{"id":18103,"date":"2020-05-27T06:39:45","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T06:39:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18103"},"modified":"2021-10-28T13:45:59","modified_gmt":"2021-10-28T13:45:59","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-tienes-que-hacer-cuando-el-elija-a-otra-mujer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-tienes-que-hacer-cuando-el-elija-a-otra-mujer\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que tienes que hacer cuando \u00e9l elige a otra mujer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ah\u00ed estabas, en la cima de tu vida, plenamente vivo. Estabas enamorado y pensabas que nada podr\u00eda separaros, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Nunca hubo necesidad de celos, porque los celos son un signo de inseguridad y t\u00fa estabas tan segura de que nadie podr\u00eda romper jam\u00e1s el amor que sent\u00edas por ti misma.<\/p>\n

Pero de alguna manera, tu amor por \u00e9l era m\u00e1s fuerte. Era hipnotizante y maravilloso.<\/p>\n

Hasta que eligi\u00f3 a otra mujer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este es el momento en el que empiezas a hacerte preguntas como: \u00bfAlguna vez fui lo suficientemente bueno? \u00bfNo valgo nada?<\/p>\n

Is she better than I am? Why? But you won’t get the answers to these questions because none of these things matter anymore\u2014he’s gone and you need to move on.<\/p>\n

Cuando \u00e9l elige a otra mujer, tienes plena libertad para llorar.<\/strong> Cry it out. You will feel much better afterward, when you know that you haven’t been holding it inside you for too long.<\/p>\n

Just make sure that he doesn’t see your tears. He isn’t worthy of looking at those wonderful, sparkly eyes ever again and he doesn’t deserve to know that he inflicted pain on the only woman who wanted to make him happy.<\/p>\n

Cuando elija a otra mujer, perd\u00f3nate a ti misma.<\/strong> It’s not your fault.<\/p>\n

I know that it’s hard to believe that it wasn’t something you did that drove him away but rather that he wasn’t the right man for you.<\/p>\n

He wasn’t worthy of you in the first place, so why do you need to take the blame for it? Don’t. Forgive yourself, if you have anything to forgive.<\/p>\n

Cuando elija a otra mujer, perd\u00f3nale.<\/strong> He probably didn’t know better than this.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He didn’t realize what he was losing<\/a> en ese momento concreto en que la eligi\u00f3 y, aunque as\u00ed fuera, guardar rencor no tendr\u00eda sentido.<\/p>\n

Una vez le\u00ed que enfadarse con alguien es como beber veneno pero esperar que la otra persona muera.<\/p>\n

Cuando elija a otra mujer, \u00e1mate a ti misma.<\/strong> Necesitas quererte siempre a ti misma, pero ahora es cuando m\u00e1s lo necesitas.<\/p>\n

Love yourself unconditionally and don’t depend on other people to love you.<\/p>\n

You don’t need a man in your life to feel loved and appreciated, you only need yourself. You really are your own hero in these situations.<\/p>\n

When he chooses another woman, don’t blame her.<\/strong> Love doesn’t choose its victims, love just loves. If those two fell in love then holding grudges against her won’t help you heal.<\/p>\n

In this case, they’re better off together because you finally know who the people you can count on are and who the people who will stab you in the back when they see the opportunity are.<\/p>\n

Cuando elija a otra mujer, c\u00e9ntrate en ti.<\/strong> C\u00e9ntrate en tus sue\u00f1os y en todo lo que conllevan.<\/p>\n

I know that it might seem like you’re running away from reality but you’re actually creating a new one.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s creando una vida que eres feliz de vivir<\/a>. Viaja, conoce gente nueva, termina ese proyecto. Eres una mujer fuerte e independiente. Aprov\u00e9chalo.<\/p>\n

When he chooses another woman, don’t get even.<\/strong> La mejor venganza es seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

He will only see that you still care too much about him and he doesn’t deserve to see you angry because of him.<\/p>\n

Dale la espalda y sigue adelante. Despu\u00e9s te sentir\u00e1s en paz.<\/p>\n

Cuando elija a otra mujer, d\u00e9jalo ir.<\/strong> Let go of everything that doesn’t serve you anymore.<\/p>\n

Keep the good memories and the lessons you’ve learned because they will make you stronger but you don’t have to hold on to him and the feelings you had.<\/p>\n

Deja ir y lib\u00e9rate de todo lo que ha pasado. Te estar\u00e1s haciendo un gran favor.<\/p>\n

Don’t dwell and don’t fall apart again. He chose her and that was his decision. You have nothing to do with it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You are lovable and you are worthy of love and appreciation, it’s just that he wasn’t able to give you what you deserved.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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