but it’s actually awful. <\/p>\n

Telling someone, \u201cI would die without you,\u201d is like telling them that if they left, you’d go off and kill yourself.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto que te har\u00eda sentir mal, como si fueras responsable si se suicidan. <\/p>\n

But please realize that no one\u2019s well-being is your sole responsibility. Don\u2019t accept responsibility for another person\u2019s shitty, low-blow actions or threats! <\/p>\n

Si quiere hacer algo, lo va a hacer independientemente de ti, as\u00ed que nunca dejes que te haga sentir responsable de su felicidad. Eso es cosa suya. <\/p>\n

Luz de gas <\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La luz de gas es una forma habitual de manipulaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

Suele ser obvio, si se presta atenci\u00f3n y se buscan las se\u00f1ales.<\/p>\n

For example, he says you didn’t say something or that he didn’t say something, or he reinvents the past and makes up new scenarios that make you believe that you have completely lost your mind. <\/p>\n

If he’s been doing it for quite some time now, you’ll feel like you can’t even trust your own mind, so you start trusting him completely. <\/p>\n

Sientes que necesitas a tu pareja a tu lado <\/a> to feel sane, as you\u2019re seemingly losing it when he\u2019s not there.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l es quien te mantiene a raya y s\u00f3lo a su lado te sientes cuerda y normal. <\/p>\n

Necesidad conveniente <\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say you and your partner need to go somewhere but you know he really doesn\u2019t want to come along, so he suddenly starts feeling under the weather and cannot seem to go. <\/p>\n

Or you need him to clean up after himself, as he\u2019s made a complete mess of the house but he suddenly has a throbbing headache and he can\u2019t move from the couch or listen to you yell. <\/p>\n

This is why it\u2019s called convenient neediness. It only happens when the manipulator needs it as his way out of something!<\/p>\n

Este es f\u00e1cil de detectar, as\u00ed que si esto ocurre en tu relaci\u00f3n, recon\u00f3celo y ponle fin.<\/p>\n

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