{"id":18052,"date":"2020-04-26T06:29:10","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T06:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18052"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:40:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:40:38","slug":"aqui-tienes-6-cosas-que-deberias-saber-antes-de-convertirte-en-su-novio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aqui-tienes-6-cosas-que-deberias-saber-antes-de-convertirte-en-su-novio\/","title":{"rendered":"Estas son 6 cosas que deber\u00edas saber antes de convertirte en su novio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Has conocido a una chica. Y supones que es igual que todas las dem\u00e1s que has conocido en tu vida. Pero cr\u00e9eme, est\u00e1s m\u00e1s que equivocado.<\/p>\n<p>Esta chica es \u00fanica en su especie y esto es algo que debes tener en cuenta antes de pensar en convertirte en su novio.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. She\u2019s been through a lot<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Lo primero que tienes que saber antes de pensar en salir con esta chica es que <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/letter-from-the-girl-whos-been-through-lot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">she\u2019s been through a lot<\/a> en su pasado. No te lo digo para asustarte, pero es algo que debes saber antes de iniciar una relaci\u00f3n con ella.<\/p>\n<p>Men in her past betrayed her, hurt her feelings and did everything in their power to cause her pain. She\u2019s been used and taken advantage of more times than she can count.<\/p>\n<p>A esta chica siempre la dieron por sentada y nunca la apreciaron lo suficiente. Le rompieron el coraz\u00f3n m\u00e1s de una vez y eso es algo con lo que tendr\u00e1s que lidiar si quieres ser su novio.<\/p>\n<p>No digo que tengas que pagar por todo lo que estos tipos le hac\u00edan, solo te digo que no seas igual que los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Es insegura<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>All of the things that she\u2019s been through changed the essence of who she is and made her a different person. All of these men made her wonder why she wasn\u2019t enough and tried to convince her that everything that was wrong in their relationship was exclusively her fault.<\/p>\n<p>They made her question all of her values and beliefs and shook her confidence. Instead of boosting her self-esteem, all of these guys manipulated her into thinking she wasn\u2019t worthy enough and fed her insecurities because that made her a better victim for their abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Esto le hizo cuestionarse no s\u00f3lo su val\u00eda, sino tambi\u00e9n las intenciones de todos los que se acercaban a ella. Todo esto le caus\u00f3 grandes problemas de confianza y le hizo pensar mal de s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. But it doesn\u2019t mean she is weak<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>But all of this didn\u2019t make her weak. These men <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/me-rompiste-el-corazon-pero-no-me-rompiste-a-mi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">broke her heart but they didn\u2019t manage to break her<\/a> and that is her biggest success. Although she doesn\u2019t know it, everything that she\u2019s been through actually made her stronger than she ever was.<\/p>\n<p>She survived some things she thought she could never overcome. And although all of the men in her life changed her, they didn\u2019t kill her spirit. Instead, she saw how powerful and strong she really is and she realized that there doesn\u2019t exist anyone who could destroy her completely.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she is ready to face all of life\u2019s difficulties stronger than ever. That means that you shouldn\u2019t even try to put her down or to abuse her in any way because trust me, that is something she won\u2019t put up with.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. She doesn\u2019t ask for much<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Another thing you need to know about this woman before you become her boyfriend is that she doesn\u2019t ask for much. She doesn\u2019t need anything material and she won\u2019t expect expensive gifts and fancy dinners.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t be possessive and will never try to control you nor will she try to invade your personal space or integrity. Instead, the only things she will ask for are your love and attention and she is not ready to settle for less than that.<\/p>\n<p>And if you think that this is something you can\u2019t give to her, maybe it\u2019s time to walk away this instant.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Necesita paciencia<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>But just because she doesn\u2019t ask for much, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll have it easy with her. As you already know, she\u2019s been through a lot and she lost trust in the people around her.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you\u2019ll have to be extremely patient to tear down the thick and high walls she\u2019s been building for years. I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014it will take you a lot of energy, time and effort to get to this girl.<\/p>\n<p>Y estoy aqu\u00ed para decirles que ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil de manejar y desafiante de tratar. Pero eso es lo que la distingue de todas las dem\u00e1s chicas y lo que la hace especial y \u00fanica.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Ella te dar\u00e1 toda su<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>After everything you\u2019ve found out, you probably think that this girl is too much for you to handle and that she is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/lo-siento-si-mi-ansiedad-me-hace-dificil-de-amar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dif\u00edcil de amar<\/a>. Y no estoy aqu\u00ed para tratar de demostrar que est\u00e1s equivocado.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you will need to invest a lot of your time, energy and patience if you want to be with this girl. But trust me on one thing\u2014she will definitely be worthy of everything.<\/p>\n<p>If you treat her right, this girl will give you all of her. If you love and respect her enough, you will get even more in return. This woman will love you unconditionally, and you\u2019ll see that she is more than worthy.&nbsp;<!--\/codes_iframe--> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve met a girl. And you assume that she is the same as every other girl you\u2019ve met in your life. But trust me\u2014you are more than wrong. This girl is one of a kind and this is something you need to be aware of before you think of becoming her boyfriend. 1. 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