{"id":18160,"date":"2021-03-20T06:58:48","date_gmt":"2021-03-20T06:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18160"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:38:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:38:44","slug":"dejar-de-perseguirlo-y-ver-que-pasa-6-posibles-resultados","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dejar-de-perseguirlo-y-ver-que-pasa-6-posibles-resultados\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de perseguirle y mira lo que pasa (6 cosas incre\u00edbles)"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m talking to every woman who’s giving way too much of herself into her relationship and you should listen to me carefully because you’re about to get the most important dating advice ever; deja de perseguirlo, <\/a>dejar de esperar a que devolverte el mensaje<\/a>y a ver qu\u00e9 pasa.<\/p>\n

And trust me, wonderful things will start happening. For starters, your man will start respecting you more and it’ll also be a huge boost for your self-worth.<\/p>\n

Y, si decide seguir todos los dem\u00e1s consejos y trucos ofrecidos en Guiones de encaprichamiento<\/a> he\u2019ll be the one doing all the work to make the relationship blossom, trust me on this one.<\/p>\n

Lo cierto es que el mayor error que cometemos la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres es dar 110% de nosotras mismas en nuestras relaciones y mostrarnos demasiado fuertes ante los hombres.<\/p>\n

Seguimos persigui\u00e9ndolos y seguimos olvidando que en realidad las cosas deber\u00edan ser al rev\u00e9s. <\/b><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sabes, lo gracioso es que sigo escribiendo c\u00f3mo necesitamos esperar a que los hombres nos persigan, c\u00f3mo merecemos ser perseguidas.<\/p>\n

Y sigo dici\u00e9ndome deja de perseguir el amor<\/a>a deja de perseguirlo<\/a>...pero a\u00fan as\u00ed, me estoy rompiendo el culo para que mi relaci\u00f3n funcione.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY por qu\u00e9? \u00bfPor cinco minutos de su tiempo? \u00bfPor cinco minutos de amor? \u00a1Al diablo!<\/p>\n

Merecemos que nos persigan, as\u00ed que \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 somos nosotros los que perseguimos?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 somos nosotros los que damos todo de nosotros mismos, esforz\u00e1ndonos tanto para que las cosas sucedan? Para mantener una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll tell you why we do what we do\u2013 because we are raised and taught that we should take care of our relationship.<\/p>\n

But it takes two to tango! It takes two for love \u2013 it takes two for a healthy relationship. There\u2019s no point in being the only one who tries and fights.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no point in making excuses for him not treating you right just because you\u2019re a good person, nor in waiting forever for him to change.<\/p>\n

Debe comprender que <\/b>you don\u2019t deserve to be an option<\/b><\/a> to someone whom you\u2019re treating like a priority.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, this one goes out to those who\u2019ve had enough of busting their asses off for the wrong men!<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa cuando dejas de perseguir a un hombre?<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/a>The most amazing thing happens\u2015your man starts looking at you in a whole different way. He’ll understand that you aren’t a woman without self-respect and that he might actually lose a woman who truly loves him which will capture his interest for sure.<\/p>\n

I know you’re now probably wondering things like what happens when you deja de perseguirlo<\/a> or will he come back, but don’t worry. This tactic will bring him back to you sooner than you think.<\/p>\n

He’ll be scared that he might lose you and that will haz que te persiga<\/a> for a change. Of course, this is only true if it’s amor verdadero<\/a>… If your man honestly loves you and wants to keep you in his life.<\/p>\n

Quiero ayudarte revel\u00e1ndote 6 cosas que suceder\u00e1n con seguridad despu\u00e9s de que dejes de perseguirte, pero tambi\u00e9n puedes esperar muchos otros resultados positivos de este m\u00e9todo tan eficiente.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll miss you<\/h3>\n

\"silueta\u201cYou never know what you have until it\u2019s gone,\u201d that\u2019s scientifically proven. And there\u2019s a high possibility of this one coming true for him as well!<\/p>\n

Once you start putting yourself first and giving all of that energy you wasted on him to yourself, he\u2019ll realize that te echa de menos<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Disfrutaba de la atenci\u00f3n que le prestabas, le gustaba ser el perseguido, y ahora que todo eso ha desaparecido, lo echa de menos.<\/p>\n

Una vez que <\/b>dejar de perseguir<\/b> le<\/b><\/a>, he\u2019ll miss your laugh, your smile, your incredible energy that kept him going.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pero echa un buen vistazo a tu vida de antes y a tu vida de ahora.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re enjoying the way you get to take care of yourself, the way you get to treat yourself as a queen, the way you truly deserve to be treated, is he really worthy of giving it all away?<\/p>\n

Si todav\u00eda espera que le persigas, despu\u00e9s de semanas prest\u00e1ndote la m\u00ednima atenci\u00f3n, debe de estar mal de la cabeza.<\/p>\n

Y s\u00e9 lo dif\u00edcil que es alejarse<\/a> from something you put so much effort into, I know it\u2019s hard to stop chasing someone you are truly into.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s high time he starts chasing you! It\u2019s time he gives you that kind of love you deserve. And if he doesn\u2019t do it, you know what you ought to do!<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll start chasing you<\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/a>This is the time when he starts thinking selfishly. He\u2019ll think about how good it is to spend time with you, how much it meant for him to have you by his side.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll recall all those dates when you had a great time together and naturally want to relive them again.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019re not there anymore, so the next step is to start persigui\u00e9ndote de nuevo<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Los hombres son cazadores por naturaleza, pero b\u00e1sicamente disfrutan tanto persiguiendo como siendo perseguidos.<\/b><\/p>\n

La combinaci\u00f3n perfecta es darle la oportunidad de hacer ambas cosas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tuviste tu parte de juego de persecuci\u00f3n. Le has demostrado que te interesa, que hac\u00e9is buena pareja y que ten\u00e9is muchas cosas en com\u00fan.<\/p>\n

You demonstrated to him that spending time with you is great and texting all day long isn\u2019t boring at all. Now it\u2019s time for him to return the favor.<\/b><\/p>\n

Solicitar <\/b>el <\/b>Norma de no contacto<\/b><\/a> y deja de enviarle mensajes de texto y de llamarle, ten cuidado con publicar muchas fotos en <\/b>redes sociales<\/b>, deja de darle a conocer tu vida, y empieza a actuar como el premio y, bueno, finge que sois s\u00f3lo conocidos.<\/b><\/p>\n

This will turn on the panic button in his brain that he\u2019s losing you and his hunting mode is going to activate.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, I\u2019m not making this shit up. (This is the most valuable dating advice I\u2019ve received last year.)<\/p>\n

In this phase of cutting him off and \u201cmoving on,\u201d he\u2019ll start texting you and making time for you!<\/p>\n

When you decide to stop chasing him, he\u2019ll make the first move and send you the most random stuff there is to send, just to start a conversation with you. He\u2019ll tell you every single event that happened last week.<\/p>\n

Puede que incluso empiece a hablar de signos del zodiaco, siempre que eso signifique establecer comunicaci\u00f3n contigo.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll shower you with compliments and every time you take them well, he\u2019ll fill up with pride.<\/p>\n

Men want you to notice that they\u2019re working hard because it makes them feel good about themselves and boosts their <\/b>autoestima<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, every time he leaves you speechless with his \u201cseduction skills,\u201d he\u2019ll take it as a reward.<\/p>\n

And voil\u00e0 \u2013 you got yourself a chaser just when you stopped chasing him. (Plus, you got yourself a whole bunch of free time in the process).<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 6 maneras de hacer que se arrepienta de no haberte tratado bien<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll start noticing men who are actually interested in chasing you<\/h3>\n

\"hombreThere\u2019s no chance you can notice anyone that is actually interesado en ti<\/a> while you\u2019re chasing someone else. That\u2019s the way it works.<\/p>\n

You have eyes only for him, so you don\u2019t see a man who is utterly in love with you.<\/p>\n

You have ears only for him, so you can\u2019t hear love in someone else\u2019s voice.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re waiting for his text messages only, so it\u2019s hard to focus on texting with someone else.<\/p>\n

Because love for him took over you, you couldn\u2019t see hombres que se sentir\u00edan honrados de tenerte a su lado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Fuiste incapaz de darte cuenta de todos esos <\/b>buenos chicos<\/b> que est\u00e9n interesados en <\/b>relaciones duraderas<\/b> y <\/b>relaciones sanas<\/b>en lugar de <\/b>narcisistas<\/b> (disfrazados de chicos buenos) que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1n interesados en jugar contigo.<\/b><\/p>\n

And now it\u2019s time you give yourself a chance to do exactly that. Just because you pulled away, doesn\u2019t mean your love stopped.<\/p>\n

Pero en lugar de pensar en cortarla por completo, piensa simplemente en ponerla en espera.<\/p>\n

You haven\u2019t given up on him totally, you\u2019re just taking a break (think of it as an imaginary relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/a>).<\/p>\n

And don\u2019t be afraid to open up to other men while you\u2019re doing so. You don\u2019t have to let them in or look for love, just give someone else a chance to entertain you.<\/p>\n

Deja que otra persona tenga la oportunidad de formar parte de tu vida, tal vez como un amigo o ese chico guapo del bar que te levanta el \u00e1nimo (qui\u00e9n sabe, tal vez incluso podr\u00eda ser <\/b>su <\/b>alma gemela<\/b><\/a>).<\/b><\/p>\n

You never know what life can bring you and you never will if you close off to it. So, don\u2019t be afraid to take risks.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to meet new people. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll be pleasantly surprised in the end!<\/p>\n

Menos malas citas = m\u00e1s tiempo libre<\/h3>\n

\"MujerThe thing with men who want to be chased is that they\u2019re not really interested in you but simply necesita que le suban el ego<\/a>. And you\u2019re the one who\u2019s giving it to him.<\/p>\n

The love you have for him makes it easier for you to make many excuses for his behavior, so many compromises and sacrifices you wouldn\u2019t normally make. But is he worth them all?<\/p>\n

Cada vez que estabais juntos, ten\u00edas la sensaci\u00f3n de que era tiempo prestado, que era b\u00e1sicamente el \u00fanico momento que ten\u00eda libre en su agenda, en lugar de que \u00e9l lo despejara para ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because that\u2019s what you do when you like someone \u2013 that\u2019s what you did for him. And now that you\u2019re no longer going on all those bad dates, you have much more free time for yourself!<\/p>\n

Todo ese tiempo que pasaste esper\u00e1ndolo, ahora tienes que hacer realidad tus sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

Todo ese tiempo que pasaste obsesionada con \u00e9l, pregunt\u00e1ndote qu\u00e9 demonios pasaba por su cabeza, puedes dedicarlo a tus pasiones y a tu vida.<\/p>\n

Tienes la oportunidad de encontrar lo que te hace feliz, de descubrir los muchos beneficios de la vida de soltero<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Cuando te enamoras de tu vida, todo lo dem\u00e1s encaja. Incluso tu vida amorosa.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get to rekindle your relations with your friends<\/h3>\n

\"mujerA veces tendemos a perdernos tanto en el amor que poco a poco nos alejamos de nuestra gente, de nuestros amigos y familiares.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be anything huge, but it\u2019s still enough to feel distant when you finally do meet up with them.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t even have to be noticeable, but you can still feel it \u2013 in the way you can\u2019t open up about struggles you\u2019re going through, the way you fear that they may judge you for it. But they are your people; they\u2019ll never judge you.<\/b><\/p>\n

They\u2019re the ones who\u2019ve seen you ugly cry and still love you after it.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re the ones who held your hair while you were throwing up and they still love you.<\/p>\n

Tus mejores amigos son<\/a> the ones who were by your side while you were going through breakups, the same ones who helped you to glue your broken heart back together. And they\u2019ll always be the ones to have your back.<\/p>\n

Y \u00e9sta es una gran oportunidad para reavivar esas relaciones.<\/b><\/p>\n

Planifique una escapada de fin de semana y vaya a catar vinos con tus mejores amigos<\/a> o simplemente hacer una fiesta de pijamas de fin de semana con un mont\u00f3n de pel\u00edculas est\u00fapidas y comida basura.<\/p>\n

Hit the clubs and have new adventures, something you\u2019ll tell your grandkids about.<\/p>\n

Think about this time as a perfect opportunity to pretend like there\u2019s no tomorrow and tonight is the last night.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que haz que cuente. Y todas las noches siguientes y todas las ma\u00f1anas siguientes.<\/b><\/p>\n

Piensa en ello como una oportunidad de hacer de tu vida algo verdaderamente extraordinario.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Cuando dejes de perseguir a los chicos equivocados, te encontrar\u00e1 el correcto<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll start enjoying your life<\/h3>\n

\"amigasThis is probably the best outcome of them all. This is the one where you fall in love with your life instead of falling in love with some asshole who doesn\u2019t know how to appreciate you.<\/p>\n

Este es el desenlace en el que por fin ves que fue \u00e9l quien apag\u00f3 tu luz, que fue \u00e9l quien te quit\u00f3 la chispa.<\/b><\/p>\n

No especialmente porque sea un capullo, sino simplemente porque te ha quitado partes de ti y nunca te ha dado nada a cambio.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re giving parts of yourself to someone, when you\u2019re putting in so much effort, so much willpower, and so much love into someone, only for that someone to never give anything back, you\u2019re left hollow.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re left empty and drained, just because you never received any of it back.<\/b><\/p>\n

And it\u2019s simple as that. But once you learn how to be on your own, once you start enjoying spending time with yourself and handling the hard craft of self-love, you\u2019ll be struck by how amazing life can be.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll aumentar la confianza en s\u00ed mismo<\/a> and laugh at your past decision to tolerate other people\u2019s bullshit in the first place. And you\u2019ll enjoy every single second of it!<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe dan cuenta los chicos cuando dejas de perseguirlos?<\/h2>\n

\"mujerOf course, they do. If your man is truly in love with you, he’ll notice immediately that you’re pulling away and he’ll react immediately because he doesn’t want to lose you.<\/p>\n

Men easily get used to all the attention they get from a woman who deeply loves them. However, it makes them relax a bit and they stop putting effort into their relationship after a while because they think she’ll always be there.<\/p>\n

Una vez que desaparece toda esa atenci\u00f3n, enseguida tienen la sensaci\u00f3n de que algo no va bien.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you show him that you’re tired of putting so much effort into your relationship, that you’re sick of being in a one-sided relationship and that you’re finally putting yourself in the first place in your life, it’ll make him appreciate and respect you on a whole new level.<\/p>\n

Trust me, the most valuable dating advice you’ll ever get is to stop persigui\u00e9ndolo<\/a> and see what happens. Not only you’ll make your hombre interesado en ti<\/a> again, but it’ll also make him fall for you even harder.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo dejar de perseguir a un chico y hacer que te persiga a ti?<\/h2>\n

\"jovenCon el fin de deja de perseguir a un chico<\/a>, you’ll first need to master the art of understanding men, which isn’t that difficult at all. You just need to give him some space and make him understand that you won’t be there forever, waiting for him to make up his mind.<\/p>\n

Tienes que volver a centrarte en ti mismo. Trabaja en ti mismo y m\u00e1rcate el objetivo de convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Rod\u00e9ate de positividad y haz compa\u00f1\u00eda a quienes no te aporten m\u00e1s que vibraciones y energ\u00eda positivas. Esas personas sabr\u00e1n c\u00f3mo mantener tu mente ocupada para que no pienses en \u00e9l ni en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Understand that you’re living your <\/b>la mejor vida<\/b> and that you don’t have time to waste it on <\/b>chasing people who don’t deserve you <\/b><\/a>en absoluto.<\/b><\/p>\n

In the beginning, it’ll probably be very difficult for you and you’ll feel a whole range of emotions and it might feel like the weirdest heartbreak you ever had because you must ignore someone you love the most.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, todo ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil al d\u00eda siguiente (o quiz\u00e1 tu hombre necesite unos d\u00edas m\u00e1s para entenderlo todo) cuando recibas un mensaje de texto suyo pidi\u00e9ndote que habl\u00e9is, qued\u00e9is o lo que sea.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is that if a guy wants to keep you in his life, he’ll do everything to make that happen. If he’s the right guy for you, the one who truly loves you, he’ll never let you go.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/b>C\u00f3mo <\/b>Dejar de perseguir<\/b> Los hombres recuperan su poder<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que un chico se interese por ti despu\u00e9s de haberle perseguido demasiado?<\/h2>\n

\"unaWhether you want to get your ex-boyfriend back or you just want to make the guy you like fall head over heels for you, there’s only one thing you should do; deja de perseguirlo<\/a> y ver qu\u00e9 pasa.<\/p>\n

Simply, show him that you have your own life and that you are sick of chasing someone who is ignoring you. Show him that he isn’t the only priority in your life and that you can continue with your life without him being a part of it.<\/p>\n

The reason you chased him so tirelessly is that you’re suffering from low self-worth. That’s why you need to work on your self-esteem and convi\u00e9rtete en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Probablemente piense que ya lo sabe todo sobre ti, pero debes demostrarle que se equivoca. Una mujer con un aire de misterio a su alrededor es algo a lo que ning\u00fan hombre es capaz de resistirse.<\/b><\/p>\n

Maybe you’ve chased him for way too much and you think all of this is hopeless, but this method works like magic, trust me.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, debes comprender que eres t\u00fa quien merece ser perseguido. Mereces que te traten con respeto y aprecio.<\/p>\n

Te mereces todo el amor que sigues dando a los dem\u00e1s y sabes, en el fondo, que de verdad lo mereces.<\/p>\n

Utilice ESTA GU\u00cdA<\/a> y todo eso y mucho m\u00e1s ocurrir\u00e1 en poco tiempo.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que abre los ojos y deja de perseguirlo y ver\u00e1s lo que pasa<\/a>. Stop chasing him and, as crazy as it sounds, it’ll make him fall head over heels for you.<\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"unaKeep in mind that whatever the outcome of this may be, it\u2019ll still be better than being stuck in a relaci\u00f3n unilateral<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll still beat being taken for granted and not treated the way you deserve.<\/p>\n

Now, I understand that you may be terrified of doing this because he\u2019s the one you love and you still think that he’s the <\/b>hombre adecuado<\/b> for you. He’s actually the only man you decided to let in and he gambled it away.<\/b><\/p>\n

You may be scared to death of trying to be on your own, now that you are so used to having him around, even though you know that he shouldn\u2019t be there anymore.<\/p>\n

Pero es un riesgo que debes correr.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, para persigui\u00e9ndolo<\/a> and see what happens \u2013 you\u2019ll either lose someone you never really had or gain someone who\u2019ll be worthy of you. Either way, it\u2019s definitely a win-win situation!<\/p>\n

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