{"id":18194,"date":"2020-10-30T10:07:24","date_gmt":"2020-10-30T10:07:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18194"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:47:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:47:55","slug":"lo-siento-pero-tengo-que-cortarte-por-mi-propio-bien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-siento-pero-tengo-que-cortarte-por-mi-propio-bien\/","title":{"rendered":"Lo siento pero tengo que cortarte por mi propio bien"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know very well that I\u2019ve always been someone who se ocup\u00f3 de los dem\u00e1s<\/a> y que se pon\u00eda a s\u00ed misma en \u00faltimo lugar. Siempre quise asegurarme de que todos los que me rodeaban se sintieran bien y de que sus necesidades estuvieran cubiertas antes de pensar siquiera en cuidar de m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

Siempre fui una chica que se entregaba por completo a la gente y alguien que pensaba que pod\u00eda salvar el mundo.<\/p>\n

Y \u00e9ste fue especialmente tu caso. Cuando te conoc\u00ed, vi que estabas emocionalmente da\u00f1ada y herida.<\/p>\n

Vi que tu coraz\u00f3n y tu alma estaban marcados. Vi que te enfrentabas a cuestiones y problemas m\u00e1s profundos.<\/p>\n

Pero en vez de alejarme de ti y en vez de entender que necesitabas ayuda profesional, me lo tom\u00e9 como un reto.<\/p>\n

Pens\u00e9 que pod\u00eda ser yo quien te ayudara y estaba seguro de que podr\u00eda salvarte. Pensaba solo necesitabas a alguien para curar tus heridas<\/a> \u00bfy qui\u00e9n mejor para el trabajo que yo?<\/p>\n

Al principio, todo iba muy bien. Actuabas como si me quisieras y sigo pensando que era verdad, a pesar de todas las cosas que pasaron entre nosotros despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

You were a loving and caring guy who would do anything for the sake of our relationship. And silly me thought that I showed you what real love was and thought I\u2019d awakened the good man in you.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

But after a while, you changed. I don\u2019t know whether you just showed your true colors and if you grew tired of pretending you were someone you weren\u2019t or you just se cans\u00f3 de m\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>\n

De cualquier manera, despu\u00e9s de algunos meses, empezaste a tratarme como una mierda. Nada de lo que hac\u00eda era lo suficientemente bueno. Buscabas constantemente mis imperfecciones y defectos y me culpabas de todo lo malo que hab\u00eda entre nosotros y de todo lo malo de tu vida.<\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you weren\u2019t putting any effort into our relationship and you started taking me for granted. You were always so negative and pessimistic and you weren\u2019t ready to do anything to change that.<\/p>\n

So consequently, I became just like you but I didn\u2019t want to accept it. Instead of me saving you, you changed me.<\/p>\n

Me convertiste en esta mujer amargada y negativa sin que me diera cuenta. Me arrastraste a tu mundo y en vez de ayudarte yo a luchar con tus demonios, ellos nos conquistaron a los dos.<\/p>\n

Me tom\u00f3 mucho tiempo darme cuenta de esto, pero de alguna manera lo hice. Y por eso necesito alejarme de ti, antes de que yo tambi\u00e9n me da\u00f1e por completo.<\/p>\n

You probably think I am selfish for doing this but I really need to walk away from you. You obviously don\u2019t want to be saved but I need to at least try and save myself.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t stay around someone who makes me insecure and who always makes me question my worth. I can\u2019t stay with someone who doesn\u2019t think I\u2019m good enough and who doesn\u2019t value all the sacrifices I made for him.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t be with someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate me and never will. I can\u2019t stay with someone who doesn\u2019t treat me the way I deserve to be treated.<\/p>\n

You know I never asked for much, I just wanted your love and respect. But you couldn\u2019t even give me that.<\/p>\n

Sabes que te acept\u00e9 por lo que eras, s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que te convirtieras en la mejor versi\u00f3n posible de ti mismo por tu propio bien. Y sabes que todo lo que hice, lo hice por tu propio bien.<\/p>\n

Pero por fin estoy haciendo algo por mi propio bien. Esta soy yo eligi\u00e9ndome a m\u00ed misma por encima de ti por primera vez y esta soy yo queri\u00e9ndome a m\u00ed misma m\u00e1s de lo que te quiero a ti.<\/p>\n

Esta soy yo salv\u00e1ndome y cur\u00e1ndome. Este soy yo apreciando y amando a m\u00ed mismo, la forma en que nunca lo hizo.<\/p>\n

It breaks my heart to cut you off but it is something that has to be done. And I don\u2019t know if you\u2019ll ever forgive me for doing this but I hope there will come a day when you\u2019ll understand.<\/p>\n

And to be honest, I don\u2019t know if I will ever be able to forgive myself for leaving you.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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